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Okay well I had this boyfriend and we were only going out for two weeks and then he called me and said that we cant go out anymore. I wasnt that dissapointed because we hadnt been going out for too long. But then my best guy friend sent me their conversation and the kid that dumped me was really mad he did. He only did it because someone told him it would be weird to go out with me. He just asked me out again and I know that he will dump me again because that is what he did last year too. What should i do
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you shouldn't bother with him anymore if he treats you so badly. there are many people in the world you should take a step back, move on and see who is out there. there is more then likely someone better will be out there for you.
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don't even bother with this guy. it's absolutely pointless to take this risk of getting hurt if you know what's going to happen. and from the way you talk about him, he sounds predictable and like he'll do whatever his friends and others say. pretty sad. hope i helped
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Well my advice is.....give the boy another chance. I mean he odviously likes you alot. If he dissapoints you again, then you know that he is in this for the game, not the relationship. Or you could sit this boy down and kindly ask him what he expects of you in this relationship, if he says he is in it for the game, or might seem like he is not telling you the truth...he is not worth your time and effort anyways.
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Do not take him back. Do you know how shallow that guy was being? That is telling you that this guy cares what other people think about who he dates. Thats a really shallow thing. Let him regret it more by saying no. A guy who dumps a girl because someone else may not like it is pathetic, hes letting other people think for him. He needs to learn that he dates for a reason, because HE likes them, it isn't up to OTHER PEOPLE.
-TheTeenGirl
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Do you want to be with him? You don't seem that fussed but it's hard to tell from text! If you're not that bothered it's probably best to leave it especially as he has messed you around before and he listened to someone else rather than himself when it came to ending the relationship. However if you're into him you need to weigh it all up: You either 1) get back with him and risk exactly the same thing happening again or 2)cut your losses and find someone who treats you properly and doesn't mess you around. To be honest from what you've said you're not that bothered about the relationship ending and also he's mucked you around before so whats the point? If you know he's going to dump you again don't let yourself get hurt- find someone who treats you in the way you deserve to be treated!! Good luck
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If this boy is going to dump you everytime someone says something about it being weird, you are definately better off without him. The loser needs to get a life and quit caring so much what others think. Hope I helped :) please rate!
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If you feel that you dont want to be hurt or go through what you did the last time then you shouldnt go through with it. You make the decision based on how you feel and about what you want. He probably will do it again but are you willing to take the risk.
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Well, i'd have a talk with him first. and ask him if he's willing to do what HE thinks is right and not what his friends think. If you're satisfied with his answer, then say yes. If not, say no. Hope i Helped!
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The choice is ultimately yours, but I think you should tell this jerk no. He's being incredibly immature about the whole "dating" scene. He's probably not worth dating if he breaks up withe girls just because someone else thinks that it's "wierd". Your relationship was none of that person's business, in my opinion.... Tell this guy that if he really wants to be your boyfriend, he should learn how to be a real man instead of pretending like you're still in elementary school.
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I think that you should just move on, because obviously he isn't worth the break ups. He needs to make up his mind. Your relationship with him should be drama free and if he really wants to be in it, he shouldn't listen to other people.
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mm. You're gonna have to follow your heart on this one. Is he worth going through this on/off scene ? Is he worth the trouble? If the answer is no, obviously just say no to him. Make him jelous and regret that he would do something so stupid as to listen to his friend instead of following his own heart.
If the answers yes, you should accept. Obviously he really means something to you.
=] Hope It Works Out . x3
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