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i feel so lonely :-( hi.im 21 years old.studying in university.im having a hard time in my life.i want to love and to be loved.i never had a boyfriend before.guys have asked me to be their girl but i dont see the sincerity in them.in fact friendship with boys never lasted long.im just another girl for boys.no one ever treated me special.i always feel left out.but i always laugh and make jokes as if im the most happiest person on earth!give me advice what should i do?
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hey these things all take time, you dont have to rush anything.
you should be going out with other students and having yourself some fun. a fun girl is very attractive to guys so you might just find what your looking for while enjoying yourself, instead of worrying about why you have not found it yet.
keep in touch, let me know how your getting on an what fun things you been getting up to ok ** ]
Put yourself out there more, don't throw yourself at guys, but definitely make sure that you're the girl that "gets remembered." Don't rush into a physical relationship etc. Also, don't rush into having a relationship with someone, the "right" person will find you in time. Don't stress over not having a boyfriend, focus on your school and "fun." The right guy will come, you really do have to give it time though. Hope I helped.
-Angel ]
dont worry if i were you i would finish college and then start worrying about your love life. when the time comes you will find the perfect guy trust me everyone does there is always someone out there for you you just havent found him yet but you will. from miketheman ]
Let them get to know you. I think what the problem is you always push them away. What are you hiding? Let them get to know you and you won't feel so lonely. Good luck! Hope I helped! ]
the next person that asks you out take the chanceand if it doesntwork DUMP HIM ]
Alright well you're 21 and you should most deff. have a boyfriend. Guys may not seem sincere but you will find that special one it just takes time. Don't feel lonely b.c there is one special guy out there for YOU that will make YOU feel special. If i were you i wouldn't always pretend to be happy. It's only gonna make you feel even more lonely. Try to find a boyfriend but it needs to be someone u really like. Hope I helped =] ]
aww you sound so unhappy .. when you say you NEVER had a boyfriend.. like never ever? well i mean if people like you or whatever maybe you should just talk to them cuz you can never fall in love unless you attempt it! hope that helps good Luck i hope you get to being REALLY happy no more faking - rate me please - katherine ]
First thing is you have to go out with them. Not all are going to appear sincere at first. Don't let that stop you from going out with them at least once. Being treated special comes later when they have dated you and know you are special to them. :) ]
aw thats sad. alright you ARE special. this just means that once you get a bf then it will be even more special. see sometimes the girl has to make the first move in the relationship. if no one is asking you then ask someone yourself. try to talk to people that youve never planed to meet before. they could really surprize you. start off as friends and then if you start to like them then say something like....so do you want to have dinner sometime, or maybe we could hang out later. trust me hun, life is too short to sit around and watch life go by, you should be living it. i hope i helped and if you need anything else then feel free to drop it in my inbox.
♥ leah ]
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