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Im 14 and my boyfriend & I have been going out for 3 weeks. 2 nights ago we have a really romantic night and we cuddles and he kissed me and we watched movies. & he said he had a great time and i did too. But when we talked a day after he was acting weird & not himself like on IM hes usually like HEY BABY!! And he was just like heyyy. & he stopped calling me and it was weird. i dont know if hes scared of getting hurt or hes gonna break up with me =/ i wasnt being clingy or anything he made all the first moves. So i dont know what to do. ive been worrying about it & I like him so much you have no idea. whats going on?? PS. tomorrows my birthday and he said we were gonna spend the whole day together and he hasnt even talked about it!! so i dont even know if its gonna happen ! :( XOXOX please help !
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Well first off, happy birthday! Mine's in August too. I think the best thing for you to do is talk to him. Call him and be ask him if he had fun the other night. He'll probably say yes, then you should say, "Ok because you've been acting kinda weird lately. Do you still wanna hang out for my birthday tomorrow?" Hopefully he'll say yes (if he doesn't, of course you should discuss it), then you guys can make plans for your birthday. Hopefully things go make to normal. If he acts weird when you hang out for your brithday, ask him if something's wrong, but don't force the issue because he might not might to talk about it. Hope this helps + have a great birthday!
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hes probably just drawing back for a bit and considering his feelings. making sure what he is doing is the best for both of you.
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talk to him about it, when you guys are alone jus tbe like "hey, whats been up?" don't try to sound too nosey, but it might not be the fact he wants to break up with you, there might be a past relationship hes thinking about, where he got hurt and doesnt want to again, or theres something completely off that topic on his mind. just tell him you'd like to talk. :]
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