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HeLp ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
you see we had this group ever since the first day of school and after 5 months roxanne went with annas group so we were 3 then after 2 months bianca started hanging out with jill then all of a sudden monina wanted to hang out with jill too so i wa left alone. . .so i went with other people. . .then when i got back home i tried to call monina but then it was busy so i called her on her cellphone and she told me that she was talking to jill and bianca (3-way) and i was kinda hurt cuz i always call her im usually the only one cuz i call her everyday. . . its like they dont have time for me anymore i already tried talking to them but it didnt work they would say that its not true. . .yada yada. . .pls i really need halp! ! ! pls try thanks. . .xoxo pia :'(
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
find new buddies, if they can have other friends, you can too! Just still keep in contact if you can too, because just because they have new social lives doesn't mean they don't care about you anymore.
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well, everyone makes new friends, but it doesnt mean they will forget about there other ones.and i understand that you're feeling kind of left out right now, but you can have more then one best friend.so try to hang out with them more, and try to become friends with jill and bianca, this way you guys can all hang-out and stuff.
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Sometimes I think we just forget the morals they crammed into our brains in preschool. What, are we too old to try and get along? That's baby stuff, right?
I'm not trying to mock you. This is just something I've noticed in myself and other people, many of them older than me. Many of them, in fact, are teachers who tell their students to work things out but in reality they are immature and act more like toddlers than some toddlers I've met.
It's partially the fault of those adults for being hypocrites and showing us through example fighting and taking sides is the mature way to solve problems.
This whole phone call thing? It's not your fault, it's not Jill's fault or Bianca's fault or anybody else's fault. It's just society.
First, try to remember what you learned when you were younger? Remember that song? Make new friends, but keep the old? Come on, you know that song. It was great. And it taught a valueable lesson: you can't always be friends with the same people. People change. Change isn't bad. You need to change.
I know it hurts, believe me I do I have been through the same thing time and time again, but if your friends are drifting apart from you, it's time to move on. And it's best to do so with a smile and a relieved sigh than crying and putting yourself down. Change is part of who you are; embrace it.
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