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ex moving on?


Question Posted Monday November 7 2005, 9:25 pm

ok well I was the one who broke up with my bf, and its been three days and hes ready to ask out another girl! we went out for a month and a half! i mean im only 13/f but still... does anyone else think its weird? i mean im really hurt... what should i do?

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Additional info, added Tuesday November 8 2005, 7:37 pm:
oh yeah... and i guess that i kinda jealous... cause i just realized how much i liked him! im such an idiot! HELP!.

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happy-helper answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 1:38 pm:
I guess you can't do much about it now. I hope you're still friends though, it's a shame to see a relationship go to waste! Let him know you want to be friends and be more than friends but less that ring-them-wedding-bells!
x Steph x
P.S If you want to talk more, puddycat11@hotmail.com is my email, feel free to add me and I can try and help some more if you want me to :)

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BrunetteBeauti answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 9:01 am:
hey i had the same problem but it wasnt 3 days later it was the same day! and now he wants to get back with me. so maybe hes just trying to get over you by going out with someone else or trying to make you jealous. if he really didn't have feelings for you he would have broke up with you first.

GooD LuCkk
x0 0x

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AwesomeAdvicer answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 8:08 am:
hi,
IF YOU BROKE UP WITH HIM THEN HE WOULD FIND ANOTHER SO I SUGGEST YOU FIND ANOTHER PERSON TOO SOON HE MIGHT COME TO HIS SENCES THEN YOU CAN JUST SAY OH IM SORRY I ALREADY HAVE A BETTER BF. HOPE IT WORKS!
BYE!!!

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Bosnianchick13 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 12:29 am:
Not trieng to be mean or anything,but its your fualt you broke up with him,and if he moved on that fast that must mean he still likes you and his trieng to make you jelouse or his just trieng to move on.
much love almaaaa

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RileyFace answered Monday November 7 2005, 11:38 pm:
He probably feels hurt or mad about the break up and just needs someone to lean on or feels lonley and just trying to get you back, he probalby just wanted a girlfriend when he asked her out, nothing big though, it probably wont last long but if you still care about him just wait it out or confront him

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redninja answered Monday November 7 2005, 11:25 pm:
ok well I think it does kinda suck for him to be askin out another but yea you are only 13. and hes probaply just on the rebound.

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xjUiCyx answered Monday November 7 2005, 10:44 pm:
it is weird but i guess that just lets your know that your relationship didnt mean much to him if hes ready to move on so soon. He may also be trying to make you jealous. i know your probably hurt but just remember your the one who dumped him

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W0AHxiiTSxKAY answered Monday November 7 2005, 10:35 pm:
Hey,
A monthand a half might seem like a long time to you..but it could seem like nothing to him. Maybe he holds relationships for longer periods of time then you do..
Moving on can be different for everyone..
Just do the same. Your the one who broke up with him in the 1st place. So obviously you dont "want" him anymoree..
pce :)

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helpachick answered Monday November 7 2005, 9:44 pm:
hey.. so i kno it is VERY hard! but unfortunately, there is nothing you can do about him having another g/f so soon. thats his decision and quite frankly a rude one since he was probably pretty in to u and all the sudden thinking he's so over u. he's just being a jerk of a guy...thats the way some of them are
xoxo helpachick

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FewAndFarBetween answered Monday November 7 2005, 9:43 pm:
It's called rebound. You broke up with him, he felt immasculated, so he asked another girl out to show you that he doesn't need you.

So you shouldn't feel hurt - firstly, because you were the one that broke up with him in the first place and secondly, because he probably doesn't really care about this girl or anything.

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sweeto answered Monday November 7 2005, 9:38 pm:
Not really that weird. A month and half isn't all that long. I know what I was 13 and broke up with a girl, I was ready to go out with another one the next day. Middle school relationships don't mean anything at all. It feels like they do but they really don't. You'll be fine.

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