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Q: whenever i go to myspace music or purevolume.com, it never has the list of songs that i can chose to play.. and whenever im on someones myspace and they have a song.. it wont play either .. whats wrong? what do i need to install in order for it to play?
well maybe your sepaskers don't work thats an obvious answer butttt.
other wise
somewhere on faq or A&Q w.e. will have an answer maybe

Q: ok i have a problem i just got together with this girl i have liked for a really long time i mean like ever sence we were little but it turnes out that she feel in love wit my best friend before me and her started datein and she still has feelings for him but he dont like her but then she says she cares about me but if she dont always act like herself then i know why. but i need to know if i should stay with her or not.thanx
i think you should ask her what she really feels you might not like the answer. but there is a chance that she loves you or likes you a lot more. she is going out with you after all.

Q: Okay so the guy I like, I was with him today and he was talking to his friend and he was saying how he'd f*cked this girl and whatever and the way he said it totally put me off him.

But like, my friend said he could've said it just to make himself sound cool which is what alot of guys do but I dunno.

I really like him but I don't want to TRY to get involved if all he wants is to get in my jeans, you know?
So, what should I do?
i think you should still like him just incase that your friend is right and just trying to impress his friends. and if you every get invovled with him you will see if he wants to "you know what" and make it clear you don't want to. if you like him you probably know him and probably know what type of guy he really is. there are alot stories to be made up about this i mean he could try to impres syo uthinking your into that. but i say astill l;ike him and when yo uget invovle worry abiout it and if he pushes you say no. do not get iinvolved though if you know his history about girls and heard from him and know he dumps themthey day after and whaterever. but you never really know if he isn't like that keep getting to know him and l ike him and maybe you two will get invovled with no problems hope i helped:)

Q: k, so i alread asked this question but the link didnt work.
so im gonna try this again
(dont scream)
http://tinypic.com/ei1d93.jpg
thats a picture of me..and if that picture doesnt work, my hair is almost shoulder length, black, and parted to side, so my bangs go over one eye, and they are a bit shorter than the rest of my hair.
saturday i have a hair appointment to get a trim, thin, and styled for homecoming, and my question is, how should i get it styled? i have no idea what would look nice. my dress is black with some pink, and its long with speghetti straps.
ill rate you 5 unless your mean.
thanks in advance.
ask the stylist to trim your hair and make the bangs a little messy its in right now and looks good. just a trim though nothing big and you get rid of split ends so your hair will look bettter ask the stylist to blow it out and add a little volume. i ove this hair style its nothing big and its casual and formal like your dress. and also if your afriad to get the bangs to trimme d side them to the other side it will make you look like you got a totally different har style by just flipp ing the side i did hat once and everyone complimented and thought i got them trimmed! hope i helped hope your hommecomming is good and i'm sure you will look amazing.

Q: I'm haveing a problem with coil terminals not fireing. Need advice on how to test the coil terminals, and ignition amplifier & switching module.Bacuase the fuel pump went bad at the same time but I fixed it. Thank you.
i'm sorry i noticed this been up for a while and i'm not sure about cars haha but google / ask jeeves/ search online for it. hope i helped a little.

Q: My girl and I just broke up. She wants to call me everyonce in a while to check how Im doing. I would be crushed If I found out she was with someone else. Should I keep talking to her in hopes that she might come back to me? Would it show that I am trying to make things better?
wekk this gir lfirst off seems very sweet if she's calling to check up on you it is showing that she is trying to make things better too. so you showing her you want things better is good. i think you should tell her how you feel. she broke up with you i'm guessing? but she still calls and that's really sweet of her itt means she cares about you one dayo n the phone you should ask her why you guys broke up. and tell her that right now if she went out with anyone else it would crush you. she might just be wanting a break from relationships and just wants to be flirty and single. and that's ok i'm sure soon enough you guys will be together agian. i hope i helped:)

Q: Okay I had a weird situation.... I've liked this guy for like 7 months, well I love him.... he's bisexual, but has a crush on someone else.... which dosen't really bother me much cause we're EXTREMELY close! Anyhow, there's this new guy at work...only problem is HE'S 15 and I'm 17. Everyone says I like him or whatever, but I like to hang out with him cause we're VERY ALIKE (To the point where it scares me)....so I dunno whether or not I'm crushin on him, and then at that, there's a girl I've been thinkin about more than usual...like she's cool or whatever...but I dunno if I'm lookin at her cause I've never been successfull with males or whatever...but I dunno, I dun wanna be BI, I'd rather stay straight, but my luck with guys is horrible...but this whole thinkin about her thing has just started, it's weird....I dunno. ANY ADVICE WILL HELP.... just tell me what yall think....
1: tell the guy casuley how you feel don't come out and say it just hint it you know say something like you looked so good today" or something just compliment and really hint on to him.

