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My name is Lindsay, and i am 14 years old.
I'm really good at giving people advice so u can ask me anything you want!

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how can i hide a hicky from my parents..i dont have really long hair so that wont work and i dont wear turtlenecks so yeah i need help

try using coverup or some sort of makeup

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My friend anita has been kinda of mean lately. we've never had a fight but we've known each other since we were about 7 (i'm 14 now) everytime i ring her to ask her to come out she always has something else to do like clean her room or the living room or something like that. the only time she wants to come out is when she has to go to the shop for school or her parents and i think shes just using me for that because she doesn't like walking to the shop by herself!i don't no what to do! should i try to igore her for a while? should i just ignore the whole thing and carry on with whats going on?please help!

p.s. i rate 5's

the worst thing you could do is ignore her. try to talk to her and ask if shes mad at you or something like that. but if shes a good friend, i dont think she would be using you. so just try to talk it over with her even though its hard.

hope this helps!
x3Lindsay♥

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there is this guy that i really like alot. i think he likes me. but im not sure. we have kissed. it seems like everytime he comes over he always kisses and hugs me before he leaves. when hes on the phone with his sister which is my best friend he almost always tells her to tell me hugs and kisses from him. and the other night he gave me the necklace he was wearing for no reason. he said * merry christmas for me to u* we flirt. and it seems as though he gets flustered around me. he told his sister he thinks im beautiful. and we've had sex once. but does me like me more than a friend? its been so long since ive had to think about this stuff. someone please help!

yeah, he likes you..A LOT! but if he knows you like him, he could just be leading you on, but i doubt he his, im pretty sure he likes you.ASK HIM OUT!


tell me how everything goes!
x3Lindsay♥

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Okay, this is VERY long but im Very confused so please help me!

Ok last year (6th grade) THERE was this guy and he is cute, smart, funny, but shy (just a little bit though) and he was new to our school. but he went to our school in kindergarden and he was in my class and I liked him (my 1st crush).

So then in the 6th grade I liked Him A LOT. and no one knew because almost every girl in the grade liked him and my bff (the only 1 who knew) said that I shouldnt like him that it was pathetic because i was just like every one else.

But i couldnt stop liking him. not just because he was cute but because i loved his personality everyone just liked him becuase of his looks.

but i really thought that he was ruining my life because ever since i started liking him, i got bad grades. so i pretended to hate him. and he went along with it and we started to fight and I acted like i hated him but i really really liked him. so when the year ended i was upset that we were fighting because i wanted to b friends with him. he was so nice and interesting. (you know that feeling when u just want to get to know someone?)

so this year i still liked him and so did this girl i thought was my friend but she was a brat and so i asked him out 4 her but then she started lying about me saying stuff that i made up about her a and when i asked him and he said no i pressured him into doing it because i thought she would except me now. but it just got worst he REALLY hated me now and they broke up after a few weeks.

after a while we started talking again and became sorta kinda just a bit friends and stuff because we both had this same teacher who was really nasty and we exchanges stories about him.It was fun and sometimes I would catch him staring at me and stuff i REally liked him i swear it was no longer a crush i really LOVED him. I mean I dream about him every night and sometimes i even cry myslef to sleep because Iknow I would never have a chance with him I asked my friends if they thought i could get any guy and they were all like yea ur blond and blue eyes and thin and athletic and crap but i thought thta i had an ugly face i mean i guess i am ok but i dont know i have freckles(no affence 2 any one out there who does 2 i just dont like them) but still no one knew and i was starting to think he didnt even picture me as a friend just as someone he knew.

but then last night we had a dance at our school and he kept staring at me and everyone was grinding and everything and then a slow song came on and he started dancing with a punk girl and i was like thats not his type he is a surfer dude person not a punk or something y ius he doing this? so i ignored him the rest of the night and tried to have a good time but when i came home i cryed for
3 hours.
I am so depressed and I cant just let him go I am going in sane please dont think i am an obsessive freak like some girls I am really in love with this guy. I know it! and every day i see him i want to ask him if he likes me but i think that will totally ruin any chance I have to be with him. I cant ask him out either everyone thinks I hate him and my biggest fear is rejection.


