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This Is long but I need help
It all started when I put on my away message “ YOUR DUCH A DUMB FUC* HAPPY ONE YEAR” and my ex-boyfriends girlfriend saw it. That away message was to my ex boyfriend lets call him *jack” jack and I went out for 7months and it was our one year anniversary 11.06.05 so that’s why I put an away message like that.
His girlfriend lets call her “Jane” she saw my away message and got really pissed and sent me an email on my space. It was saying that if I don’t get over jack that I’m going to get jumped pretty much so I thought we settled everything but I thought wrong. My friend lets call her “Jen” she rides the bus with me and she has been telling me that Jane is getting a petition going around and seeing who hates me. This is really true she’s not lying I over heard Jane talking about it.
Jane now has 40 people on the petition so 40 people so far hate me. How do I handle her? Should I fight her, leave it alone, talk to her, or make a petition of who hates Jane? But I think its immature she’s doing this so I don’t want to be immature. She’s 16 by the way and I’m 14.
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You're right, Jane is really immature for doing the things shes doing. You need to get the principal involved and your parents at this point. Not only is she threatening you, but shes two years older than you!
It doesn't matter how much you don't want to get people involved, it needs to be done. Yes, it's immature, but this isn't something you can ignore. You have to get this mess cleaned up, and not only that, but delete that away message. It's time that you start moving on from Jack and his idiotic girlfriend.
Also remember, don't ever think about fighting someone just because they are saying things about you. Do you think that anyone goes through their lives without being talked about? No way. You can't spend your whole life defending yourself to words, it's silly. Don't think about making petitions for anyone ever either. It doesn't matter what this person has done, you have to do whatever is possible to keep yourself innocent, that way, she can't say something to someone about you doing something to her. Start getting your parents involved, you've done nothing wrong at all. You cannot get over someone in a second. You have no choice right now, you like him a lot, you can't control that at the moment.
-TheTeenGirl
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ok first off i say talk to her... tell her that u didnt mean it in ne way to make her or "jack" madd... and that u cant help the way you feel.. tell her you are trying to get over "jack" and that nothing comes easily.. but your trying ...
and if all else fails id hall off and kick her a$$ but then again i dont know how big she is or your body frame or nething but i know to me it wouldnt matter .. id make sure that i won.. and by then her digninty would be soo hurt... shed never mess with you again ...
***Kayla...
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Tell her that you think she's being immature. And you really don't want to have to go through drama with her, and that mabye she and you could just let it drop, becuase there are so many beter things to be doing, and so many bigger things than "Let's hate my current's ex". Whatever you do, don't make another petition, you don't need to sink to her level.
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thats harrasment go to the principal she can get into a lot of shit for doing that
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here's what i would do, i would go down into the sublevel of the barracks, break into the arms room, take my m-16 out of storage, slap a 203 launcher onto it. then walk over to her house, blast her door down with a high explosive round from the m-203, walk in, and open fire. not even aim at anything, just spray the whole establishment with 5.56 rounds. reload with another magazine, walk over to her bedroom door, kick it in, and spray another thirty round mag into there.
she'll be devastated when she gets home.
-gunner
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Yuck! What a bitch. I think you should give her a mean look, look her straight in the eyes and say "If you don't fuck off and stop this petition right away, I'm going to tell the principal." And if she doesn't stop, do it. Get some friends to come along as witnesses and tell the principal about it. I know you probably don't want to do this, but this is only way that you can get Jane in trouble. There is almost nothing sweeter than watching your enemy get in trouble. But whatever you do, don't start a petition against Jane. It would be immature, you could get in trouble, and you would give yourself a bad reputation.
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Hi. I am very sorry to hear that. But if you wana get back at her play the same game. Make A petition and have it worded something like this "Please Sign if You Think ____ Is A Fake" or something like that. If the doesnt work steal it from her and make copys or something and turn it in to the priciple.
-Green Day Rockz
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