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My friend anita has been kinda of mean lately. we've never had a fight but we've known each other since we were about 7 (i'm 14 now) everytime i ring her to ask her to come out she always has something else to do like clean her room or the living room or something like that. the only time she wants to come out is when she has to go to the shop for school or her parents and i think shes just using me for that because she doesn't like walking to the shop by herself!i don't no what to do! should i try to igore her for a while? should i just ignore the whole thing and carry on with whats going on?please help!
p.s. i rate 5's
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the worst thing you could do is ignore her. try to talk to her and ask if shes mad at you or something like that. but if shes a good friend, i dont think she would be using you. so just try to talk it over with her even though its hard.
hope this helps!
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I think that you should talk to her. Tell her:"I think that something is going wrong the last days. I think you ignore me. Do you remember when(tell one of the times she ignored you)?What is going on?I thought we are friends."Remember being calm and patient.
If she will tell you that you are wrong do not tell her anything. If she will continue ignoring you ignore her too and go out with other friends. If not forgive her.
If she will tell you what is going on try to understand her and talk about it with her. Remember!Be calm and understanding!I think that such an old friend deserves a second chance!Good luck!!!
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No do not ignore the whole thing. If you just let it go on then it will get worse. You have to talk to her about it. If she gets angry because of your honesty and decides that you should'nt be friends anymore, she wasn't a friend in the first place.
I hope this helped =]
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