Please help me I will rate 5 to anyone who atleast trys to help


THANKYOU

~going crazy~

ok well if u really love him, then ask a friend to ask him if he likes you, or u can get over your fear of rejection and ask him yourself. its worth a try. but try not to let a guy run your life like that..

hope this helps!
x3Lindsay♥

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Hey, I'm going into the shower, and I was wondering how to make my hair like wavyish,curlyish..maybe? how can i do that?

theres lots of ways-
you could scrunch it when you get out of the shower

you could get a perm

you can sleep with your hair in braids and when you take them out, your hair is wavy

you could curl it

p.s.-these things have to be done when u get out of the shower;]

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you see we had this group ever since the first day of school and after 5 months roxanne went with annas group so we were 3 then after 2 months bianca started hanging out with jill then all of a sudden monina wanted to hang out with jill too so i wa left alone. . .so i went with other people. . .then when i got back home i tried to call monina but then it was busy so i called her on her cellphone and she told me that she was talking to jill and bianca (3-way) and i was kinda hurt cuz i always call her im usually the only one cuz i call her everyday. . . its like they dont have time for me anymore i already tried talking to them but it didnt work they would say that its not true. . .yada yada. . .pls i really need halp! ! ! pls try thanks. . .xoxo pia :'(

well, everyone makes new friends, but it doesnt mean they will forget about there other ones.and i understand that you're feeling kind of left out right now, but you can have more then one best friend.so try to hang out with them more, and try to become friends with jill and bianca, this way you guys can all hang-out and stuff.

hope this helps!
my sn is Pink m nd m216 so IM me if you're still having touble.
x3Lindsay♥

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I know everyone gets sick of these "I like him, but I don't know what to do!" questions, but I'm desperate here. :o)

Anyway, I like this guy. He's kind of hard for me to talk to, as he is not in any of my classes (so I don't see him often), plus I'm too nervous to start a conversation. What irks me is that he is a friend of one of my (female) friends, and I think he likes her (She doesn't like him like that). He talks to her a lot, and barely ever talks to me. It bothers me so, SO much!!! This (female) friend of mine is such a boy magnet and the guys never take a second glance at me. What should I do? Thanks!

well, you should talk to your friend and tell her you like that guy, and have her introduce you guys so you guys can talk more.and if you dont want to do that, even though u get nervous, introduce yourself to him, and start a conversation.

hope this helps!xox
x3Lindsay♥

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Ok for starters, here is some brief beackground information:
New Girl= Katelyn Everyone likes her (almost everyone). She dresses like a hooker *lol*. She has all the guys tied around her finger. And The worst thing yet. She sat in MY Lap! :|

I was sitting in Gym and the girl comes up to me and wrappes her arms around my neck and sits in my lap! So I said "Kayelyn I'm Not That Way!!" and She said "I'm not either!". So she got off. Then About a couple of minutes later she did it again. What can I tell this girl? I'm a GIRL! I'm Not Bi, or Lesbian I am STRAIT!!!

ok well if she does it again, just talk to her and tell her you dont feel comfortable when she does that, i wouldnt either. so the best thing to do would be talk to her about it, or just ignore her and try to stay away from her.

hope this helps=]
x3Lindsay♥

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alright..well i liked this kid.. lets call him dave.. and we flirt nonstop ..still..but now he has a gf and shes nice and all, but i am jealous, cuz i REALLY love "Dave" and now hes in love w. her. It drives me crazy. cuz "dave" and i still talk, and all he talks about is her, and he knows hes making me jealous. i dont know why hes trying to make me jealous though. Please help, i dont know how to make him stop !!!
i rate 5`s all the way

[ ♥ ] broken heart

ok, if hes trying to make you jealous then he knows you like him so try to act like you dont like him and dont flirt with him. if he starts talking about her or making you jealous act like you dont care, and try to change the subject if you can.

hope this helps!

x3Lindsayy♥

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