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Hi everyone. Thanks for checking out my column! Hopefully I can give everyone some good, and useful advice. Leave a question in my inbox and i'll glady answer it ASAP! =) Good Luck to you if your one of the many in a difficult situation. -- Isabel
Gender: Female
Location: USA
Occupation: high school
Age: 15
Member Since: July 7, 2005
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Last Update: July 13, 2005
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Hi Isabel. Its nice to talk to you again! Alright, well lets get straight to my question. Would you be upset or hurt in any way if I went out with Jake?.. I was planning on submitting this question as "anyonomous" but I am now doubting myself. I think you know who this is : /. I just dont want to hurt you.







... Alexandra (link)
Hello Alexandra. I think it was completely inappropraite for you to go on my advicenators and submit a question about Jake. Honestly, you do not care what my opinion is on this. Please dont try to 'sweet talk' me on this one. I know you are a completely fake person. I dont not like you, nor will I ever. Dont go asking me something you have apparently (Kate cough) already made a final decision on. You are going to go out with him; good luck to you both.

-- belle


i want a new screen name and i want it to be summer-ish any ideas becuz i can't think of any??


i rate 5's :) (link)
good screen name ideas for summer:
(add numbers, or xo etc. to find a sn not already in use.)

- beach babe
- sun kissed
- sun lover
- sun goddess

Good Luck,
Isabel


I'm not too confident with walking up to people and starting conversation...
What would be some good opening points/questions for talking to people? Of around my own age (16/17) (college people) or older? (work collegues)

Any suggestions? (link)
It is so much easier to talk to people if you have something in common with them. It gives you something to talk about until you get to know the person better. If you go to school together try to talk about that,work, music, even the weather can be good conversation starters. If its a guy, maybe a little light flirting! :o lol.

Good Luck.
--Isabel


what are some places you can download music to the ipod.. i cant use iTunes because i dont know how to download the songs and i dont have an account (link)
Napster is a good, legal music downloading service. It cost $9.95 a month and $1 per song which is more expensive than ITUNES. I would recommend just getting ITUNES at www.itunes.com because it cost $1 per song and no pre-set monthly fee. Their are also various illegal downloading services, but I would not recommend them for the simple fact that they are illegal. They also can bring many viruses onto your computer.

Good Luck.
--Isabel


is it normal to get a cold in the summer? because i think i have one i have a really soar throat and my nose is sooo stuffy! also what can i do to help get my nose unstuffed? (link)
It might be allergies. A lot of people get allergies during the summer. Go to a local drug store and get OTC allergy medicine or to your doctor and get perscription allergy medicine - (Assuming you have allergies!)

-- Isabel


ok i just got back from my 5 day cheer camp and we stunted almost 24/7 and i am really sore! i've taken advil to try to get it to go away but it doesn't seem to be working! i can barely walk and pick things up its so bad! what are some good ways that you guys use to help the soreness go away? thanx! (link)
Hey -- good luck with your sore muscles!

-Ibuprofen helps inflammation
-Ice the sore areas for about 20 min. once every hour.
-Stretch the sore area.
-Take a warm bath.
-Eat a lot of protein. (It will help build up the muscles.)
-Dont over do it - lay low and rest for a few days.

-- Isabel


Hey, here's something quick. My friends and I have nothing to do today! We really want to go out! It's raining and is supposed to continue all day! Have any fun ideas for teen girls? Mucho Gracias! (link)
- Go the movies
- go bowling
- go to the mall
- go out to lunch
- hang out with a bunch of people at someones house (boys and girls .. its more fun! lol) and watch movies and hang out.
- make a home video with your friends. (It will probably end up really cute and funny! lol)
- Bake something!

