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thats me on the left and my best friend on the right
Gender: Female
Location: canada
Occupation: hotel manager
Age: 21
Member Since: December 29, 2005
Answers: 14
Last Update: December 30, 2005
Visitors: 1699


ok these girls have partys were they have sex and finger ea other and stuff well they told me it was just somthing like a girls night out just to hang and watch movies so i went and i didnt no that they fingered ea other and stuff but worse guys were there so somone brought beer and i got drunk and they got it on camera of me taking of all my cloths and i guess they video taped it when a guys fingered me and they put it on this like web page and every thing like you could see really clearly like him fingering me they got up close oh my god i wanna move schools everyone thinks oh my god every ones like so i wounder if i can git up in ur pants and say all this shit but do i just wiat until they stop talking about it or i dont know just what do i do? (link)
well it seems to me like you were just drunk and basically when your under the influence of alcohol the good and bad comes out of you same thing happened to me when i was in high school im now 21 hey maybe we could exchange the websites and see who had a wilder night he he he ok hun i hope i answered your question reply back
dedee


I'm 16/f catholic; and I masturbate. Is masturbating a form of lust, thereby making it unacceptable against the commandments? I was just wondering, as I found that I'm virtually addicted, and although it is healthy, I want to know whether it is morally wrong for me.

Cheers. I rate high (link)
hey im 21/f and i still do that dont worry its normal everyone does it and if they say they havent their lying


so im 15, and i've been wearing tampons for quite a while now, and well ive never done this, but ive always wondered if you can pee while the tampon is still in you? because when i try to, it feels like its being pressured out, so i just take it out while i pee and just put a new tampon in.. (link)
you should always change your tampon regurlary remember the disease it can cause you if you dont SSD


I'm trying to eat healthy, and I wanted to know some foods you recommend for the following catagories that are healthy. Please be specific, I need all the guidelines I can get (and I am pairing it with exercise). Thank you!
Breakfast-
Lunch-
Snack-
Dinner- (link)
Breakfast: a good healthy shake or juice filled with vitamins
Lunch: a big salad dont matter how much you eat of that its all healthy
Dinner: some good meat either baked or bbq
Snack:a veggie platter with your fav salad dressing

hope the tips work and enjoy your new and healthy body
dedee


Hey, I'm having people over, and I was trying to think of a good scary movie. Any ideas?
Easy 5 for good movies
xox ♥ (link)
ya i know this was a old movie but it sure was scary to me Cabin Fever its kind of gross too


me and my boyfriend have been goin out three months today we have been fightin alot in the past 2 weeks do u think thats bad? (link)
apparently people say that fighting is very healthy in a realtionship i dont know how but my husband and i are always fighting too


I have pimples here and there. I have tried like almost everything. Proactive doesn’t work for me so don’t say that! Pulse half of you just say it because everyone else says it works because you just want a good rating. I need any home remedies or anything I can buy. I have oily skin btw if this helps! Plz what can I do?? (link)
well i had acne for well oner 7 years and i tried everything too i also have oily skin but what i ended up doing was let it go away naturally and eventually it did dont ever pick at it i now have scars


you act like a 40 year old who has nothing to do.
"its okay hunny... blah blah blah"
oh and fyi, 14 is not young. you're just way to old for this (link)
i mean havent you seen on the news about those cruise ships where how many people went missing go for it i personally dont give a shit just watch out for yourself


I am 13 and I still don't have my period!I don't know what is going on, I weigh more than a lot of my friends and they all already have them!!!What do I do????
Love always(please help),
Gina (link)
its ok hunny its just how your body works some girls dont get their period until their 16 so be happy :)dee


okay for a while (long while actually) ive had this white sticky, weird stuff in my underwear... its been about a year or so maybe less... and i havnt had my period yet... idk what to do? and what is it?? ill rate 5! (link)
me too its normal its just your down their fluid when you get turned on :) dee


hi. i am 15 years old and have not got my first period...my boyfriend wants to have sex...but idk what would happen...is that horribly bad if i havent got my first period yet
PLEASE help i rate 5s!
despretly confuxed (link)
ok your 15 wanna have sex but havent got ur period yet i think it shouldnt matter before or after i did the same thing im 21 now and life is good :)dee


I have been dating a girl for almost a year now. I am 29, she is 27. I recently found out that she cheated on her previous boyfriends. Do you think there is a better chance that I'll be cheated on than if I was dating a girl who had never cheated? (link)
youve probably heard this phrase many times but its totally true once a cheater always a cheater


Hey Guys, My mom is cracking up. I swear she is. Yesterday she was wanting to call someone that she hadn't talked to in a while and I was like "Mom don't call. It will just end up like it did before." and she seemed ok and I never said it mean or anything. So I came and got on the internet after cleaning my room. And I herd her slamming stuff. So I went into the living room and she came toward me with my jeans and threw them at me and started cussing me out and how I was always mad at her and everything. Which that was probably the first time I was. So she said she wasn't washing any of my clothes and she hasn't said one word to me since 4:00 yesterday. I don't understand why she is so mad. So what can I do? (link)
well if you want to know for sure if your mom is cracking up put up a hidden camera its for the best dont you want to help your mother


Is it possible for a 14 year old girl to get a job on a cruise line over the summer as a waitress or table busser or clean up or anything like that?

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no its not my dear ive heard many rumors that people get missing from cruise ships especially lately so if i were u i would take advice from someone older then you dont do it




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