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Im 14 and my boyfriend & I have been going out for 3 weeks. 2 nights ago we have a really romantic night and we cuddles and he kissed me and we watched movies. & he said he had a great time and i did too. But when we talked a day after he was acting weird & not himself like on IM hes usually like HEY BABY!! And he was just like heyyy. & he stopped calling me and it was weird. i dont know if hes scared of getting hurt or hes gonna break up with me =/ i wasnt being clingy or anything he made all the first moves. So i dont know what to do. ive been worrying about it & I like him so much you have no idea. whats going on?? PS. tomorrows my birthday and he said we were gonna spend the whole day together and he hasnt even talked about it!! so i dont even know if its gonna happen ! :( XOXOX please help !
talk to him about it, when you guys are alone jus tbe like "hey, whats been up?" don't try to sound too nosey, but it might not be the fact he wants to break up with you, there might be a past relationship hes thinking about, where he got hurt and doesnt want to again, or theres something completely off that topic on his mind. just tell him you'd like to talk. :]
__terri
is it bad that i am an independant person.. when ever i get a boyfriend i dotn like it when he spends any money on me because i dont like it when girls use guys to buy them shit. but anyways my best friend is makin a big deal about it and my boyfriend doesnt like the idea. he thinks i dont like him when i dont let him buy me anything.. can someone please either help me change my point of view on this?? or do you think it is a good or bad that i am independant?? thanks
hun, you're just like i am. I hate taking money from people, even if he IS my boyfriend. There's nothing wrong with that, your best friend is probably making a big deal about it, because they would take the money. And your boyfriend, just explain to him you really don't feel right letting him pay, if he wants to get you something, let it be a surprise gift or something. I know what you feel like, kind of like you're mooching off people and you'd like to pay your own way to show you can take care of yourself. Maybe you shold give in a little, and start letting him pay for things a little at a time, It's sweet that he wants to pay for things, it's just him being a gentleman. So, don't think you wont still be independent if he pays for things once in a while.
__terri
alright. this will be long.
me and my boyfriend have known eachother since kindergarden. we went out in sixth grade, and broke up after 4 months of seeing eachother.
i am in love with him, and he knows it, because we have been going out again since the 2nd. last night he told me he loved me as well.
my parents do not approve of him though. i think it is because my mom thinks he lies to me (which he doesnt) and my dad never liked any boy i went out with (because that's just how dads are) my sister doesnt like him, either, and i dont know why she doesnt.
how can i get my family to approve of him?
A lot of the time, parents don't approve because they're trying to protect you, even if there's nothing to protect you from. Let your parents get to know him, invite him over the house or something like that. Your sister probably doesnt like him because she either, KNOWS what boys are like, or DOESNT know what boys are like, if you catch what im saying.
Just let them all get to know him, im sure with time they will be able to form some kind of trust for him.
__terri
okay 2 yrs ago a boy moved to cali that i really liked and hes moving back!! i get to see him on wed. but i have changed and so has everything else so what do i do?
p.s i stil like him and iwant him to like me too!
13/f
well, the change may be what makes him like you more, i know this is something u hear a lot but, if he cant except you for who you are and how you've changed, then you dont need him, and your feelings will eventually change for him also.
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