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best friends and boys!! PLEASE HELP
Wow guys OK i have a probelm. My "best friend" is a boy stealer. Every guy i have ever liked has started liking her. And everytime i confront her about it shes like "Oh i didnt do anything to make him like me". But everytime she talks to a guy shes real flirty soo they start to like her.And it gets on my nerves a lot because i like this guy named eric and she always talks to him on aim and myspace and even the PHONE! i meen does she not get it??? and so his best friend thinks he is starting to liek her and sooo i am really pissed at her...becasue she was like i dont like him an dhow can u let a boy come between us .i know she does you shuld see the messages on myspace..but am i being too overreacted here or what?? please help i rate high!!!
14/F
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Your friend needs to realize what's happening .. does she either want to have a boy like her that she doesn't like back? Or possibly ruin a friendship between you two, cause after awhile that will probably happen. She just might not realize how sometimes flirting with alot of guys can be a bad thing..
- makes the guy hurt ( cause she really doesn't like them )
-can make her friends depressed ( because the guy they like likes their friend instead and that ruins friendships.. which is your situation..)
.. and stuff like that. She just might be a HUGE flirter adn not realize it or maybe she wants to be the girl that has " every single guy in the world like her"..because if she doesn't like him like that, I don't see why she always flirts and always talks to him on the phone. I would try talking to her again and explain how you like Eric and that how every guy likes her and if she could just please not flirt with the guys you like and let her know that you want to be friends with her still, but if she keeps that up, that might not continue. I don't think you're over reacting at all. If you want to talk to me more about this, please, just IM me at:
MELii x MARiiE
...I hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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hey....im way to tired to answer this right now..cse its 4 in the morning..but you can message me on myspace tomorrow and ill help you out
my myspace is
www.myspace.com/perfectlybroken
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Oh wee. I have friends like this!
Talk to the guys and talk about her. They'll probably see your point of view.
Anywho, seriously talk to your friend about feeling lonely/pissed.
If she doesn't understand, you have no business with her and you should slap her and call her a whore.
--Social Suicide
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Hey, I had a friend like that... She needs to realize that what shes does is hurting your relationship with one another. Next, if she doesn't like Eric, then why are they always talking. Seems to me, that she's one of those girls who doesn't seem to know when attracting guys can be a bad thing. Try and work it out with her calmly, and sane. Next ask her to point out to Eric that there only friends, but he does have a girl that likes him. Hope it all works out for the best, Jack
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If you really have problems with your bestfriend and she won't listen to you, why not give her a taste of her own medicine. Do what she does to get Eric's attention. You're just letting her stomp all over you, don't let that happen! If she won't listen to you and lies to you, you shouldn't call her a bestfriend. If it's true about the boys liking her a lot, it's because she's optimistic and open. Be like her and play the same game so you won't feel so left out. Flirt with some guys, and especially flirt with Eric to grab his attention on you and not her. You should also tell Eric your true feelings some other time when he's your friend because you might lose him. Hope my advice helps.
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