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Hey, I'm Jack.I like giving advice, and I've been through a lot so I have experience... Come talk to me! I'm a girl wrestler, and baseball player, I play every sport there is...(literally!) I'm a creative writing, and Bio tech major. I like watchinmg movies, and have lived and visited all around the world.

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I want to make Dance Company at my school this year. The thing is, it's for "advanced and talented" dancers, and I'm just okay. What can I do to prepare myself for tryouts (on September 1st) ????

Work out, and dance, ALOT. Practice Practice and Practice...Work on remembering moves too. Try going to your local Gym and ask if they have any free classes... Other then that, all I can think of is taking classes!

Hope I helped..

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Soo I told this boy I liked him and he said he liked me. But then he said he doesnt want to be gf/bf he just wanted to be "together" but if I wanted to go out with him then he would. I'm confused whether or not he REALLY likes me.Also I was supposed to hang out with him tomorrow and he said he asked his mom and she said no..he's like "I asked if we could do anything tomorrow and she said no ask her if you want" but just the way he is it sorta leads me to believe he doesnt want to hang out.His mom usually lets him do anything.But he also lives 45 minutes away so I dont know. I don't know if I'm just really paranoid that he really doesn;t like me or what. He said he really wanted to hang out though.Can you tell me if he really likes me or he's just sorta taking advantage of me and wants to see other girls while hes with me? please help me! :'(

I'd ask him polietly what the deal is... Tell him how you feel and ask if he's with other women. Have him talk to you and ask him if he wants to hang or not... I hopw things work..Good luck, jack

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OK there's a real problem in our school and it's sorta weird. If you get called a whore, people in my school take it as a compliment. Does anyone think this is very disturbing? Oh yea, and the people in our school who are popular are the sluts and the girls and guys who drink in school. I sorta wanna know how to stop this. Thanks!

Ask to talk to your school counsler, and principal, tell them whats going on. Talk with your parents, friends and their parents and see if there's anytihng they can do. Make a club for no sluts, and try to stand up too them..It's a hard situation to be in, that's how my school was, finally we got out princapal to change it.. Hope I helped,

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My birthdays coming up in about a month and i always have a party with a theme whether it be tinker bell or something cute like that but i'm turning 15 and i still want a theme but not like a lil girlish one because i'm going to be 15 and my friends mom is going to make my cake and she wants to put something on it that has to do with the theme...the party's going to be at my house...any ideas on themes thanx in advance!♥

Here Are Some Idea's:
Pajama's...
Movie's...
Rave... (Glow Lights, Loud Music, Losts of Dancing)
Sports (Play everthing you can think of!)
I'm sorry I couldn't think of more...
hmm..

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hey does anyone know where i can get a sorta dark green jacket simple with no designs on it really i saw one in abercrobie about two montsh ago taht was really cute and now there out of it a dark green jacket but not too dark (ill rate fives if there good advice ) :D

Hi!! Did you try there web site?!? Forever 21, H & M, Charlotte Russe, and Dots... Those are all shops that I know of, that sell that type of clothing...If you have an H&M near you I'm posotive (95%) that they sell what your looking for...Hoped I helped, Jack.

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what is the difference between a Baptist and a Cathlic??

Baptists don't believe in Mary, being so powerful and a figure in the church as much as the Catholics..Also the Catholic have stricter rules, and celibrations, like baptisim at birth, (some baptists do that too) first communion, and getting confirmed... Catholics have stricter rules, and a higer standerd of beliefs, I'm an Ex-Catholic, gone Baptist and that all I can tihnk of for the moment. I'm sorry, I hoped I helped, Jack.

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Okay, so my mom is screwed up. She thinks I should respect her when she has not earned it. She makes me doubt that commandment, because I'm beginning to see that not everyone that births a child is fit to raise them.
She makes six-digits/year, so I'm not looking for DFACS to take me away from her exactly, but does anyone know of some free counseling/therapy I could have her attend, and how to get her to attend? I'm going to ask my school guidance counselor about it tomorrow.
Any other ideas about how I could change her course of thinking (she moved from New England to Georgia--where I am now--and the culture is very different. She has continued to fail to see that.) would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks, guys.

It's good to ask your counsler... He/She should be able to help... Ask the counsler at your school to find any free therapists for you mom, and talk about ways to get her to go with him/her. Try sittin and talking with your mom camly and showing her the facts that where your living is diffrent... Trying talking with her, and if that doesn't work have your counsler talk with her... I hope I helped. Jack

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no, not like that, don't jump to conclusions, gosh...