Those are just some ideas .. i know you said "we really want to go out", but i also gave some ideas if you end up staying in. Hope i was of help to you. --Isabel


is proactive really good for acne? i mean.. i dont get REAL bad acne but when i get pimples they get real red ..so do you think proactive is right for me and how much is it? where can i get it (link)
I used proactive and it didnt work for me, but i know someone who really likes it. If you do end up using it make sure you use it all the time (morning and night) dont skip! lol.

http://www.proactive.com/

Above is the proactive website. You can order it there. It costs apprx. $60 per kit. (Its a multi-step skin care procedure)

Good Luck!
--Isabel


what are some makeup tip sites ? especially on the eyes ? (link)
Here is a site with some good tips...

http://www.lhj.com/lhj/story.jhtml?storyid=/templatedata/lhj/story/data/BobbiBrown_03082002.xml&catref=cat310003

If you need more tips go to www.google.com and do a search.

Good Luck!
--Isabel


Im a 15/f and im having a party this coming week. I was wondering if anyone had any favorite songs that kids my age like to listen to? My friends are from all differnt groups so any types of music would be apreciated. Thanx a bunch! ~*MeGaN*~ (link)
BYOB by system of a down is a good new song..

It also depends on what types of people are gunna be there. If your going to have all crowds skaters,preps,metalheads,punk rockers,ghetto/rap people than mix up the music types. I'll give you some good songs, that are basically all different genres of music since your having a pretty diverse crowd lol

SONG: ARTIST:

Pon De Replay - Rihanna
Dontcha - The Pussycat Dolls
Beverly Hills - Weezer
Best of you - Foo Fighters
Dont Phunk with - Black Eyed Peas
my heart
Grind with me - Pretty Ricky
Just a little bit- 50 cent
Loose Control - Missy Elliot
You and Me - Lifehouse

Have a great party! -- Isabel


hello ive got an interview for nursing on friday and im really scared about it can any one give me any tips on what there going to ask me and what are things i should do to impress them thank you (link)
I cant give you any nursing specific types of tips. Just remember, dress nice, sit up straight and look presentable. Be friendly and polite. GOOD LUCK! I'm sure you'll be ok - dont stress!
-- Isabel


ok there is this guy on myspace thats wants me to hang out with him. i don't know if i should. i know my mother wouldn't agree with it, so what should i do?? is it good to meet someone from online?? (link)
DO NOT HANG OUT WITH HIM! I dont want to sound like your 7th grade health teacher talking about how people online can change their idenity, but its true. You dont know who the person really is. They can say they are a 17 year old male from Ontario, google a picture of an attractive 17 year old and pretend to be someone they arent. They can lure you in by observing how teens talk to each other on other my spaces etc. and kidnap you. Even if this person is really who they say they are it is sooo dangerous. Be smart and dont hang out with him!!! - Isabel


heyy i have mild acne and im allergic to alot of antiobitiotics so my doctor gave me this whole pamphlet on a pill called ACCUTANE, it supposed tot stop your oil glands or something, does anybody take it? how well does it work clearing up your acne? what side effects do you experience, because it is supposed to be very dangerous! any indo would be great - im undecided if i should take it or not! thanks =] (link)
Hey! I went to a dermatologist last month and I also got a big binder thing on accutane. I did some research on it, because at first it seemed like it had too many side effects than it was worth. After researching though I decided im going to get it. =) From what I understand, it can make you have mood swings. If you feel sad, or different than usual tell you parent or doctor. Also, it dries out your lips. I've heard from almost every source that it gets worse before it gets better. For me, I think thats going to be discouraging but in the long run it will be worth it! I wish you all the best because I know first hand that acne is nooooo fun. Good luck!! -- Isabel


Well my family is a family with 5 kids. We are running sort of low on money. How couild I help them out. I mean my mom could nopt even buy shampoo the other day! (link)
I think you could get a job...

- babysitting (you can make maybe $6/$7 per hr.)
- coaching (soccer ref. asst.coach for a sport you play)

*Another way to make money is collect a bunch of coins you have laying around and go to a coin star machine (i dont know where you live, and im not sure if they have these everywhere). Coin star machines give you cash for the coins you put in. You'd be suprised how much money you can make! Usually they are in grocery stores.

*Another thing you can do is sell things you no longer want that are in good shape on .. www.EBAY.com
www.amazon.com

* In Cosmo Girl magazine this month they have a whole section about how you can make money. Im going to pass along the info to you.