2: well i would say for the 15 year old just yoou know be friends age really doesn't matter with friends.if you want to be more thanfriends great but if you don't ts perfecty understandable because he is two years younger then you.

3:there is absolutly nothing wrong with being bisexual. but if you don't think your bisexual your not if you don't want to be your not. its normal for girls to think about other girls just like curiousity haha or a little bit of jealousy with me. maybe your minds just telling you you two could make best friends. or maybe curiousity is taking over and say your walking wit hthis girl and you think to your self she has a nice ebutt. lol if your not sure if your turned on or not your not bi. i mean i would probably just be jalous but not in a bad way just in the way that i want to get like the girl. and if you are straight which you are you lick will change and everything will turn out good.

your seventeen you have plenty of time to go out with guys and stuff. i would say just enjoiy the ride of adolesence lol. and have fun with it. i'm not saying go out and kiss every guy you see or check out girls butts i'm just saying that when the right person comes you will know if your bisexual or straight and inlove.

i hope i helped i can sound cheesysometimes and this was a long thing of advice sorry. i hope i helped

Q: where is the clitoris and where is the labia? whats the difference?
to be striaght foward its in the vagina.
the labia is around the pee whole. as lips.
and the clitoris is when a girl gets an orgasm they're different wholes basically

i looked it up for you. i hope this helps lol

Q: Okay so theres this new guy to our school and hes a Junior and Im a sophmore and hes the classic bad boy he's been in trouble with the law, hes not a virgin (i am)he parties ALL the time. But hes really sweet and i truly try and stop myself from getting wrapped up in him bc to him im probably just another "girl" well whenever i get online hes the first screen name i look for and in the hallways i always look for him. But hes a major flirt and i know you guys are gonna tell me to just forget about him and i know IM TRYING. =/ basically, what im trying to say is should i even give him a chance to see me for who i really am or just give up while my hearts all mine? Like and sometimes i think hes too bad for me. He asked me this weekend to go with him to street racing with him and he doesnt have his license or permit it got taken away and i made up an excuse. Should i hang out with him?
hang out with him and flirt see if he flirts back and if he compliments he likes you. so try to be friends with him first before you get invovled so you can see if the bad boy thing is just his image or the real him. its like that xcomercial you might havethe "the guy with the bad boy looks and a good boy soul" basically what everyopne else said.

Q: My back hurts really bad. I mean when I sit at my desk it hurts right in the spine of it! What can i do to make it stop hurting?? Thanks!
next time you go to the doctor tell her to check it out it might be something. and you can also just ask how to stretch it out. yo ucan call the doctor or look up back pains online and see if theres any at home treatments like they said and stretchs that help. hope i help!

Q: i got dared to tounge some1 and i did it soo now that i did im feelin like i should take it up a noch but i dont think he does what do i do?
haha i know what you mean don't take it up a notch just like keep t on kissing lol isn't it just awesome the tingly feeling you get i felt like so bubbley. lol. and keep talking to this person and hang out who knows might be something special.

Q: 14/F--

I know it's early...but my mom is asking me to conduct a christmas list for gifts early.

What might be some things I could ask for?
I want MOVIES but I need some suggestions for good ones new/old alike.

As far as C.D.'s go I like Country music...any suggestions?

I already have an Apple iPod (mini)
hey listen to some classic rock (check it out online) it sortof sounds like country and i like it sometimes. and go crazy on your christmas list! be like i want clothes from madison avenue in burberry lol chances are your parents will get the hint you want nice clothes and will try to get you something rally nice unlike if you say i want clothes theey would be like what kind! so think big and think small. small as in you want as certian type of make up from a magazine. and your parents will get you it from a magazine if its not too expensive. i hope i helped.




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i'm sorry about the answer it was a little hazy i tried to tell you to try some classic rock listen to it and is you like ask for it for christmsas and think outside the box for presents. and alllsoooo first impressions go aalot way you might like to try being nicer and not sounding like you don't care its christmas be happy your getting presents:)

Q: 14/f hey i was wondering...well first off iim really quiet at school so i dont have a lot of friends because thats my personality until you get to know me then im really outgoing but i want to be more outgoing but i dont no wht to talk about and dont say music, movies, books like something more iinteresting and not gossip, any ideas

second off how can i be more sexier around guys without flirting with them

third how should i flirt

i will rate 5s for good advice =D

♥ Jill
well as annoying as this advice is: just be your self. umm try talking toyour nieghbors in class by like saying can i borrow a pen or what does something say if you need to. and if you see them in the hallway or in another class say your in my history class right? 1st period mrs. smith. or what ever class it is.

