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i need help!!! i am 14 and i am having a baby and my mom is really strict...should i tell her about it? hide it from her? what do i do!!! help me! i rate high!!!
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Just calm down first..Tell her slowly about it.. Don't get panic first.. Ok??You've shoulda told her before..Hope she won't get mad at you..
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I think you should tell her because if you hide the baby from your mom she is not gonna know what is going on when you have the baby and is gonna be more P.o. My friend had the same problem with her mom she had a baby and hid it from her mom and she got in big trouble believe me it may be hard but you would be in less trouble please rate
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tell her, she can help .. and she will notice if you get like 10x fatter
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You won't be able to hide it from her for long, so you may as well get it over with. It probably won't be as bad as you imagine it will be. Just tell her and be done with it. Write back if you need anything else. Good luck! :)
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I think that you really need to tell your mother or another trusted adult. If you try to hide it she will eventually find out because you'll start showing. Then what will you do when you have to go to the hospital and deliver the baby? I know it will be hard, but you have to tell someone. Maybe an older cousin? aunt? family friend? It will probably be the hardest to tell your mom so telling someone else first might be best. Keep in mind that if you want to go the abortion route (sorry to bring this topic up if your sensitive to it) than you need to tell someone so it can be performed before you are too far into your pregnancy. I highly recommend telling your mother or someone you trust first. If you need me then leave me a message in my inbox! I'd be more than happy to help you. Good Luck. -- Isabel
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how far are you into your pregnancy...my mom is really strict to and she has always told me that if i ever got pregnant to tell her she maybe mad at first but she will help you...the best thing i would do is tell her...and just be ready for the consequences...i dont know you and i dont know your mom so i cant say how she will react but all i am going to say is tell her and i will pray for you...just whatever you do dont run away..
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You have to tell your mom. Even if your too scared to and you dont, she will find out sooner or later anyway in the way you act, eat and look. Telling her before is the best solution. All parents are angry/upset about teen pregnancys, but they get through it, and help out with the baby in the end. Take Care.
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yes, the best thing for you to do is tell her about it. You know shes going to tell you everything you dont want to hear...but hey! Thats what happens when you have a baby that your not ready for. Just be upfront about everything, and you'll be alright!
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you need to tell your mom..because having a baby is a scary thing ESPICALLY when youre young..you should most DEFF tell her..she will be able to help you.make her except it..NO QUESTIONS ASKED..shes your mother if she loves you she will except your mistake
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you have to tell her, sooner or later she`s gunna find out you know. hiding something as serious as a baby from your mom isn`t a joke. yeah, a lot of parents are strict, but you HAVE to tell her. also.. please don`t concider abortion, it`s just totally wrong.. if you tell you mom, you guys can find some way to help this stituation.
hope i helped, good luck!
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Well obviously you should tell her.. cause after awhile it's gonna kinda be hard to hide a big stomach, don't ya think? =/ But DON'T CONSIDER ABORTION!! I mean at the most, consider adoption, because if he can't live with you, then let him live with a family that can support him and love him. You should have waited until you were older.. I mean I know it's your body ; your choice and such.. but this baby needs taken care of. So hopefully, your mom might help out too. And you definetly need to tell the father if you haven't cause he needs to help out too somehow..maybe get his parents too help too. Because you two aren't old enough to get jobs yet =/...and maybe you should go to that " Planned Parenthood " thing and see what they say or tell you to do...but DEFENITELY tell your mom!! Hope everything works out for you and your baby and the father and you have a healthy, nice life ahead for you three =) Hope I helped!!
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MELii
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YOU'RE GONNA HAVE TO TELL HER SOONER OR LATER...I mean...she might notice after a while...you need to except the fact that you are having a baby and that you have to tell your mom! AsH!
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Hard to hide a baby, don't you think? Tell her, cos she's gonna find out anyways... Anyways, you messed up pretty bad by doing this, cos you're definitely not old enough to handle it if you get on Advicenators because you don't know what to do. So, I suggest you call one of those Planned Parenthood things and find out what you need to do. And, find the dad (if you haven't told him) and tell him. He should support your kid too, so make sure he doesn't get off easy. You're not old enough to get a good job, so you're in real trouble unless you can get financial support somewhere else.
Consider adoption. =/ This kid needs parents who are ready to BE parents, and it doesn't sound like that's your situation right now. DON'T abort your baby. If you don't want him or her, at least let him or her live happily somewhere else... Hope I helped.
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hey your mum defo need to know right away! So you not going to go through it alone. If your thinking about keeping the baby tell your mum or if not then still tell her.
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Ummmmm.....If i was you, you might wanna go ahead and tell her cause she's gonna find out eventually......Cause when u start showing she is gonna question you and she feel betrayed cause you didnt' tell her at first and her strictness will only get worse.......
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you have to tell her , you cant hide it from her its impossible and if someone know and you try to have a miscarrage you can go to jail ... tell her now and figure out what your going to do , abortion , adoption or keep it .
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You need to tell her she mAy be mAd but she needs to help you through this and if you cAn't tell her tell A nuther AdAult you trust.
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Your mom definetly needs to know. No matter how hard it is or awkward or what she says to you she can really help you get through it. Plus, once it shows that you're pregnant, shes gonna know
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even the stricktest of parents are there for their children when they need them. i woulddeffinately tell her. she will help you. <33
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YOu should tell her and when did you have sex, this is really serious. If none of your family can take care of it you can't keep it yourself because your gonna have to drop out of middle school and take care of it. Or you probably might want to have an abortion. You should tell your mother right away. GOod luck girl best wishes.
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How would you hide this? You can not. You must tell heR. What's the point in hiding it when she is only going to find out sooneR oR lateR, ya know??
Goodluck to you :)
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