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break up or make up
I'm a 14 yrs old girl, my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 2 months now and he's changed. He also thought i was cheating on him because i thought we were broken up so i told another boy we would talk. well I know my boyfriend still likes me and i still like him too. He never shows emotion like i never kno if he's mad sad or if he even cares but i know he cares. Since i don't kno he gets mad a lot. We also hardly talk and now he's talking about sex. Which i've been thinking about but why should i give him what he wants if he doesn't give me what i want someone to talk to. Should I stay with him to find out why he acts this way or if somethings going on that I don't know? or Should leave him alone and find someone new? but you have to keep in mind he doesn't tell me alot so there is alot I don't know about him.
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hmmm......well first of all, dont sleep with the guy if this is how he acts. and dont ever let him tell you who you can or cannot talk to. dont ever a guy push you around like that. from what i can tell, i'd say either figure out why he acts like this and fix it quick or dump him and find a better who will talk to you because communication is the key to a good relationship.
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oksy u got a notepad...write this down.
1) you don't know much about him, ask a couple questions like 'what music do you listen to' etc.
2)stay with him and see if he still cares for you. you make think he does but he might not.
And 3)he's talking about sex...you need to tell him that a relationship is more than just sex. it's about getting to know your bf or gf, what they like,etc.
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Your relationship is going nowhere fast. You don't communicate, he's jealous, & yet he's asking for sex. Those are key ingredients in a failed relationship.
You <b>need</b> to talk to him & get your feelings out. If he won't talk, then I think you should end things. Communication & trust are key in a relationship. You need to have a successful emotional relationship before establishing a physical relationship, unless you're set on getting hurt. Right now, you don't even have the emotional foundation, so a physical relationship is just going to hurt you more & ultimately tear you apart.
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Talk to him more. You have to be good friends with someone before you start a solid relationship with him/her. I'd recommend finding out more about him. Tell this 'other boy' that he'll have to wait, and you're in a weird place right now and at a relationship crossroads. Get to know your boyfriend better, and I'd recommend being more forward. Don't know if you're broken up or not? Why not just ask him? Can't tell if he's sad or mad? Ask him that too! You don't have to be incredibly blunt or anything, but I think you'll find that if you're direct, you can get surprisingly clear answers.
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i think you should talk to him, tell him that you dont feel like he is telling you everything, you dont know him very well, tell him to be open and honest with you, like you are with him. tell him you want someone to talk to. tell him you were thinking about having sex with him, but if i give you that, you hafta talk with me and tell me about yourself, and tell me the things i dont know. dont let him not tell you. he might be embarrased to tell you things. but just tell him not to be embarrased or hesistate to tell you anything.
good luck!
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Well, it sounds like he's not very open with you. The most important thing in a relationship, is communication. Communication is one thing you two don't have. If he's thinking about DOING IT, then he doesn't care about anything else. Tell him that you like him alot, but you need to get to KNOW him better before it goes any further.
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