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I am MADLY in love with this guy that could, well, basically care less about me. I told him i liked him and we have talked since then but he hasnt taken any moves forward. He is EVERYTHING i am NOT...he cusses ALL the TIME, is loud, rude and is a BIT too physical...(he plays football so i give him a bit of a break)...but when we are together in front of my friends or his friends he puts his arm around me and talks like nothin is wrong...I REALLY like this guy....I would DO almost ANYTHING for him....what im wonderin is..Is he worth it......or should I move on? Ive cried myslef to sleep over this guy...so he means a lot to me....I RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ADVICE!!
~*~maddie~*~ (link)
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I think you should move on,i know you dont want to cause you like him this much,but he treats you like crap and you deserve better,girl get ur ass up and find someone who can always be there for you..........
luvsss alma
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i dont have my period yet and im 13years old. all of my friends have it too. is there like something wrong with me? (link)
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Okay no no no and no,nothing is wrong with you youll get it soon if you dont get it past 16 then something is wrong with you
muchhhhhh luvvvvvvvv alma
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i really like this guy ...and its not like he doesnt know i excist we talk alot but he doesnt think of me in "that" way at all ...he goes for a different type that just is not me ..i dont know if i should change for him or let it go because i am just wasting my time. And hes kinda a bad boy so im not so sure he could hold a girlfriend even if i got the chance ...what do you think .. help me out please ?
ill rate high for helpful answers (link)
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Okay alot of people might tell you to leave him alone and move on,but my honest opinion is,just wait for a while and try to make him jelouse and he will like u sooner or later believe me,i really liked this guy and he wanted to be just friends but we became more and he started likeing me it all works out in the end,dont give up on him
luv alma
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ok well I was the one who broke up with my bf, and its been three days and hes ready to ask out another girl! we went out for a month and a half! i mean im only 13/f but still... does anyone else think its weird? i mean im really hurt... what should i do? (link)
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Not trieng to be mean or anything,but its your fualt you broke up with him,and if he moved on that fast that must mean he still likes you and his trieng to make you jelouse or his just trieng to move on.
much love almaaaa
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ok so umm there is this guy i really like n told him that n he feels the same way but over a few days he changed his mind he said he dont like me bc of my age ..but i cant stop thinking about him he is on my mind 24/7 what should i do bc i love him so muchhh!!! (link)
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Okay well you might love him alot,but get over his ass,if he dont like you cuase of your age thats just bull,cuase age aint nothing but a number,do shit with other gies and put it in his face
hope i helped luvssss muchh alma
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well see me and this guy went out for a few days..yea i know it seems short but i really like him. i dont know what to do he ignores me all the time but one of the weirdest things is that he comes to my work to see me..? one of the things why he broked up with me is bc of his cousin she doesnt like me for some reason..please help and i rate high thanxs!!! (link)
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Ok well if this guy broke up with you becuase of ur cuzin his a really big jurk and you deserve better then him if he comes to your work try to make him jelouse by flirting with other gies,and if he asks you out agian say noooo cuase if he broke up with you once he can do it agian.dont let him goo all over you.show him some girl power haha
luvs alma
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okay so there's this girl named Alma. And i guess we're pretty cool. But like lately i've heard she's been talking about me. Wich really pisses me off. So I dont know what to do. I mean should i confront Alma and be like what the fuck? or no. (Cause Alma called me ugly and says she hates me.) I'm so confused! :( Please help mee!
signed,
needs help. :(
PS, PLEASE ANSWER AMMEDIATLY!!!!! (link)
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Ok hunny first of all say ur name so i know who you are and then ill answer ur ?,and if alma said shit about you ask her if its true then do somthing about it dont just jump to conclusions
luvs alma
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im 17 and im a gurl! well me and my boyfriend have been together for alittle over 2 months..and i really love him and he loves me. I want to be intimate with him but im not sure if im ready. he is the most caring boyfriend and he is so sweet and he said he'll wait until im ready. well im not sure if i should wait longer or not like what should i do? im a virgin so should i save myself for someone i kno i will be with for along time or think i will be with forever? what should i do?
~not sure~ (link)
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My honest opinion is that you should wait for the perfect guy,i mean some people might think its gay or whatever but follow ur heart,You might regret dion it afterwards so if your 17 and still havent done it then you could wait a few more years!!
hope i helped luv alma
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*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much (link)
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Well you need to ask him next time you see him,why he keeps dion that,I mean in person if u love him then dont ruin that just becuase of aim,cuase aim u dont know what the person is thinking or really saying,so i think you should give him a chance and if you really like him then just wait for him to aim you not you him and if he just doesnt then move on and leave his ass behind.
