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kay well. Im 14 and im a girl. Boys are so inmature now a days. All the guys I go out with are not good boyfriends. All they say to me is " your hot" And I really want a really long good relationship. I know thats not really possible at my age but i see it all the time. I want a guy who loves me for me and does all those cute little sweet things. Ive had a couple in the past like that but they turned out to be ass holes.
Why cant I find that type of guy?
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Wow... we share the same thoughts. Soon enough you will find the right guy.. its all about time. You just have to experiment with different types of guys. SOon the boys will learn that they are stupid and they need to change.. When that time comes you will be in heaven! i hope this helps!
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Yeah I know.. it does suck. Guys are still just very immature at around our age whereas the girls our age are looking for more mature people. But you're just going to have to wait until someone mature comes along or until all the immature ones finally decide to grow up, yes it sucks I know.. but that's what I had to do for awhile. Or maybe try going for a older guy. I'm 14 and my boyfriend's 16 and he's much more mature than like all the guys in my grade combined..but he still has the goofiness to him I love. =] Anyways, not about me. So maybe try aiming your sight for a little older =] Someday these guys will grow up...don't you just wish they'd do it already though? Lol. I hope I helped.
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MELii
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I have this problem too. Guys just aren't looking for what we are just yet. They probably haven't even hit puberty. ;-). hah.
Anyways; You're just going to have to wait. I know it may suck but it's the only the you can do until Mr. Perfect comes around. Plus your 14, HAVE FUN. Take this time to become really close with your best friends and just have fun. You never know, Mr. Perfect could be right around the corner :)
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Ok...Im a guy but like i heard one of the girls in my class say sumthign not sure exactly what but it was like"...if a guy is nice hes gay" I am gay and I believe that because all my guy friends are assholes exept one...and what XDONTXHATEX said trying to change them dont if they care they'll know that you dont like sumthign they are doing and they'll change themselves hopefully for the better if not they dont relle like ya thats the key there... and youre only 14 you have pleny of time to find sumone
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Most of those guys turn out to be the hot guys. I hate to say it.. but it happens to all of us girls. We find a guy we really like, and he's cute but he turns out to be an asshole.. or he'll want you to be with him for different reasons. there's no true way to find out how a guy is. unless you get to know him first before you start dating him. Try looking around at different types of guys.
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like you said guys are immature, but i don't see that age matters, i'm ___ and have found 2 mature guys that want a serious realationship, so there are some out there don't worry, consider meeting new people, maybe at the mall or something, hope you find a mature guy!, hope i could help!
Jasmine,
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Hi There. Maybe you should consider the kind of things you've been looking for in a guy. Do you tend to date guys that are popular and attractive?
If being in a relationship with a caring guy is what you're looking for, you need to look for a guy who wants to spend time with you, and compliments you on things that are deeper than the fact you're cute, too. That means sometimes looking outside of the box of only the hottest guys at school.
I bet there's a guy that you're friends with right now that would make a great boyfriend that you've never looked at that way. Maybe you could give someone that you KNOW to be a good friend a chance... hopefully you won't get burned.
Good Luck!
Anne Nonimous
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Because they're all taken or they think they can win you over by saying "your hot" and well you're only 14. You havee lots of time to find your type of guy. There's lots of them though! You just got to get to know them. I'll just wait for a guy or go to the shy ones because they're usually really nice. Well, if you think a guy is making the moves on you..randomly say you want a guy that does cute little things. Just bring it up or make it seem like, you like someone but you don't. I'm not sure. I'll try to be best friend material with a guy first but flirt at the same time. I don't know. You can't expect guys to be sweet all the time either.
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You might think you can't find a guy like that. But you can!! (: Don't worry, I'm almost 16 and in the same boat as you, and just found a boy who treats me right, calling me beautiful & not hot.
I understand where you're coming from, I hate when guys say, "You're hot!" Or something stupid complimenting your behind. Guys like that suck.
Just give it sometime, you're bound to find a guy just perfect for you that gives you all your wants & needs. Don't worry about it too much, the more you worry the longer it'll take. (:
Plus, boys ARE immature at our ages, so just wait a few more years until the boys actually mature a little bit more! (;
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