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Guilt
I am a girl age 15.
Few days back in school , when we were near basketball courts , I tried to pick my key chain from the floor, I could not control myself and farted loudly. It was a sudden incident. Six boys & girls were there all noted it and laughed, I was very much embarrassed and ran away from there. I am still upset. I told this to my elder sis, her first response was also a laugh. She tried to convince me that its natural and can happen with any body, she told me that once this was happened to her female teacher also. But I am still feeling guilt. Please advice me.
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I'm 20 now. It's important to the story because I could care less now. So I was 14, and in my English class our teacher was reading the class a novel, I don't remember what the story was. Anyways, we were all sitting on the floor and it was really quiet, everyone was listening to the teacher read all nice and quiet. Right in the middle of storytime I farted so loud!
At the time I wasn't popular at all. Everyone of the girls in the popular group made fun of me for whatever they could. I have a broken nose, still, and it makes a bump, they made fun of me for that. I'm Italian, so I have hairy arms, they made fun of me for that. So they had a great time making fun of me for farting in class.
The moral of the story is, I don't know any of those people anymore. Nor, do they remember me farting in class. One girl that made fun of me the most actually goes to college where I go. I ran into her at a party. She told me how much she envied that I was myself all through middle school, and how she admired me for being a strong person who didn't care about all the petty stuff. It was a nice thing to have happened to me, her appologizing, but I didn't need it because I had already forgiven her for what she had done. Don't worry about it, I've embarassed myself so many times, that if I let it get the best of me I wouldn't go out. The strongest people make fun of themselves. I would just tell those people that they can laugh if they've never farted. Chances are they have.
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just pretend like you dont care and everyone will forget about it. dont worry, its no big thing.
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Thats no big deal. They will forget about it, and you'll live your life. You just need to wait it out and laugh about it yourself. No one thinks you are an alien or anything, they just thought it was funny. So dont worry about it.
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Your sister is right to tell you not to worry about it. It's really no big deal and everyone farts, even the prettiest girls and hottest guys fart.
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Don't worry! That exact same thing happened to me once, when I was about twelve. I also wanted to die of embarrasment, and was po'd with the people who laughed at me. In a few days, however, I, too saw the funny side. Hope that helped!
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Hey!,
You Should Have Laughed And Went On. Just Act Normal. Thats What I did.
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Don't feel guilt about farting. Everybody does it. I do it a lot. The key factor here is to not take it so seriously. You farted. You didn't break the law, you did however break wind. Laugh about it and go back to class monday. Of course, your friends will never let you forget it.
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just laugh it off. im suer everyone has forgotten about it and if they havent if you laugh with them they wont find it as funny anymore. stuff like this happens to everyone!
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so heres the deal : if the people who were there at the incident and still make fun of you for that then you should just tell them that its straight up obnoxious and you dont want them to make you remember it. but anyway, its true that it can happen anybody because its a normal thing you know ? so just try to relaxx and calm down and go to the mall with your friends or to the movies to help you take your mind off it.
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
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Hehe. Everybody farts, seriously. You have NO reason to be embarassed about it. Honestly, when those 6 boys & girls are around again, and they start laughing or saying something to you about it just laugh too. Don't make it look like it worries you, okay? Eventually it'll just be old news, and your fart will be forgotten.
But, don't worry about it. I fart all the time in front of people & people just think I'm a dumbass for doing it, but whatever. It's normal :)
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Why are you feeling guilty?! It's natural! It happens to everyone!
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i have seen so many people unintentionally fart. of course they are embarassed at first, but the next day, no one will mention it, and most will forget about it! i dont see why your feeling guilty, because its not your fault, and its not even a big deal! this happens to EVERYONE (either has or sooner or later)
ALiCiA *♥*♥*♥*
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