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I love my girlfriend she means every thing to me and who would i no if she feels the same about me some 1 plz help me out (link)
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ask her,and if that isnt enough make her prove it to you someway but not sexualy lol
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Ok there this girl I like, and I really like her. But she dosen't feel the same way about me, so usally I just let it go. For some reason though I just can't stop thinking about her, just like every day it bothers me. The thing is, she isn't even my type, most of my past ex have been popular and athletic. Just like 3min ago I got asked out by some chick, and thats the third time this week i've turned someone down. Any adivce is need. Thanks! (link)
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aww i think thats totaly cute,but if she doesnt like you then forget her even though it might be hard,take a chance with the other girls you never know what might happen,
luv alma
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If you don't look at somebody in the eyes...do they get upset or something or feel like they did something wrong? Im really bad at eye contact. It makes me feel weird knowing somebodys eyes are staring right at me.. (link)
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haha dont worry i have the same problem,but if its with a guy then it means you like them so its okay,but if its with everyone then you should try practicing witha family member and it might help
luvs alma
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I am over weight and i have tryed exercise and diets and im only 13 so i cant do anything like pills. But i seriosly need help im like 5 2 and 150lbs please please help! What do you think i should do?
~overweight
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easyy,you need to get the palatees daaa,they help alot believe me iv done them,or you can try bill's bootcamp vidoe it helps too,hope i helped !
love alma
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i want alot of honest opinions on these 2 questions.
1)what do you consider a girl that has had sex since the age of 13? Had another bf when she was 14 then had sex with another guy (cheated on her bf) she barely knows the 2nd time they hung out together?
2)what do you consider a guy that screws a girl he hardly knows the 2nd date, knowing she has a bf?? will rate 5s for honesty!! (link)
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i think that the girl is a hoe and that the guy is just looking for a good time and is a playa i mean come on his a guy so its okay for him but the girl needs to slow down!
that was my honest opions luvs alma
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sorry it's so long, and please look at this in an open-minded manner, and i'm not looking for answers that say you're waiting for marriage so i'm a slut. i'll rate high if you tried, and low if you're ignorant.
my ex-boyfriend broke up in august and aren't dating exclusively, but we still hook-up from time to time. hooking up meaning having sex. we had sex today, and then i went to the movies with one of my close guy friends. we went back to my guy friend's house and we had sex. i really want to forget it ever happened and not tell anybody, though. the guy promised he wouldn't tell, and i trust him. the thing is, if it gets out somehow, and my ex-boyfriend finds out, he'll hate me. should i tell him or just let it slide? by the way, i'm on birth control and i only have sex with a condom. (link)
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Hey well i dont think your a slut i mean its just sex,anyways i think you should just let it slide by and hopefully your ex boyfriend doesnt find out you made a mistake but oh well,but if you do it agian then you should tell your ex bf that you dont wana have sex with him anymore,well hope i helped
love alma
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whats an appropriate age to get a thong.. im thirteen.. is that too young?? also.. are thongs more comfortable than regular underwear?? (link)
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yah its the right time to wair it im 13 and i wair some and my friend is 12 and she waires some your ready and they are comfterable well the expensive ones are but the cheap ones are painfull lol
luv alma hope i helped
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i havent gotton my period yet and i have a ?. when i get it for the fist time will i know, or will i not know till i go to the b/r? i dont want it to like leak through or nething, that is what i m most afried of! just tell me if i will know or not! thxs! (link)
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ok well when you get ur period for the first time its only gona be a little bit and when you go to the bathroom it doesnt look like blood dont want to get really into it but ull see
love alma hopes i helped
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Okay. I like this boy and everything but he is like my best guy friend that I have! i like him so much. I'm not scared to tell anyone that I like them if I do. But I'm thinking about our relationship together. I don't want to ruin what we have right now. But I want more. I mean, if I told him and he didnt like me, it would be totally awkward!! Does anyone have any advice? I will rate high for GOOD advice!! (link)
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hey well you should tell him that you like him,like always good friends become more and he might like you too and if he doesnt then move on and you gies can still be friends
hope i helped
luv alma
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... I'm 14, and my boobs aren't that big.. they are 36 B's... which is Alright i guess, but the problem is, I've seen other girls boobs, and my nipples are really big... their's arent!...
I feel so weird, and recently at the beach, they wanted to go skinny dipping and I didnt too, but I didnt want people to see my breasts and laugh... they're weird :( is this normal? (link)
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ok well everyones boobs are differnet,so dont worry and a B cup is big i mean im a A cup and im big.so dont worry and be happy with what u got and go skinny dipin it rocks
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I just bought these destroyed jeans..my first pair! and they are really cute!! but the problem is..I'm a afriad that when I put them in the washer, and I wear them out, the frayed part will rip and there will be a big hole in the "frayed" part..can someone help me..if they've had experience with destroyed jeans..can you please tell me how to care for them and what eventually happened to the frayed holes? thanks (link)
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well when you your pants it ses on them how to wash them whether to put them in the washing machine or to hand wash them,it ses it on the tag,that might help,but if you still are scared hand wash it just to make sure,
hope i helped
luv alma
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