Question Posted Tuesday December 20 2005, 11:11 pm
Well, i'm 14/f and my best friend is a girl and my age. We've experimrnted a couple of times this early year. She ended it in july this year (2005)cause she wanted things back the way they were when we didn't experiment and were close soul sisters (as we call ourselves to each other). I never got to say my total feelings about the whole thing. She says at times that she wishesi could be her girlfriend but in this world it isn't logical. I can't help, but want to kiss her and hold her passionatly. She's about to go on a cruise on Christmas eve this year and the i finally want to show her how i feel so the last day when i spend time with her i want to before a walk out the door i wanted to say this: I want you to so much be with me, but unfortunatly in your logical world that's not possible. Then i would hug her and kiss her softly on the lips and rush out the door. i just wanted to leave her with a thought in her head as she was on the cruise to let her know finally how i feel. Should i go for it?? PLLLLZZZ HELP ME!! I RATE HIGH!
l3fty14 answered Wednesday December 21 2005, 4:15 pm: soo.. wait are you lesbians??? if shes not a lesbian then it might make her uncomfortable. i know i would be. if you feel like its right, then yeah i guess go for it.. but if for some reason you dont think you should then dont, cuz you could have regrets.
ThugGirl041790 answered Wednesday December 21 2005, 11:55 am: I think thats so sweet.. I think going for it is a cute idea.. I mean it doesn`t really mean you`ll get together or whatever but it will make her think or something.. Best of luck sweetie!! ♥ Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
girlygirl answered Wednesday December 21 2005, 10:55 am: you are too young to even think this is a serious relationship... let alone a same-sex relationship. don't do that to her, she said no she doesn't want that kind of 'friendship' and she means it. you are lucky she'll even continue a normal friendship with you. If you truly care about this girl, you will let her go and wish her nothing but happiness and leave it at that. [ girlygirl's advice column | Ask girlygirl A Question ]
afro_timmy answered Wednesday December 21 2005, 8:18 am: YES YES YES YES YES!!!!
maybe she ended it cos she needed to sort her head out and now she dosen't want to make the 1st just incase you wont take her back???
but yeah....GO FOR IT :D ♥ [ afro_timmy's advice column | Ask afro_timmy A Question ]
KiSSxMYxPEARLS answered Wednesday December 21 2005, 2:50 am: Omg yea you should really go for it. Don't let this kiss be the thing you regret. It will seriously leave her thinking & maybe you guys will go out later on. It's cute & you should do it.
naimee answered Wednesday December 21 2005, 1:42 am: OMG.
That sounds so sweet. :) You should totally do it! Go for it, I mean what do you have to lose? You might regret it if you don't!
Jazz answered Wednesday December 21 2005, 1:36 am: You know what? I think you should actually go for it. If you still like her, maybe she still has lingering feelings for you.Take the risk, if she doesnt want to after, then she doesnt,i dont think it will change anything. But if you do it, that might just pull the trigger making her take that risk too. It could always make her forget about whats right or wrong and just go for what she truly wants.
Lol, by the way, this reminds me of a music video that has that same concept. It's called 'all the things she said' by Tatu...Maybe you guys should see it together, might help. [ Jazz's advice column | Ask Jazz A Question ]
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