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Falling for the bad boy
Okay so theres this new guy to our school and hes a Junior and Im a sophmore and hes the classic bad boy he's been in trouble with the law, hes not a virgin (i am)he parties ALL the time. But hes really sweet and i truly try and stop myself from getting wrapped up in him bc to him im probably just another "girl" well whenever i get online hes the first screen name i look for and in the hallways i always look for him. But hes a major flirt and i know you guys are gonna tell me to just forget about him and i know IM TRYING. =/ basically, what im trying to say is should i even give him a chance to see me for who i really am or just give up while my hearts all mine? Like and sometimes i think hes too bad for me. He asked me this weekend to go with him to street racing with him and he doesnt have his license or permit it got taken away and i made up an excuse. Should i hang out with him?
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Okay, well honey, I know this is going to sound like the same old "don't get involved" but you really shouldn't. I mean, sure, talking to him is fine, but don't get involved in a realtionship. I know a guy JUST LIKE THIS. Exactly identical.
But I didn't have anyone to go to for advice, and I ended up....really hating it. Please don't take this in a bad way, but you probably are one of many girls. I was, but I just didn't see it for a while.
So my advice is to stay clear of him relationshipwise....but friends....sure.
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honestly if you think hes to bad for you chances are he is if you must hang out with him id recomende bringa licensed/permited friend witha cr so u can leave if something happens that you dont like
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aww he sounds soo wonderful.
give him a shot!! let him see the real you, if he doesnt like it, too bad for him.
much love
lea♥
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No he sounds like he is just bad news waiting to happen...
:*:Shawntay:*:
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Definately. Try not to push yourself into his "bad guy" side, though. Just because you guys are together doesn't mean you can go party. Respect his lifestyle, but don't get caught up in it. Bad things a person does doesn't make that person bad.
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Okay so here's the deal.
I think you should give him a chance but do not let your guard down and don't put your heart out on the line. Find out what he's about. Sometimes it will only take that one special girl to change a person totally around.
But remember that a person cannot be so easily changed and you can't force them to be different.
Maybe when you're around him more, get to know him more and view his actions and such you may wonder why you thought about him so much in the first place. That was the case with me and a lot of guys I was into.
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This bad boy as you call him is probably going thru a faze like every boy are man goes thru. but it will take him a while or so to get out of it. but for you I think you should try and be friends and see what happens from there. but if you start to get into trouble with him then there's a good chance your parents will step in. hope I helped.
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Dont get mixed up w/him. Youre only gonna get hurt. You already see him as he is. people dont change over night. Its ok if you wanna talk to him, but thats as far as id go!!
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hang out with him and flirt see if he flirts back and if he compliments he likes you. so try to be friends with him first before you get invovled so you can see if the bad boy thing is just his image or the real him. its like that xcomercial you might havethe "the guy with the bad boy looks and a good boy soul" basically what everyopne else said.
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I wouldn't if I were you. People like him have bad things follow them, and pretty soon you'll either end up in trouble just because you're around him, or you'll take in his bad traits. So find a kid without a criminal record, they're usually better people.
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Hunny dont do it its so not worth getting hurt!
♥Staci♥
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Okay...This is sounding extreme. I wouldn't really go near him. Only if it is a SAFE movie or maybe even a little dinner at Denny's or something. Please try not to get hurt. To him you PROBABLY " another girl." Don't go off and "stay a night" with him. Try not to look at him all you can. Please if you need to talk to me more drop a note in my box!!
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omg im just like you i always fall for the bad guys .... just be your self around him and give him a chance
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I would watch it you can hang with him but as friends and as for the street racing thing don't go. You should deff give him a chance to see you for you but when you hang out make sure it's like 95% legal at the least and mabey help him stay out of so much trouble with the law. Just be careful with what ever you do and think 2 or 3 times before you go do anything with him.
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