i really like this guy ...and its not like he doesnt know i excist we talk alot but he doesnt think of me in "that" way at all ...he goes for a different type that just is not me ..i dont know if i should change for him or let it go because i am just wasting my time. And hes kinda a bad boy so im not so sure he could hold a girlfriend even if i got the chance ...what do you think .. help me out please ?
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MELiixMARiiE answered Thursday November 10 2005, 12:03 pm: Well usually the "bad boy" types can't keep a girlfriend. But every now and then some are good boyfriends. But even so, I still think you'd be wasting your time. You shouldn't change yourself just for him. What if you became his type, yet he still didn't like you like that? What if he didn't like..blondes? You'd dye your hair? You should never change yourself and plus, if the relationship were to end you'd be sitting there looking like something your not all alone. =/ It's best just to move on and find someone new. I hope I helped.
happy-helper answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 1:40 pm: Please, listen to me and I don't care about the rating. He's a "bad boy", you REALLY don't want to get involved with those types of guys because in the end, he's only going to be after one thing - getting his leg over! Never change for anyone. Be yourself, all yourself and nothing but yourself!
x Steph x
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PrEtTyKiTtY0428 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 12:56 am: Hey hun!
Please do not change yourself for this guy. You should never change anything about yourself just to get a guy to like you. If this guy doesn't like you the way you are, then he's definitely not worth your time. I'm sure you could find someone so much better, who will like you just the way you are, and not make you feel like you have to change your appearance. The personality is what counts :) I'm sure you'll find a great guy someday!! Plus you said he's a bad boy, so he'd probably end up breaking your heart, and we don't want that. That wouldn't be so good! You seem really nice, and no girl deserves to have her heart broken by a guy. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm sorry! Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, just leave them in my inbox. <3 KiMmY [ PrEtTyKiTtY0428's advice column | Ask PrEtTyKiTtY0428 A Question ]
Bosnianchick13 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 12:33 am: Okay alot of people might tell you to leave him alone and move on,but my honest opinion is,just wait for a while and try to make him jelouse and he will like u sooner or later believe me,i really liked this guy and he wanted to be just friends but we became more and he started likeing me it all works out in the end,dont give up on him
luv alma [ Bosnianchick13's advice column | Ask Bosnianchick13 A Question ]
W0AHxiiTSxKAY answered Monday November 7 2005, 11:04 pm: Hey,
This sounds reallly corny..but DO NOT CHANGE FOR ANYONE!! especially not a guy..at such a young age..guys have no idea what they want anymore..their hormones are constantly bouncing off the walls...its pretty hectic to say the least. Well anyways..you could change yourself to impress one guy..and there could be 10 other guys who liked you the way you were before..think about that...
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xjUiCyx answered Monday November 7 2005, 10:55 pm: ok you deff never want to change for a guy. if he doesnt like you then hes not worth it. if hes the badboy type and your not used to that, then i think u should just let it go. [ xjUiCyx's advice column | Ask xjUiCyx A Question ]
Melaur1001 answered Monday November 7 2005, 10:07 pm: WOW.. that SOOOO sounds like me like 2 years ago.. sweetie, i changed for that guy and we went out for acouple of monthes and I ended up loosing my virginity to him... he broke up with me the next day... bad boys are NOOO GOOD they LIE LIE LIE until they get what they want, that boy still calls me looking for sex.. if you want a true boyfriend and somebody who actually cares about you I advise you look for a more tame guy. Somebody that your friends with but still find attractive, don't let yourself get hurt! [ Melaur1001's advice column | Ask Melaur1001 A Question ]
yayalovesgd answered Monday November 7 2005, 10:02 pm: Well i think you should forget about him. try to find someone that you are sure they like you and like the way you are.dont fall for someone that it just cool.i mean if you have doubts about him then hes not worth it. I Hope this helped!! im sorry if it didnt!!! [ yayalovesgd's advice column | Ask yayalovesgd A Question ]
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