I recently had my "driving privileges" taken away, and want to hang out with a friend that does not have a license yet. My mom works weekends (my only free time), and this particular girl's father is a southern Baptist pastor that I'd prefer not to tangle with. Any ideas?

Thanks. I rate honestly.

Why don't you plan to meet someplace like the mall, and take the bus... Or have a friend drive you there, and have her father drive her there and drop her off... What does her mom do? You could have her drive..... I'm sorry I couldn't be more helpful,please don't rate low.

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What is your opinion on religion? I've heard about the theory of evolution and it makes a lot of sense.
And right now the theory of god and heaven doesn't seem real. There's no proof.
Can any of you give me your point of view? I want details b/c i'm really troubled with this.
plz help
thanks!

Okay, I'm A Baptist and I believe in God because evolution doesn't make sense with out God. See, there wouldn't be anything in our world, with out him... Lets think, What made the earth, sun, moon and the stars. I believe that God unveals himdelf in odd situations, look into fate, accidents, things that happen out of the blue, chance, and luck... Someone or thing has to control what goes on in the universe or everytihng would be chaos. I think of it as a powere bigger then us, wether it be nature, god, allah, buddah, etc.. Most religions, also show similar properties, like good, and evil, right and wrong, ying and yang... Most scientist's have beliefs too... There should be a theory, well there is, about how God is in evolution, If your still intrested, look at the Big Bang Theory... I'm sorry this is so long. Hope I Helped...You'll find you faith or should I say Fate... Jack.

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i have a really nice friend but ever since my one b-day party she had met my other friend and then they started to get together and hang out ALL the time now my friend never talks to me and at school when i pass her in the hall she never says hi and she never comes over anymore too she is always with my other friend. i am not really friends anymore with the one girl my friend always hangs out with so i cant talk to her about anything. but my friend also used to sit at my table andn talk to me and my other friends but now all she does is sit with the other girl and never talks to me anymore what should i do?? thanks!:)

Go to your friend and tell her calmly how you feel. Explain that you feel like you got droped for the other friend, and you'd still like to hang out with her... Suggest mabey that you all hang out together. I hope everything goes well. Jack

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Okay well My problem is I like someone that is about 3 yrs older and i dunno what to do about this cuz my b-day is soon so i will be 16 and he is 18 now so this makes me only 15 and i heard it's jailbate, so should i still date him? I really like him a lot and he treats me so good...
~confused lover~

It all depends on where you live. But I don't tihnk just dating someone is jailbate. If you have sex though, it would be considered jailbate. But if its just kissing and stuff, you should be okay. If you really like him I say go for it! {Never miss an oppurtunity to date someone you like!) Hope I helped. Jack.

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i shaved "down there" once before and i got red bumps were i shaved, does anyone know how i can prevent these bumps or any other advice to do it? i would greatly apreciate any answers, ill rate high, thanks

Hey did you try a special lotion for sensitive skin? It helped my friend. Or try switching razors! Hope I helped. Jack

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i went out with this guy for 2 days then he broke up with me but today he asked me back out and wanted to hang out with me tomarrow but i told him i cant hang out but i dont really wanna but i want to go out with someone before the summer ends but i dont no if i can trust him he seemed like he changed but i dont want my heart broken again what should i do? ps i dont wanna hang out with him alone but it will seem weird if i bring a friend n he does

He if you have any strange feeling about him, I say don't go, and let him be. As for trying ot date someone before summer ends, sometimes its better to wait it out (I know its hard) and wait till a truly special guy comes along. Hope it works out, and Hope I helped. Jack

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Okay, I'm 14 years old -female- and I need some advice. I got a job at this restuarant for the summer and theres this guy there that I like(16). He's just all over a really cool guy. He's really nice, and has a great personality, plus he's good looking, but I can't tell if he likes me back, and i don't know if I should give him my # or ask him to a movie or somethin. I do have this feeling that he likes me because of a few insidents such as: three days ago he was helpin me out with dishes (cuz it makes it alot easier to have 1 person loading and the other unloading) and I had gotten some tips from the servers(cuz im a hostess)and he said to me,"You have some money stickin out of your back pocket." I was just like "oh" and pushed it in some so it wouldn't fall out and then he said to me," It's Kinda sexy." I was shocked I didn't know what to say. So I picked up one of the buckets to wash it out and then I said," I see where your lookin." and he just laughed a little and said yeah. Plus he askes me about five times a day: Wazzup? or How's it goin? ( since I bus tables a lot and go in and out of the kitchen). I don't know what to do. I've had guys like me but I've never gone out with anyone, and I don't know how to act. Help me please. I need to know what to do, summers almost gone and my job will be over and i won't see him anymore.I need to let him know that i like him. I need help, badly.
Thanks a bunch,
Lioness

Hey, it seems he like you too. Why don't you ask him to a movie, and if he says yes go from there. Be yourself, think posotive, and make conversation. Hope i helped. Jack.

