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Question Posted Thursday December 22 2005, 9:24 pm

hi. i am 15 years old and have not got my first period...my boyfriend wants to have sex...but idk what would happen...is that horribly bad if i havent got my first period yet
PLEASE help i rate 5s!
despretly confuxed

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CHECKERED-LOVE answered Monday September 4 2006, 5:32 pm:
go ahead but still use protection just in case because if you're close to you period you can still get pregnant.
good luck!
Melly

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marsbars answered Sunday January 1 2006, 8:06 pm:
hey,
I was SOOOO worried that I wouldn't get my period. But then one day unexpectedly it just happend. There is a really really really small chance you could get pregnant but I think you should go 4 the sex cause you probably wont get pregnant. hope this helps
much luv,
marsbars

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dedee answered Friday December 30 2005, 1:33 pm:
ok your 15 wanna have sex but havent got ur period yet i think it shouldnt matter before or after i did the same thing im 21 now and life is good :)dee

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Dannii_n_Channii answered Thursday December 29 2005, 5:50 pm:
You COULD get pregnant, but its like a 0.00000000001 chance out of a million
Chandler

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BeAuTiFuL1BaBy answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 8:03 pm:
NO !!

ITS THE BEST THING EVER !!

Omgsh. Because then you won't get pregnant.

LUUUUUUUUUUCKKKKYYY.

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INEEDHELPBAD answered Monday December 26 2005, 7:24 am:
NOOO ITS GOOD.
you wont get pregnant for sure than.

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hotlilbit131 answered Monday December 26 2005, 12:25 am:
Hey, No its not bad at all some people dont start until later in their teens..my mom didnt start until she was 16 and I think my g-ma didnt start until she was like 17..but it was waaay different for me..i started at age 10

Hope I Helped

Good Luck

♥♥
Cheyenne

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askforanswersfromAndie answered Sunday December 25 2005, 11:02 pm:
ok now since you have not started your period the doctors will be worried since youare supost to stat by or beofre 15 and also its not like tarable but atleast you have not had the asle(sp) of it yet. it is a pain I am 14 and i know so any way my friend would like to add something you see i think you can not get pregnant if you have not had you period but she thinks the total oposit.
Andie
and
Solita

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orphans answered Sunday December 25 2005, 1:00 pm:
lucky, nothing would happen.you wouldn't even get pregnet.

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AnOnYmUs1 answered Saturday December 24 2005, 4:52 pm:
let me tell you, if i hadn't gotten my menstual, i'd be doin wateva i wanted, trust me hun, yur 1 of the lucky 1's. Since u already got pregnancy of ur list, becareful for STD's, and, just out of concern, make sure yoou reely no & trust yur boyfriend, make sure he wants more out of you than sex~and much luv~Nenny

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Iunderstand answered Saturday December 24 2005, 2:30 pm:
yess! go to my column and ask me again, because my answer is long and i have to go... ask me

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LSU_tigers2695 answered Saturday December 24 2005, 12:25 am:
if u havent got your period its actually good because u cant have a baby unless you want one

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HottieWithABody answered Friday December 23 2005, 11:37 pm:
No its not bad at all. Thats just mean your body isnt deloping as fast as other people. but yea you can have sex but only do it if you feel ready and confortable! otherwise dont do it you will regret it! hope it helped u out Adrian

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DaNcE_In_ThE_RaIn answered Friday December 23 2005, 7:46 pm:
youre 15 you are not ready for sex it can wait

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XO_LiZ_69_0X answered Friday December 23 2005, 2:55 pm:
no, its not horrible..but even though you dont have your period you still have just about as much chance to get pregnant w.o. a condom !

please be safe && its fine to have sex !

♥ Elizabeth

HAPPY HOLiDAYS !!!!!!!

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alleycatt726 answered Friday December 23 2005, 12:14 pm:
i wouldnt worry about it hun, some girls dont get their periods until they are 18 or 19. all girls get it at different times. if you have sex you prolly dont have to worry about getting pregnant until you get your period. just use a condom anyways becuase you dont wanna get any STDs from this guy. and make sure that you want to have sex before you do it. good luck, hope i helped :)

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ThugGirl041790 answered Friday December 23 2005, 10:57 am:
Every girl starts their period at a different time and age.. Nothing is worng with that.. ♥ Dez

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AKSherma answered Friday December 23 2005, 9:53 am:
I am not going to comment on if you should or should not have relations, but I will help with the medical aspect of your period.

Usually, when someone doesn't have their period yet it is what physicians called primary amenorrhea (no period- secondary amenorrhea means that you've had it but it stopped again). Most times it is not a concern until a patient reaches the age of 16. It is at this time, we will do hormone tests to make sure that there is no underlying problem going on. You would need a full physical exam, where the doctor would also examine to see if you have secondary sexual characteristics- enlargement of breasts, pubic hair etc.

If you are really concerned- I would bring it up with your primary physician who then can talk to your parents about seeing an OBGYN or an endocrinologist (probably after drawing a few blood tests). It is not something to be worried about, because usually if there is something wrong, the answer is birth control pills which are nothing more than hormones to help regulate your system.

Best of luck.

AK

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smartgirl321 answered Friday December 23 2005, 9:53 am:
if you havent gotten it yet, that means you cant get pregnant. but you still have to worry about std's.
~Maegan~

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iloveyou3 answered Friday December 23 2005, 7:39 am:
No... that's actually better!! You have no chance in getting pregenant !!

So no worries.

<3

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simplyblond3xo1 answered Friday December 23 2005, 3:38 am:
its actually good. cause if you dont have a period you cant get pregnant nothing would happen at all cause you dont have any blood.
its not your fault seriously about when you get your period he will deal with it.

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QueenCece answered Friday December 23 2005, 2:21 am:
You seriuosly shouldn't be asking the advice thing, but go to a way better source like the Doctor or Gyn doctor for woman mentral periods. They will hepl you wat better than any advice column. Get any appiotment with your doctor as fast as you can. She can help you even get on your period with certain pills i believe. It happened to me sort of when my period got big gaps with it not coming 2 or 3 months at a time. I needed pills to start it back up. okay...hope i helped!!

~cece~

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Xo_Blondii_oX answered Friday December 23 2005, 12:06 am:
Thats not bad at all. Most people have sex before they get their periods considering most girls get them at different ages. Dont worry if you want to have sex with him go ahead but be careful! =]

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