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eye contact


Question Posted Sunday October 23 2005, 5:10 pm

If you don't look at somebody in the eyes...do they get upset or something or feel like they did something wrong? Im really bad at eye contact. It makes me feel weird knowing somebodys eyes are staring right at me..

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iluvhim answered Wednesday October 26 2005, 4:24 pm:
usually if i make eye contact its cause i like that person and i want to see if he likes me back... and in order to see if he likes me back i see how long he'd keep eye contact with me and if he looked away first or if he just kept looking back at me... but i wouldnt get upset if someone didnt make eye contact with me... i would just think they didnt have a crush on me...
hope it helpd.. at least a lil.

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Bosnianchick13 answered Sunday October 23 2005, 7:55 pm:
haha dont worry i have the same problem,but if its with a guy then it means you like them so its okay,but if its with everyone then you should try practicing witha family member and it might help
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sunnyville answered Sunday October 23 2005, 7:47 pm:
Funny you ask because there was this guy who I had a crush before,I couldn't really look at him in the eye since I got really nervous when he would stare into my eyes a lot,then I saw that he got upset so I started to make eye contact,he got happy.Yes it could make a person who likes someone else or if not that person will say probably in their mind like why won't he/she not even at least stare at me what did I do wrong?If you like someone even if it's someone you like a lot just stare at them if they happen to look at you because then they will get to think that you don't like him/her.It's never too late to fix those mistakes.Remember that.

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Curry09 answered Sunday October 23 2005, 7:13 pm:
I don't look people in the eye when i'm im talking or someone is talking to me because i can't i always find myself looking away or laughing. Some people might think your not intrested on what they have to say tho if you don't really look them in the eye.

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Vendetta answered Sunday October 23 2005, 6:51 pm:
It depends on the person. I, personally, get suspicious when people won't look me in the eye. But that is just me.

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Advicelady6798 answered Sunday October 23 2005, 6:46 pm:
Sometimes people get offended if you dont look at their eyes. It really depends on the person. If a person likes eye contact then they will get offended because they feel that if you are not looking at them while they are talking they think that you are not listening. Some people dont like eye contact because it makes them uncomfortable or weird. If a guy looks at you you must think your pretty or something. It really depends on the situation.

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DumBlondeCanHelp answered Sunday October 23 2005, 6:22 pm:
Eye contact is really important in a conversation. They might get a little upset because if you dont give them eye contact, they'll think you're not paying attention. Try practicing eye contact.
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truadvice answered Sunday October 23 2005, 6:08 pm:
when someones talking to you and you don't make eye contact its like your not lisening to them and your thinking about something else and uninterested . try making eye contact with your self in the mirror , it helps

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Razhie answered Sunday October 23 2005, 6:04 pm:
Eye contact does seem to have an effect on peoples perspections of you. People who make eye contact are considered more confident and trustworthy and such.

Personally, I hate making eye contact. I have very poor eye sight and it is exhausting for me, so, and please don't laugh now, I tend to look at peoples noes. It relaxes me and people generally can't tell the difference.

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afro_timmy answered Sunday October 23 2005, 6:04 pm:
hey
if you stare at the bit in between their eyes just above the nose it looks like your staring at them in the eyes lol
hope i helped x x

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craazylau answered Sunday October 23 2005, 6:02 pm:
I think sometimes people prefer it if you look them in the eyes because it seems more honest and you can understand what they're actually saying and how they feel about it. But I don't think people actually get upset if they don't have eye contact! But if you don't want to make eye contact don't!! It's no big problem

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