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there is a song and its like " I CANT MAKE IT ON MY OWN," repeat i cant make it on my own. and its like two guys playing guitars. so can you guys tell me what its called and who its by??

thanks in advance!!

Hawthron Heights... I think, if the song title is actually Ohio is for lovers,

Hope I helped, JAck

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This just started happening last night... When I restart my computer all my desktop settings go back to default. I have the default background and all the icons are back like they were when I first bought the computer. I still have AIM but every time I restart my computer everything gets deleted from it. (All the screen names at the sign on. All my favorites in my internet explorer are all there but now they're all in alphabetical order... Does anyone know what's going on or anyway I can stop this? Thanks.

First, check your computer for virus's, and scan the entire C-drive, yes it take a while, but it will make sure there's nothing eatting your computer! lol... Sry, I'm back, anyway, then going under Display, set all your compture settings the way you want, and make sure they've been saved... Afterwards, try restarting your comp, if that doesn't work, you might need someone to look at it for you, like a tech. Sry this was so long, Hope this helped... Jack

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Wow guys OK i have a probelm. My "best friend" is a boy stealer. Every guy i have ever liked has started liking her. And everytime i confront her about it shes like "Oh i didnt do anything to make him like me". But everytime she talks to a guy shes real flirty soo they start to like her.And it gets on my nerves a lot because i like this guy named eric and she always talks to him on aim and myspace and even the PHONE! i meen does she not get it??? and so his best friend thinks he is starting to liek her and sooo i am really pissed at her...becasue she was like i dont like him an dhow can u let a boy come between us .i know she does you shuld see the messages on myspace..but am i being too overreacted here or what?? please help i rate high!!!

14/F

Hey, I had a friend like that... She needs to realize that what shes does is hurting your relationship with one another. Next, if she doesn't like Eric, then why are they always talking. Seems to me, that she's one of those girls who doesn't seem to know when attracting guys can be a bad thing. Try and work it out with her calmly, and sane. Next ask her to point out to Eric that there only friends, but he does have a girl that likes him. Hope it all works out for the best, Jack

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has anyone ever been to a raintree restaurant (the one i heard of was in chagrin falls) how fancy is it? should me and my boyfriend dress up? what is it like?

It's a beautiful place, where dress doesn't have to be supre-fancy, but Nice slacks, and shirt would be a good idea. Again, if that doesn't give you everything you need, Google it, It's been awhile since I went. Hope I Helped, Jack

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how do you make icons on iconator?

i really need to know!! if theres a special program.. tell me!!!!!

ill rate 5's

Hey I just looked it up for you, and with my minutes of research I think you have to be a memeber and log in for it to work...I think.. I'll double check tho..Okay, here's How it works now that I'm logged on, you make an Icon from somewhere else, like "Paint" on your computer and you but the file in the space under Icon, so this site doesn;t help you design the icons it just make them so you can use them as icons...Hope that made sense let me know if your still having trouble, Jack

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Hi i am a 16 year old female and Im not sure how to explain to this guy that i used to date that i still have big feelings for him..He is moving away but should be back his senior year. I dont care about distance. I really want to be with him. We broke up though becuz i questioned his love for me. I really do love this guy and I know he loves me too. I just dont think he realizes how much i do really care about him. I dont know what to say and how to explain it. Please help me explain to this guy how i feel..I want him no matter what. I would do anything. Also can you help me with so sweet ways of showing him how i care. I am seeing him Sunday for the last time..Please HELP!!

-lost the love of my life

Hey, Why don't you ask him on a walk or out to dinner and sit him down and tell him how you feel, becuase he's not a mind reader! Why don't you tell him what you told us in your question, that you love him, will do anytihng for him, and know now, that he love's you too. He won't know unless you tell him, or give him signs, Hope I helped, Jack

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