I have been dating a girl for almost a year now. I am 29, she is 27. I recently found out that she cheated on her previous boyfriends. Do you think there is a better chance that I'll be cheated on than if I was dating a girl who had never cheated?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? luckybutt32 answered Friday January 20 2006, 12:29 am: i would say its highly likely that she will if she has before. only reason i have for that is because most women that do that do it when the relationships passion dies down a little. if you dont pay her the attention like you did at the beginning of dating. most likely what happens is work or life gets in the way , you get to busy and some ther guy gives her compliments and if shes an attention whore which most women who cheat are she will take the bait. be careful hun cheating is a big red flag. it has a lot to do with integrity and character. be smart and careful with your heart with her. [ luckybutt32's advice column | Ask luckybutt32 A Question ]
BabbiD0LL answered Tuesday January 3 2006, 10:49 am: LiKE THEY SAiD WiTH JUDE LAW, CHEATER`S ARE LiKLEY TO CHEAT AGAiN. =(
SoInToYoUx0x answered Friday December 30 2005, 3:08 pm: once a cheater always a cheater. but if i were i would give her a chacne if you get any feelin of her doin somethin behind ur back wit another guy dump her.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
xOViLLYxO answered Friday December 30 2005, 2:43 pm: Just give her a chance,and just see how things go everyone makes mistakes and that just happened to me hers.Just give her a chance. ♥ [ xOViLLYxO's advice column | Ask xOViLLYxO A Question ]
dedee answered Friday December 30 2005, 1:26 pm: youve probably heard this phrase many times but its totally true once a cheater always a cheater [ dedee's advice column | Ask dedee A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Friday December 30 2005, 1:15 pm: I would give the girl a chance.. Then if you find out she does then get rid of her.. Just look out for signs and things tho.. Like her staying out real late,having excuses not to do stuff with you.. Not answering your phone calls.. ♥ Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
aeromonkey answered Friday December 30 2005, 1:03 pm: well... if they've cheated on others they most likely will cheat on you.. according to the odds. but the odds can be beaten (example: unc and the ncaa) she deserves a chance. [ aeromonkey's advice column | Ask aeromonkey A Question ]
xxoBriannax answered Friday December 30 2005, 12:54 pm: Once a cheater always a cheater, especially if she is known to cheat on more than one boyfriend. There is definitely a better chance that you will be cheated on by her than a girl who has never cheated. [ xxoBriannax's advice column | Ask xxoBriannax A Question ]
Sporkster answered Friday December 30 2005, 12:05 pm: You've probably heard the saying, "Once a cheater, always a cheater," but that's not always entirely so.
While statistically she would be more likely to cheat on you than a girl who never cheated, she can just as easily change her ways and decide she doesn't want to cheat anymore.
Did you hear this from a reliable, un-biased source? Consider the source as well.
If you're having trust issues or worries now after a year, I think it would be best to sit down and talk with her about it--ONLY if you have reason to.
You'd be amazed how much good just sitting down and talking things out can do.
icey0990 answered Friday December 30 2005, 12:02 pm: yeah i mean its natural to think that..but look people can change their ways. just because she has cheated in the past..doesnt mean she will with you..howevvver, always feeling like she might be out with some other guy is no good either. talking to her about it is a good idea..in a relationship the two people should definately talk about stuff on their mind..concerns..etc. its important. keep me posted [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
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