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what's there to know? i'm a sixteen year old girl from raytown mo.. i have long black hair.. and brown eyes.. i'm 5'10 and a half.. and i love ♥ music ♥.. feel free to ask me anything.. i'm a pretty knowledgeable person.. i know a lot about many things.. haha.. okay.

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Okay well I went out with this boy for about 2 months and it was great I loved him I know in 2 months but we known each other for 2 years before. Well we went out and we broke up i was devestated I still wanted to talk to him and everything I cried everything. Well the last time i saw him he treated me REAL bad so after that i was disappointed in him for his behavior but I still like him like really DEEP inside. Well the other day i went to a party and this girl knows about me and him and our past and know she is his gf.Well a girl asked her who her bf was in front of me and she felt bad. I didn;t know how to feel but i didn't want her to feel bad cause I think i'm over him kind of. What I'm asking for should i feel bad about her going out with my ex even though i'm kinda over him. I don't know how to feel cause i care about him even though he hurt me the way he did.

Well, deep down, you are going to feel a little bad. But not for her sake. It's hard to move-on. I know how you feel.
No matter how much your mouth denys being 'in-love' with him, your heart knows the truth.

Don't feel bad. You are a strong person (I assume. Of course, everyone is strong in there own ways) It takes time to heal.

-Hope it helps dear.
_God Bless
Hailie

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ok well i kno this song but i cant think of the anme of it or who sings it

the chorus goes like this

Here we go,
Here we go again,
Now your telling me,
That she is just a friend,
And then she's calling you,
At 3:00 in the morning,
I can't take this no more

And a girl sings it, and i think is r&b or rap

Thanks!!!

That'd be:

Here We Go-Trina!

Here's the lyrics:
[Intro: Trina & Kelly Rowland Adlibs]
Look
I aint got nothin ta say to you
I cant even believe you
You know what
Im too fly for this
You playin yourself

[Chorus: Kelly Rowland]
Here we go
Here we go again
Now you tellin me
That she is just a friend
Then why she callin you
At 3 o'clock in tha mornin
(I cant take this no more)
No No No

Here we go
Here we go again
Now you tellin me
That she is just a friend
Then why she callin you
At 3 o'clock in tha mornin
I aint tryna hear it
(Not this time)

[Verse 1: Trina]
Look
Whatchu think this is?
You treat me like a random chick
You done forgot who introduced you to rocks
And poppin all that cris an
Who letchu hit it from tha back
Anyway that chu like
And any debts i can pay tha price
I thought i was a chick you would make your wife
And now a cant even stay tha night (You wack)
I cant even look in ya face
Witout wantin ta slap you
Damn i thank God i aint get that tatoo
You betta thank God i aint have tha strap boo
You aint even worth that trick get at chu
Matta fact
Trick get at dude
I'm convinced
Aint got ta ask you
And tell tha trifflin
She can have you
I aint lookin atchu no more
Im lookin past you

[Chorus: Kelly Rowland]
Here we go
Here we go again
Now you tellin me
That she is just a friend
Then why she callin you
At 3 o'clock in tha mornin
(I cant take this no more)
No No No

Here we go
Here we go again
Now you tellin me
That she is just a friend
Then why she callin you
At 3 o'clock in tha mornin
I aint tryna hear it
(Not this time)

[Verse 2: Trina]
When ma girl came through wit tha news
All i did was think about me and you like damn (Damn)
What a chick gotta do to get wit a real
That know how to stay true like man (Man)
No more quarter ta eights
You betta hop on a bus or a cab
I shed so many tears
Cant believe how many years
Tha baddest put up witch yo dusty ass (Yeah)
Now you know that im tha queen of Miami (Uh huh)
All that loud talkin, lying
Save that for ya mamy (Ha..Ha)
Sounds like blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah (talk too much)
Im like uh huh, okay, wassup, shut up

[Chorus: Kelly Rowland]
Here we go
Here we go again
Now you tellin me
That she is just a friend
Then why she callin you
At 3 o'clock in tha mornin
(I cant take this no more)
No more No more

Here we go
Here we go again
Now you tellin me
That she is just a friend
Then why she callin you
At 3 o'clock in tha mornin
I aint tryna hear it
(Not this time)

Now all my ladies say (Ohh Ohh)
If you feel me say (Ohh Ohh )
If you cant take no more say
No no no (no no no)
No no no (Ohh)

Here we go (Here we go)
Here we go again (Go again)
Now you tellin me (Yeah yeah)
That she is just a friend (Say shes just a friend)
And why shes callin you
At 3 o'clock in tha mornin
(I cant take this no more)

[Outro: Kelly Rowland]
Thats why im packin up my jewels
Grabbin up my furs
Ill be back for all my shoes and purses
Watch me bounce
In my seven fourty five
Ill be ridin out
Cause I aint tryna hear it
Not this time



There you go doll!

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ok so my friend Brendan has been ignoring me lately. We don't see much..and we were really good friends, but all of a sudden he just stopped talking to me. We only talk over the internet and phone.so I don't know what's happening and I don't know what to do.

