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She Might Be Bi!


Question Posted Friday December 9 2005, 11:33 pm

Ok for starters, here is some brief beackground information:
New Girl= Katelyn Everyone likes her (almost everyone). She dresses like a hooker *lol*. She has all the guys tied around her finger. And The worst thing yet. She sat in MY Lap! :|

I was sitting in Gym and the girl comes up to me and wrappes her arms around my neck and sits in my lap! So I said "Kayelyn I'm Not That Way!!" and She said "I'm not either!". So she got off. Then About a couple of minutes later she did it again. What can I tell this girl? I'm a GIRL! I'm Not Bi, or Lesbian I am STRAIT!!!


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zozo1377 answered Sunday December 17 2006, 1:59 pm:
ok first off...SETTLE DOWN!! you do not have to be a lesbian to sit in someones lap! it is TOTALLY normal!! you need to be comfortable about your sexuality. When you tell her that you aren't like taht, it makes her think that you are not comfortable about this and it makes you seem like a lesbian

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lesbian answered Saturday December 10 2005, 5:38 pm:
It doesn't mean anything. Shes just affectionite. Get over it if it makes you uncomfortable, or just tell her your not touchy-feely. But seriously, don't be such a homophobe.

Oh and about the gay porn, so what??? So what if she IS bi?

Why in the hell does it matter? Honestly? WHat's the big deal?

If she knows your straight, then she WON'T make a move. Trust me.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday December 10 2005, 11:56 am:
Sounds like she just wants you sexy ass.. Not really i mean my friends sit on my lap all the time that doesn`t mean she is bi.. and you probably added the she looks at porn thing so you can hear what she wants.. Just leave the girl alone and tell her not to sit on you if you don`t want her too.. ♥ Dez

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kevin1986 answered Saturday December 10 2005, 11:02 am:
You're being stupid. Girls hug, hold hands, and even kiss and that doesn't mean they're bi. For guys, it's a different story. If she starts rubbing your pussy, then you have problems.

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LadyGoodman answered Saturday December 10 2005, 2:28 am:
Give me a 1 for this if you want but I can't help myself

QUIT BEING STUPID. Just because a girl sits on your lap means nothing! You're acting like she came up to you and laid one on you!!

Get over your homophobia and be a little more open to people. Some people don't like others sitting in their laps, and that's fine, but that doesn't determine their sexual orientation!

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brunettecutie answered Saturday December 10 2005, 2:06 am:
well, next time she does it, say to her 'yeah i dont roll that way' and then push her off your lap. and say loud and clear, get off of me!! and make sure she gets what your saying so she doesnt do it again.

hope i helped!!

<3,
brunettecutie **

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xHC0Barbi3x answered Saturday December 10 2005, 1:08 am:
&hearts; She mite not be bi/Lez. She may just be one of those girls thats either very friendly or wants people to think shes Hot by being all slutty and sitting on everyones laps. I have so many of those girls at my school.
Just strait up say " um sorrie im strait not a lesbian" she may be offended but you proved your point.
And about her being slutty and whattt not. Yeah they guys may seem to LOVE her but they're not gonna respect her. If she keeps up her act; no one will.

G0OD LUCK! &hearts; &hearts; L.A.U.R. x33

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Saturday December 10 2005, 12:06 am:
Well, first of all, it doesn't mean that a girl is bi or a lesbian when she sits on other girls laps. She's probably just joking around with you. I know plently of straight chicks that do that. I sit on my female friend's laps all the time.

All you can say to her is that you really don't like it when she sits on your lap and ask her to stop. She doesn't know it's bothering you unless you tell her. Whem you said "Katelyn I'm not that way" she probably took it as you being serious but sarcastic at the same time. Just tell her it bothers you, there's no harm in that. If she doesn't stop, slap her.

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orphans answered Saturday December 10 2005, 12:05 am:
She just may be a little friendly. I have a friend like that and she DEFINITELY is straight. I can tell you for a fact. She's probably just messing around with you. It could also be a move to get the guys to notice her more, because you know how guys like lesbians and what-not. If she does something again that you don't feel comfortable, just mention that you don't like it. You don't have to be harsh or anything. I hope I helped :)

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cherry_chick05 answered Saturday December 10 2005, 12:00 am:
okay for starters she is just messing aroudn alot of girls set on each others laps and it don't mean anything. If you don't like her tell her off. but if you want to remian friends with her then tell her that you dont' want her doing that stuff but i'm for real i dont' think she is bi or lesbian i think she is just messing around.

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x0oiloveyoux3 answered Friday December 9 2005, 11:55 pm:
ok well if she does it again, just talk to her and tell her you dont feel comfortable when she does that, i wouldnt either. so the best thing to do would be talk to her about it, or just ignore her and try to stay away from her.

hope this helps=]
x3Lindsay&hearts;

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