Where to sell clothes and accesories?
-- @ consignment stores
find one at www.consignmentshops.com
**how much you'll make -- $1-$10 per item.
(unless its designer etc.)

Where to sell books?
-- @ local used book stores.
(not like a Barnes and Noble though ; they recommend selling cookbooks or nonfiction books.)
**how much you'll make -- $1 paperbacks and up to $100 for first edition books.

Where to cell CD's and DVD's?
-- www.cashforcds.com
**how much you'll make -- up to $5 each

Where to sell sporting goods?
-- www.playitagainsports.com
** how much you'll make -- depends on item
great shape skis maybe $300
field hockey stick maybe $10

Good Luck!! Let me know if you need any more info. -- Isabel


i need help!!! i am 14 and i am having a baby and my mom is really strict...should i tell her about it? hide it from her? what do i do!!! help me! i rate high!!! (link)
I think that you really need to tell your mother or another trusted adult. If you try to hide it she will eventually find out because you'll start showing. Then what will you do when you have to go to the hospital and deliver the baby? I know it will be hard, but you have to tell someone. Maybe an older cousin? aunt? family friend? It will probably be the hardest to tell your mom so telling someone else first might be best. Keep in mind that if you want to go the abortion route (sorry to bring this topic up if your sensitive to it) than you need to tell someone so it can be performed before you are too far into your pregnancy. I highly recommend telling your mother or someone you trust first. If you need me then leave me a message in my inbox! I'd be more than happy to help you. Good Luck. -- Isabel


My skin gets bitten a LOT during the summer...are there any home remedies or good sprays that you guys can suggest
thanks (ill rate) (link)
Today I was at my doctors office and I was looking at this bulletin board with a bunch of articles on it. Their was one article about how a University conducted an experiment and tested bug sprays. It said REPEL bug spray was the best out of all of them! Good Luck with those bug bites! -- Isabel


i have a blister on my toe (1st toe) and it hurts. is there any way possible i can make it so it won't hurt? (link)
You can buy Band-Aid brand Blister-Block band-aids. They are cushiony band-aid type things. They work well and stay on good. I'm a figure skater and I get blisters from my skates sometimes. I highly recommend them. =)Good Luck! -- Isabel


I had something about this about 2-3 months ago.

I have this huge cat scratch on my nose & its just in 2 lines... I think its scared... but I was wondering how I could get rid of this scar & how long it would take?

thanks! (link)
If the skin is already healed and it is a scar I recommend using Mederma. I got stitches on my face and I got a scar. Mederma worked really well. I put it on a few times a day when I got a chance for a few months. You can buy it at a drugstore.

http://www.mederma.com/
Thats the mederma website in case you wanted to check it out! =)

Good Luck, and keep me posted!
-- Isabel


2 days ago me and my sister were running outside in my uncles back yard and i ran around her and i stepped on a 2 1/2 inch rusty bolt and it went 1 inch *or more* in my foot and i had to go to the hospital. well now im back home and i have no crutches or a wheel chair or anything and i really want to walk around my house but when i hop on my good foot it makes my ribs and knee hurt too much does any one know a way for me to get around until i get crutches?
thanks
i rate 5's for good answers (link)
I broke my foot once (it was on the edge of my foot),and before I got crutches I walked on my heel. Try putting most of your weight on your good foot and put some pressure on the heel of your injured foot. I'd try to avoid walking, but if you must try that! Good Luck, and hope that foot gets better! -- Isabel


i only got 4 hours of sleep last night and im really tired...but some how i cant fall asleep. what can i do to make myself fall asleep? thanks (link)
I have trouble falling asleep sometimes .. the best thing to do is try to watch a movie. Dont watch a movie you really want to see because you might get caught up and not be able to fall asleep. Watch something you've seen before and maybe you'll doze off. If you really cant fall asleep I once heard benadryl (for allergies) knocks you out! lol. PS: If you sleep in all day then try to go to bed at a normal hour, you'll probably have difficulty sleeping - avoid doing that unless you can go to bed later. =) Hope I helped. Good Luck! -- Isabel




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