Y'know, I'm in this same situation.

My friend and I don't even talk on the phone anymore. We used to be really tight, and then.. all of a sudden, it was no more!

It's hard to understand. I would say.. try and get to the bottom of it. I know that I never have with mine.

I don't want you to end up like that. Try and talk to him about it. Make sense of ya'lls situation.

-Hope it helps!
Hailie

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Ok I am in jr. high, I have a friend who likes this boy, well this girl that really hates me and my friend sits by him all the time and flirts.I hate it me and my friend just want to slugg her.I dont no what to do.The boy told us he hates her anyway why wont she leave him alone.What should I do?

Well, if this girl knows that your friend likes him, then she'll do whatever she can, to get you mad.

Don't sweat it. She's just trying to be a .. um.. slut? I'd type the other, but it's SO not appropriate for this. Anyways, don't let it get ya'll down. She's only doing it for her own satisfaction:
To see you guys flip out over it.

Hope it helps.
Hailie

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ok, i am 18 and a virgin. I am going to have sex for hte first time within the next month. My fiance and i are very dedicated to each other. But my freind told me i should get a PAP smear done before I have sex. My mom said i dont have to do it before my first time but i should do it soon. i dont want to go and get oen before we have sex b/c i want him to be the first one down there and everythign else. But what i am wondering is if they go to do it, and my cherry is still in tact...will they pop it? B/c i really want my fiance to do it...not some doctor. If anyoen could enlighten me on Pap smears and when i should get one nad if htye will pop my cherry if it is still intact, i would be grateful. I will rate every answer i get!

Wow, that first answer is going to be hard to beat.

I know that when I went in for a Papy, they told me I didn't need one, because I wasn't 18 yet, nor had I had sex.

They say you should usually go and get a Pap test whenever you start having sex, or are thinking about it. (or in some cases, when you turn 18.

(this isn't coming personally,or from experiance, and I'm sorry that it hasn't. But I was affraid when I went in, and I asked all types of questions.)

While getting a pap smear doesn't hurt, it can be very uncomfertable. Especially with the 'duck bell'. The vagina is actually stretched more than when having sex. Causing a little discomfert.

If I were you, I'd get it done afterwords. That way, your fiance can be the 'special one'.

-Sorry if it doesn't help.
Good luck hon.
-Hailie

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I just made a new friend from volleyball at school, my best friend is jealous because now i also hang out with my new friend. she says i ignore her but never do...sometime it feels like she's the one ignoring me like shes mad at me. We even had a fight just yesterday but i dont think the problem is solved because she still acts different around me.

Its like She can have other friends but i cant


I rate

It seems that your older friend might feel like she's being replaced by a newer friend.

It's easy to get that way, believe me.
She must feel that the only way to get your attention back, is to ignore you. Silence hurts worse than words.

Just try and talk to her. I know it's hard to, because if you are anything like me, you don't like to hurt anyone's feelings. Or cause any trouble for that matter.

-Hope it helps.
Keep your chin up!
-Hailie

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I have really wavy hair, and i straighten it everyday for school. does anyone have a straightener that would straighten my hair easily and not damage my hair

Y'know, I have the exact same problem.
Here's what I do.. I relax my hair. It doesn't hurt it, believe me.

It's a long process, but if you have the patients, you can have straight hair for up to 5 months.

I have: Soft & Beautiful.
You can buy it at any Walgreen's. And the great thing is, it's cheap. I only spent 7 dollars on it. You can find it with a lot of the black woman products.

I know that I've always loved how black woman's hair looked, when it's straight. And I found that and thought I'd give it a try.

You should give it a try. It won't damage your hair, the kind itself is gentle on color treated hair, or previously damaged.

Hope it helps.
-Hailie
God bless.

(it is for black people, but it works just as well on a white person's hair too. It worked magic on mine.. believe me.)

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ok so i never used a tampon before and i just put one in but its kinnda sticking out a very very little is that ok or does it have to be in all the way?

Well, tampons is all I use. If it's uncomfertable, then push it in further.
If you are comfertable with it the way it is, then leave it be. It's all about your comfert level.

If you feel the urge to push it in, do so. Don't hesitate.
Just because it is sticking out, doesn't change the effect of the tampon.

-Hope it helps.
God bless.
Hailie

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I like my best friend more than a friend but don't wanna ruin our friendship. He likes me back tto. What should i do? Risk it or play it safe?

I'd risk it. You'll never know unless you take the chance.
Talk to him about it. Start a friendly conversation, and then slowly lay it down that you like him.

If he freaks out, let him get over the shock. He's probably thinking, "Yes, she likes me." :smile:
Life is full of choices, it's your responsibility to choose what you think is right.

Good luck!
Hope it helped.
-Hailie

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13/f

is making out for your first kiss wrong? i got my first kiss from my ex when i was 12 yrs. old, but i still know how perfect it felt. i was just wondering if it's wrong to make out as your first kiss. is it?

