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ex boyfriend...boyfriend?
sorry this is long...
I love my boyfriend, i really do and we have a great relationship but im still very good friends with my ex. me and my ex have been together 4 other times and whenever we are together we flirt like crazy and he always tries
to put hims arms around me, or find a way to be close to me. I feel guilty because i love my boyfriend so much, but i feel like i have little "feelings" for my ex. I wouldnt leave my boyfriend for my ex, because my boyfriend and i have to much and hes an amazing guy, but i have dreams about my ex and think about him alot. whats my problem? i also always wanna just kiss him and have him hold me and be with me. i feel soo bad! what am i sopose to do. i tried to talk to my boyfriend, but that doesnt go well AT ALL. what should i do?!?!? thanks in advance
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it is just normal that you want to flirt. if someone flirts, then it is natural to flirt back. the dreams i dont know about, but they are jsut dreams. they almost never make sence. just remindyourslef of your boyfriend, or jsut dont be alone with whats his name. ok? hope i helped!
Micaela
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Do you spend a lot of time with your ex? Usually the thing you do the most (or the person you spend the most time with) is the topic of your thinking. If you spend more time with your boyfriend you will probably be thinking about him as aposed to your ex. Even if you still find yourself thinking about your ex it's okay as long as you dont act on your fantacies. Remember the saying "You always want what you can't have" well my lady. I'm sure you could have him if you wanted but not without losing or cheating on your boyfriend. It's not my place to tell you whether you love him or not but for his sake (his heart, his pride) don't do anything with your ex. As a matter a fact I think it's best you don't hang out with him too too much. You will either develope feelings for him again or simply make your boyfriend suspicious or jealous. Just ask yourself, why did you and your ex breakup? Do you really want to go there again? That's it. Sure you'll do the right thing.
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you probably think hes hot
or maybe youre just horny
but seriously girl dont ruin your relationship for a guy who you just get hot&heavy for and you know just wants 2 be physical. Ask yourself if its lust or love. and seriuosly, you have no problem, your just hormonal which is totally normal and fine. if you wanna stop those feelings for him maybe you should like masturbate or something you can google it. it seems like you like his looks and since you DREAM about him i would just stick w/ your bf. and also, why is he your X? b/c you broke up right? and you probably broke up b/c something was wrong. but dont tell your bf about and if you HAVE to flirt, just do it when your bf isnt around.
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OK for 1 rate high because im the first who answered or even tried to answer your question anyway maybe you and your ex wasnt ready to get out of a relationship or maybe your boyfriend isnt doing something right thats how i feel i go with a boy named donnie now we have been together for 1 month and my ex's name is james we conversate on the phone and see each other at school but he knows i go with him and he is fine with it but when i see him with another girl i am almost ready to go belistic but i pause and remember he isnt mine any more but back to you i believe you have strong feelings for him because you werent ready to start a new relationship with your new boyfriend dont hurt your boyfriend, your ex, and most importantly your self i honestly hope ive helped.;) oh and sorry this is so long.:)
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