where the clothes you want and take your time in the morning to look good don't worry about wehat other people think because some people might love it. when your confident everyone will notice and you well feel good. you don't have to be sexy to be noticed jsut be confident.
cafienne helps too lol its good to be awwake ior just get a lot of sleep.

when you flirt if your shy jsut smile when your confident. if you see a guy you like make eye contact he will have to look back at you. and try not to feel embarrassedi mean he's loking back right? if he keeps staring ll or just looks just turn your head like you would usually if embarassed and smile politely let them know you want to get to know them. and compliment compliments are nice they will compliment back! hope i helps.

Q: My 9th grade math teacher is so sweet! I am in 10th grade now, and my teacher for Geometry is not a good teacher, so I go to my 9th grade teacher for help! and last year she helped so much, and this year she is helping a lot too! I want to get a picture frame, and on the outside put a wooden ruler and a wooden protractor and a crayon and a pencil. She is from Texas, and proud, so I want to add something from that, but I dont know what. For the picture inside of the frame, she nominated me for student of the month in 9th grade and I won, so I will use the picture of us from that. I am also going to give her some candy and her all-time-favorite soda, Diet-Coke! Anything else?

5's and feedback! :)
-Kelsey
you know what would be cute a picture of diet coke you can put in on the picture or something or buy a tedsdy like they said and have the bear wearing a coke shirt or something. hope i elped it should be more then enough stuff what your giveing her hope i helped.

Q: ok! i imed someone on AIM & they didn't have up an a/m er it wasn't in their profile, but when i imed them the a/m was up & it was a link for a angelfire site, & i was wondering if you could get a virus somehow. i didn't click it er anything but i heard there's some code you can put in your a/m that gives people virus's & i wasn't sure if that was true er not. nothing came up on my virus scan though. any ideas

thanks
don't click don't worry though its fine i get those things sometimes just x out don't click and it will be fine and agian the virus scan should have picked it up. and theres no such thing i mean how would they get into the computer it makes no sense. hope i helped.

Q: okay i like this guy right? well thanks to my idiotic and tactless ex-boyfriend (my crush and him are best friends) he knows but the thing is he acts the same.what does that mean.im really confused.help?
enjioy it make your crush like you . he will get to know you better now that your ex-boyfriend has experience wwith you in a realationship[ and your crush might get a little jealous. i reall hope i helped.

Q: I need to lose stomach fat FAST. What is the fastest way I can do it (with the exercises listed and how often I should do it). This is desperate! Thank you.
along with crunchs talk a jog i read in a magazine taking town 10 minute jogs work out jsut as well as one 20 minute.and also walk alot of places. and your going to be hungry after all of this but don't fill your self up take normal servings as if you weren't excerising .

Q: AHHHH..okay im really confused right now and i just need a little help..so i have known this guy for a while, and we both like eachother, we told this to eachother on the phone one night..but anyway, we started hanging out together all the time, and he would say that he liked me a lot, and he would hold my hand, and then school started, and we still hung out on the weekends, and at school he would hug me and crap.. but now, i feel like we are becoming distant, we arnt hanging out as much anymore, and he dosnt make an aqauiantence that much any more...AHHH..im so confused..lol..is he just being a typical guy or what?
typical guy sorry to tell ya lol. but go gewt him when you see him in the hallway and such show your emotions if your happy smile a lot and hug him and makehi m be like wow she really does like me. and guys are annoying so the yreally do want girls to make the first move so call him ttalk to him online and hang out agian you will be back before you know it and if he's a jerk please don't cry tears aren't worth him i would cry lol. some times its good too but with this guy ... i mean he can't epect you to do everything right. but you hsould do it this once to get baack into the swing of things school homework and classes can get in the way between friends not constantly together

Q: i dont have money i dont have a nice face i am very alone i want to have a girl frind and i know haw i get the girll frind
be your self and someone will like you. take chances. and i know alot of people and other things say be your self but if you find a girl you want to meet meet her no girl would be like um no. unless their a total be eye tee ce acheh
then they're not worth it. but most girl would be completely flattered if they have a boy friend or a relation ship ask if they have any friend. and compliment a lot sso they don't have to fish them out and you will get them back in return.

Q: heyyy i need codes for myspace..

like i have some .. like how to make a heart, or a break in a page. but thats just about it. i want my myspace to be OOBER cute. so yeah i need help with the codes.. does ANYONE know of any more besides those.?

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k THANKS in advance

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