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Member Since: July 31, 2005
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Last Update: July 31, 2005
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i have been trying for a baby for 3 years now and still nothing has happend. i have had a misscarriage last xmas would that be the problem. (link)
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making babies is a truly wonderful thing, but its not always easy.
you have not said whether or not you have consulted a doctor yet?
there can be many reasons why you are having difficulties conceiving...one being worrying, about why you cant.
dont worry, go see your doctor, talk it all through with them and in the meantime keep havin a wonderful sex life with your partner and enjoy it!!
i send my wishes to you that you get what your looking for. **
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I'm 15/f
Way too many guys like one of my best friends. It's just so annoying how many boys like her, and the ONE person I like likes her too which really sucks because whenever we all hang out together he doesn't even notice me. IM NOT JEALOUS! It just bothers me, and sometimes if I tell her that someone else likes her she'll be like who doesn't? Or something like that and it's just soo annoying. What should I do?
---x0 GiNa 0x (link)
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keep being you!!!
i bet lots of guys like you too, and maybe just dont know how to make it obvious.
an if the guy you like does not seem to notice you then you dont worry about it because plenty more will over the years.
just focus on who you are and what you like about you, realise what you have to offer people and work out how best to show your qualities off
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hi.im 21 years old.studying in university.im having a hard time in my life.i want to love and to be loved.i never had a boyfriend before.guys have asked me to be their girl but i dont see the sincerity in them.in fact friendship with boys never lasted long.im just another girl for boys.no one ever treated me special.i always feel left out.but i always laugh and make jokes as if im the most happiest person on earth!give me advice what should i do? (link)
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hey these things all take time, you dont have to rush anything.
you should be going out with other students and having yourself some fun. a fun girl is very attractive to guys so you might just find what your looking for while enjoying yourself, instead of worrying about why you have not found it yet.
keep in touch, let me know how your getting on an what fun things you been getting up to ok **
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My husband is the eldest, has three sisters. His mom is an only child, his father has several sibs. My husband and I both graduated college in four years, both work full-time, have been married 20 years, have two teenage children -- the only grandchildren -- and own a home and two breaking down vehicles. We consider ourselves middle class. We rarely go on vacation and when we do, it's usually to visit family and brief due to work and children's event scheduling. My husband's sisters have all graduated college eventually, taking 5 to 7 years, and have returned for schooling at various times, which their parents have always paid for. Two of them are married, only one of them works, the third works part-time and is getting married soon. All three of these girls continue to have mom and dad finance anything from vacations to dental work to their dog's surgery. We recently learned that my in-laws have been paying insurance, both medical and car, at various times for years for two of these adult women. When there is a plumbing problem, a car repair or a big vacation, these ladies have been going to mom and dad for financial support and receiving it.
When we have borrowed money, on two occasions in the past 20 years, we have offered to pay it back and been refused. But we never have asked for anything further and have not received anything further, either. We have had many emergencies that we could have used help with but figured it was our responsibility and not anyone else's -- we did not know that our "upper class" parents had been funding "the girls" in every little thing for years.
Recently talk has centered about their will and one of sis-in-laws was named the executor. This is fine, although a bit of a concern since she has financially never stood on her own two feet. We have been asked to name any property of theirs that we would like and I requested only one thing, a used but not antique nor family heirloom piano, and this is for my daughter who is quite the musician -- none of my sis-in-laws play any instruments nor do they have any children not even stepchildren. This one request was refused because one sister had already requested the piano. Obviously she must be planning to get a bigger house with her inheritance because there is no room in her current dwelling for anything that big.
Well, this has upset my husband to no end because he now is convinced that all those years we went on day trips and his sisters went on cruises and spent a lot of time on Caribbean islands that this was funded directly or indirectly (since they aren't responsible for themselves) by his parents. The parents have always made a big deal about having the same amount of presents under the tree for everyone, etc., but now are saying that their property will be divided four ways -- with nothing noted for their only grandchildren. This seems unfair to me on so many levels, especially in light that the sisters have long time been the recipients of uneven gifts of money and support for years, more than a decade after they had moved out of the house.
We are wondering what we did to deserve this. There has been no animosity, never any disagreements. I really wouldn't care except now my husband is very hurt and becoming a little paranoid about the fact that his sisters get their credit cards paid off by his parents while we paid ours off ourselves all these years even when it involved hospital bills for our children or other expenses.
Recently we discovered that one sis had complained to her parents about gifts they had given us ($25 checks) on our wedding anniversaries and for father's and mother's days and so now I guess mom is sending each of the girls something on those occasions to be equal. Yet we have always bought gifts for the parents on these occasions and the girls typically just send them cards only.
I don't want it to sound like I am being petty and greedy, but it does sort of come down to this. We thought we had a great relationship with my in-laws and now it feels like they have been favoring the girls over their son and will continue to do so. I doubt my husband wishes to consult an attorney or anything that might damage his relationship with his family, but he is very hurt and we don't know how to express this to his parents. They are in their 70s and both are very smart and active; we hope they live another 20 years! (link)
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you and your husband are doing what adults do, taking care of yourselves and your kids.
be proud of that, and know that on the sad day when your inlaws do pass on, you will carry on supporting your family needs and coping.
on the other hand what will your sister in laws do?
they will have to learn at a very late age how to stand on their own feet.
people like to be needed, and your in laws may feel that you guys need them less because you do take your own responsibility for life.
about the piano, ask your husband to explain to his sister that your daughter would benefit greatly from having it in the house.
if she still does not let it go then look at it in the sense that, you dont have one now, so you are not losing anything.
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My vagina itches realy bad! not inside, but outside if you know what i mean. There's also a little red striaght line from where my vagina starts. Its about half inch long. I havent got my first period yet, does that have anything to do with this? Please tell me what this is and what i should do. (link)
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you need to go visit a doctor chick, an dont be embarassed thats what they are there for.
this has nothin to do with your period.
you can ask for a female doctor if you would feel more comfortable.
let me know how you get on **
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