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OMG am I confused?
Okay I had a weird situation.... I've liked this guy for like 7 months, well I love him.... he's bisexual, but has a crush on someone else.... which dosen't really bother me much cause we're EXTREMELY close! Anyhow, there's this new guy at work...only problem is HE'S 15 and I'm 17. Everyone says I like him or whatever, but I like to hang out with him cause we're VERY ALIKE (To the point where it scares me)....so I dunno whether or not I'm crushin on him, and then at that, there's a girl I've been thinkin about more than usual...like she's cool or whatever...but I dunno if I'm lookin at her cause I've never been successfull with males or whatever...but I dunno, I dun wanna be BI, I'd rather stay straight, but my luck with guys is horrible...but this whole thinkin about her thing has just started, it's weird....I dunno. ANY ADVICE WILL HELP.... just tell me what yall think....
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I dont have anything againt gay/bi/les people, but I beleive that girls and guys should go together. Maybe you are just "looking at her" because you feel like you cant be accepted by guys, but I bet you just havent found the right one. If you really feel that you like this girl, then go for it.
Hope it Helps!
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Melanie
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Being Bi is nothing so if you are go alongi am and im happier than ever becuase i know im not confined to one ot 2 ppl i can expand my reach so I think the same will be wit you if you are heres a cd to help you feel at peice with yourself...Joy willams=artist album=genesis it awsome and well it might just be a phase your going trough a lot of ppl do so dont worry just go wit what yah got!
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Just go with what you feel. Try not to think so much and just go on a feeling. Being BI isn't something you really can control, it's a feeling and desire.
Maybe you should get to know this girl more and talk to her.
I dont see your age as a problem either with a guy at work. I'm three years old than my man. Hehe.
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Well, don't turn bi just because you have troubles with guys. You should go after people you're attracted to, don't be desperate for attention and love. Just don't jump into something without realizing what you want first. Who cares if that guy is fifteen, it's better to crush on him than to crush on a girl just because you have problems with guys.
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1: tell the guy casuley how you feel don't come out and say it just hint it you know say something like you looked so good today" or something just compliment and really hint on to him.
2: well i would say for the 15 year old just yoou know be friends age really doesn't matter with friends.if you want to be more thanfriends great but if you don't ts perfecty understandable because he is two years younger then you.
3:there is absolutly nothing wrong with being bisexual. but if you don't think your bisexual your not if you don't want to be your not. its normal for girls to think about other girls just like curiousity haha or a little bit of jealousy with me. maybe your minds just telling you you two could make best friends. or maybe curiousity is taking over and say your walking wit hthis girl and you think to your self she has a nice ebutt. lol if your not sure if your turned on or not your not bi. i mean i would probably just be jalous but not in a bad way just in the way that i want to get like the girl. and if you are straight which you are you lick will change and everything will turn out good.
your seventeen you have plenty of time to go out with guys and stuff. i would say just enjoiy the ride of adolesence lol. and have fun with it. i'm not saying go out and kiss every guy you see or check out girls butts i'm just saying that when the right person comes you will know if your bisexual or straight and inlove.
i hope i helped i can sound cheesysometimes and this was a long thing of advice sorry. i hope i helped
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Personally?
I don't think you need all that much advice!
Luck has nothing to do with it. Luck is just a word, that was made up as an excuse for something going right.
If you want to stay straight, that's fine. Nobody should have a problem. As for the girl situation.. don't worry about it. Every girl has her doubts about one another.
I wish you luck.
-Hailie
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