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me and my boyfriend have been goin out three months today we have been fightin alot in the past 2 weeks do u think thats bad?
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well it really doesnt mean its bad, it could be bad..if the fights are about something stupid then its not bad..when you think you are about to get into a fight maybe you should stop and say to yourself "why are we fighting?" and then just stop the fight from happening
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It depends. If you guys are fighting over stupid little things then yes it's bad because that can be annoying & you guys will get so angry at each other. But if you guys have an actual reason to be fighting, then it's not. Fighting & having arguments in a relationship will definatly make your relationship stronger. It just depends.
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apparently people say that fighting is very healthy in a realtionship i dont know how but my husband and i are always fighting too
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♥♥ Just to let you know. It is totally normal, natural and good to have fights in a relationship. It actually makes you, the other person, and the relationship stronger. It is good to release anger to eachother. You have to share feelings whether its good or bad.
The only thing is, is if you two start to fight constintly & it starts to ruin your relationship you two may want to talk about whats going on.
Other than that, dont worry your fine. You should always make up in the end. Dont be afraid to talk to your boyfriend about anything.
♥♥ Lauren
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ever ealationship has fights, there usally never good. Sometimes things end badly, but you just need to solve them, the best way possible.
talk things out.
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Kinda bad.. but it's not a relationship without fighting.. like marriage,, have you ever seen your parents fighting? if yes, that's what happens in real life..there must be a problem.. at least.. A PROBLEM.. You should talk to your boyfriend.. hope I helped!
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Hey,
Fighting isn't good on a relationship. Because it could end up not being what you wanted. Maybe you guys need to talk and just be up front with each other. No secrets. Whatever the problem maybe just tell him that your sorry. See where I'm getting at? Just try to compramise with him and things will probably go better than expected.
-GD ((Green Day))
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All relationships go through rough patches, whether they're friendships, families, boyfriend/girlfriend, whatever, people do argue.
What you need to work out is whether you care enough about this guy to bother with trying in your relationship. You're probably young and three months isn't very long in a relationship, and you've been fighting for two weeks.
I suggest you give it a little break and see whether you miss him enough to work it out.
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Any fighting at all is bad. Discord doesn't really have a place in a successful relationship. There will be small disagreements, a few arguments along the way, but nothing should endure as long as two weeks.
What exactly have you been fighting about? Try not to fight, but rather sit down with him and talk things out. Explain your problems with whatever you've been fighting about, then let him have a turn. Discuss how you two could resolve the issues, and then resolve them. It's as simple as that.
However, if you two can't come to resolve the issue at hand, perhaps you shouldn't be dating. Consider that.
If you'd like any more help, feel free to ask me. I'm all ears.
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yea it is bad. but if you REALLY like him i sugest you try to compromise. you need to talk to him about the things you two fight about in a mature manner. tell him that you dont like to fight and that you're willing to work things out if he is. dont be all crabby about it just say it in a calm way. if that doesnt work then maybe you two just wernt meant to be together. i hope it all works out the way you want it to!
Leah
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maybe you guys should take a little break from each other for a few days. I have found that always makes things like new again!
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Oh hun that is bad ! but if you really love him try not to fight because you seriousley dont want to loose him !
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yeah that is bad....if i was u i woul dtalk to him and tell him you dont like fighting with him and if you do continue to fight after you talk to him about it then i would end it i bet you are a really nice girl and one that shouldnt get hurt because of a guy and if you do end it your friends are always there to help you. hope i helped.
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