My girl and I just broke up. She wants to call me everyonce in a while to check how Im doing. I would be crushed If I found out she was with someone else. Should I keep talking to her in hopes that she might come back to me? Would it show that I am trying to make things better?
redninja answered Wednesday October 12 2005, 9:27 pm: it is always good to keep in touch, cuz thn you can maybe achieve a friendship. You can see if mybe she would coe back to you but that really depends on the circumstances of the break up. it might happen you never know. If you do care about her alot i dont see why you shouldnt stay in touch, its still a way to keep her in your life. And if she does hook up with some one new, it is something that you will have to acept, people do move on. [ redninja's advice column | Ask redninja A Question ]
RockStoleMySoul answered Wednesday October 12 2005, 9:05 pm: Honey, stop right there. Eh Eh. Bad. Do not, not, not talk to her that often. WHen she calls and says "so how are you" just say "oh im doing awesome" and don't tell her you miss her or ask her about her love life. You should move on sweetie. I know how hard it is to forget someone who you cherished, but really, you should move on.
Maybe in the future, few weeks, if she is still showing interest, it could mean she wants to get back together. but for the moment....don't get into longer thenm 5 minute conversations on the phone. [ RockStoleMySoul's advice column | Ask RockStoleMySoul A Question ]
born2spend016 answered Wednesday October 12 2005, 8:07 pm: Yes it would. If she still calls you then she obvious still cares. And you should still talk to her so you can maybe hook up again if you still like her
sillyrob answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 5:58 pm: Don't really try anything. There is some reason you guys broke up. If she wants you back, she'll go back to you. If she chooses someone else, then you find a new girl. [ sillyrob's advice column | Ask sillyrob A Question ]
xiil0vey0oux answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 5:39 pm: YOu best talk to that girl. If you love her you better tell her. Tell her how much you care for her. You to embarressed to.. write a note.. er if she has internet tell her on the internet.. try anything to make her feel like you love her ALOT!! Show how muchh you care.. She`ll come back to you if she really loved/loves youu.. iightt?? GOod luckkkk..
Hollister_Gurl_0506 answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 4:30 pm: Yes you should keep calling her since she calls you. It seems like she still cares alot about you because if she didnt care about you then she wouldnt call you. For your last question the answer is yes and you have make her see that you are trying to make things better between both of you. Hope I gave you some good advice...
malibubarbiie111 answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 3:57 pm: don`t give up on her that easy.* <33 but don`t let her control you. kinda play hard to get. once she knows she can`t just have you crawling back to her when she is ready for you. she`ll think about it. and want you back even more.-- [ malibubarbiie111's advice column | Ask malibubarbiie111 A Question ]
onlyme answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 3:57 pm: well first of all do you know why she broke up with you and if she hasn't told you then maybe u should ask her then you will find out if you should wait around for her [ onlyme's advice column | Ask onlyme A Question ]
ilovejuicex answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 3:57 pm: wekk this gir lfirst off seems very sweet if she's calling to check up on you it is showing that she is trying to make things better too. so you showing her you want <b>things better </b>is good. i think you should tell her how you feel. she broke up with you i'm guessing? but she still calls and that's really sweet of her itt means she cares about you one dayo n the phone you should ask her why you guys broke up. and tell her that right now if she went out with anyone else it would crush you. she might just be wanting a break from relationships and just wants to be flirty and single. and that's ok i'm sure soon enough you guys will be together agian. i hope i helped:) [ ilovejuicex's advice column | Ask ilovejuicex A Question ]
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