ok im going 2 a new school and i hav a new friend.. she and i both like the same guy... and unfortunately he won't tell ne 1 who he likes at the moment... and he never tells ne 1 if its the newest person i school.... and im not sure if he likes me... but my friend says he does.... she isn't mad at me... but i dont' want 2 her 2 no that i like him.... what should i do 2 find out if he likes me? should i ask him myself?
summerxbaybee answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 5:23 pm: Hey hun ! I agree with others, talk to your friend about it.. she must not like him anymore, Can you tell by the way she says "he likes you?" Is it the little snobbyish way, jealous.. ? By the tone of her voice I mean, Well if not then tell her you really do like him.. If your gona ask him I'd personally ask him alone, not with a friend unless you really want to . Well good luck sweetheart! <3<3Lynsi [ summerxbaybee's advice column | Ask summerxbaybee A Question ]
augustagurrl answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 5:06 pm: talk to your friend about it. maybe she doesnt like him anymore! however if you do find out who this guy likes...dont go out with him unless you have permission from your friend. remember..boyfriends and crushes are gonna come and go..but friendships last forever. and you really dont want to lose a friend over something like this.
hope i help
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Van_10 answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 4:36 pm: if you have any respect for your friend , you wouldnt go out withh him, but if its fine by your friend then its okay because if you don't tell her you could get bad karma, because what goes around comes around,
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Kr4z3y_Ch3lly answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 4:13 pm: well you need to confess to your friend that you like him as soon as possible cause if everyone finds out he does like you and then you two go out your friend will think you just want to be with him cause he likes you. so tell her and confess that youve liked him for a while...she might already think that your just liking him cause he likes you since you waited to long to tell her but its ok! and also tell him you like him...then if he does like you..it will make it easyer for him to tell you he likes you knowing that you like him back! good luck hun
Karen answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 3:33 pm: You should tell your friend, yourself, that you like him because she will eventually find out somehow and see if she's alright with that. As for the whole finding out if this guy likes you, you should either ask him yourself or ask someone that knows him pretty well and you'll find out that way. Just don't keep your feelings for this guy away from your friend because she could get mad but you should tell her. [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
VanityScore answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 3:14 pm: Definently ask!! There's got to be a reason he's not telling anyone.. or maybe he's just shy about it, or something along those lines... you never know until you find out.
You should probably tell your friend that you like this guy... and ask her if she's okay with it. And if you decide to date him.. definently ask her if she's okay with it. Why let a guy come between your friendship? Make sure you're honest with her... because if you're not, it'll come back to haunt you later. [ VanityScore's advice column | Ask VanityScore A Question ]
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