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Okay so the guy I like, I was with him today and he was talking to his friend and he was saying how he'd f*cked this girl and whatever and the way he said it totally put me off him.
But like, my friend said he could've said it just to make himself sound cool which is what alot of guys do but I dunno.
I really like him but I don't want to TRY to get involved if all he wants is to get in my jeans, you know?
So, what should I do?
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Hey,
Guys tend too talk about having sex in front of girls too get them jealouse. He obviously wants to go out with you but he is obviously enjoying playing games with your head, and guys like that arent worth your time or effort.
If you want too play along with his games though you could always flirt the hell out of him and then turn the game around.
Cheers.
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Well he prolly did that just so that you would like him more but give him a chance and if he trys to do somethin talk to him or try to stay away from him .. idk what to tell ya !!
kaitlyn jo *
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I think you should just forget about this guy.
You don't want him to pressure you into doing something that you don't want to.
Also, what if your friend was right, and he was lying about what he said to sound cool? If you two got together, he could lie and tell everyone that you two did stuff that you really didn't.
If he says stuff like that, it's a big sign that he cares way too much about his reputation.
There are so many more guys out there that will respect you and not talk about having sex and all that stuff all the time.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
♥Manders
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Hey chickieee
All boys right now are going through this stage where all they want is to score with a girl. Boys eventually will grow out of this. I have this boyfriend named shaun and ya he talks about sex and whatever in front of his friends but hes respectful to me. When we first started going out i talked to him about that sort of stuff to get it out of the blue. I said no sex im too young and we laughed and stuff but i tol dhim that hes not ognna get any as they call punting if they dont have rescpect for me. And now he undestands
Xoxo CatieeRoseee
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if this guy's idea of cool is "fucking girls up" he's not worth it. regardless of whether he did or not, he's gonna try to make himself look cool ... telling about how he did you and such or just getting some confidence from adding another girl to his list. my vote is no. <3
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i think you should still like him just incase that your friend is right and just trying to impress his friends. and if you every get invovled with him you will see if he wants to "you know what" and make it clear you don't want to. if you like him you probably know him and probably know what type of guy he really is. there are alot stories to be made up about this i mean he could try to impres syo uthinking your into that. but i say astill l;ike him and when yo uget invovle worry abiout it and if he pushes you say no. do not get iinvolved though if you know his history about girls and heard from him and know he dumps themthey day after and whaterever. but you never really know if he isn't like that keep getting to know him and l ike him and maybe you two will get invovled with no problems hope i helped:)
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Try and figure him out a little bit more. See if what he's saying is true or if it's something that's just for show. If he really is a dog, then just drop him and give him the cold shoulder.
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Unfortunately most guys do that! The only thing is that some actually think that while most of the others are just saying that because they think it sounds cool in front of their friends. So the chances are that he was just trying to look cool and inside he doesn't truely feel like this. So don't lose faith altogether- just be wary. If he acts in this way again then maybe you should rethink your feelings for him but until then I wouldn't worry about it.
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