I wouldn't think so.
But a lot of the time, you'll think it feels right, and then when it happens again, when it's better, you'll know it wasn't.

I really don't see a problem with it. It's your life, you are going to live it the way you wish. Let loose, have some fun! :wink:

God Bless hon.
Hope I helped.
-Hailie

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well technically this could be put into a couple differnt catagories, well okies it kinda started last year i was going out with one of my best friends and we were together for 10 months and then he crushed my heart:( we broke up over the summer and he slit his wrist and he is ok but i cried when he told me is it normal to still have feeling for him after he put me through shit?..and there's another thing just recently i have been having reallllllllly MAJOR feeling for my other best friend me and my other best friend act more like a couple then we do friends, yet he says he just wants to be friends yet usually he is the one who starts the us actin like a couple thing...does this mean he does or doesnt like me???..plz help i am sooo confused:(

Well,

I would say yes. I mean, all the evidence you've stated, if he is the one who pulls you into it (whether you want to or not) then yes. He still has feelings for you! Stick to it girl! Make him beg! lol Just messing, try and find out if he has feelings for you in that way.

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hey how do you change the color and the size when your posting a comment on myspace
♥

Okay, for the size:
TEXT HERE

Okay, for color:
TEXT HERE


(as for the hex codes, if you give me the color/colors you want, I'll go ahead and give them to you.)

If you just put those in there, choose your color/size, and then put your text where it says "TEXT HERE"

If you want to change both:
TEXT HERE

Hope it helps.
-Good Luck, and god bless!
--Hailie
(add me to your myspace? http://www.myspace.com/14541976)

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Why is love so confusing, hard to understand? I don't know if i like my friend or not... He was in one of my classes last year and I only really got to know him this year. My date for homecoming is a guy who I became friends with just this year, he's in three of my classes. While talking to him today, I casually asked him if he was doing anything after school today because I wanted to go over to his house to see his new dog. But then he told me, "listen, i want to go to homecoming with you, but i don't want to go out." Ouch. If i had wanted to go out with him, I would have been hurt. But I told him i had no intentions of going out with him. But now that i think about it, the day before, he seemed mad at me and was avoiding me for some reason, and i felt really depressed about it. It was only till i talked to him and he told he wasnt mad at me that I felt better... does that mean i like him? Because when he finally talked to me, my heart started beating really hard... does that mean i like him? Any advice will be appreciated :)

It's quite possible.
There's a slight chance that you could be so happy that he isn't mad, and you didn't lose a friend, that you are just.. overwhelmed?

Well, that's what I thought at first. But, you did say that your heart was beating really hard, surely that means something.

-Hope it helps.
--Good Luck, and God Bless.
-Hailie

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i know this is asked a LOT but..
i like this guy. by these few things, does he like me do you think?
-he whispers "(my name) is such a slut!" so i can hear it then im like yur cool nd he smiles
-he was lying down nd i layed on him nd he was like just talking to me nd smelling my hair nd putting his finger near my face..lol it was cute thou
-he wanted to c if i could bite him so hes like walking his hands down my face nd feeling my lips
-he was on the computer nd my other friend was on a computer rite next to him, i was in the middle reading both ;). well he IMs "(my name) is a whore" nd stuff like like nd im laughing or wutever
-he was playing football with everyone nd he goes "come on (my name) tackle me!" (so i did hahaha, i was the only one that could, was he being easy on me..?)
-i sat next to him on the couch nd he goes "eww i dont want to sit next to (my name)" nd i just ignore it while he puts a pillow between us. then he goes "im just kidding u kno that right?"
-my friend who he was IMing next to me, she said "i think he likes you!"


do u think..?

ps-ill rate 5's for EVERYTHING thats not smart a**! cause this was long!

I think it is very possible.
They always say, that when a guy, or anyone for that matter, says "I'm just kidding." or, "I'm just messing." they are really trying to tell you the truth, without saying it to you.

So, yes. I think he does. By the sound of it at least. Why don't you ask him? Find out for yourself? Just make sure he's alone, and he knows you are serious. I'm affraid that if he isn't alone, he might not tell you the truth. (shyness)

-Hope it helps.
--Good luck and God Bless.
-Hailie

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well i just started dating this kid, let's call him john, and we are always hanging all over eachother. we just blend well physically, and are always caught kissing and hugging. i love being around him because i feel loved, but when we talk on the phone or it is just me and him we have hardly any conversation going. alot of the time we are just quiet when we are alone. how bad is this? is it a big deal or just something that will fade? should i reconsider our relationship?

Well, you should never second-guess a relationship you feel confident in.
Make any sense?

It will probably fade away, it's hard to talk to someone.

-I hope it helps. It's not much.
--Good Luck, and God bless.
-Hailie

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i need a hair style website where it shows different hairdos that you can put up with medium hair all i can find is hair down

http://www.beautyriot.com/category.php?id=71

You can try there. They have TONS of great hair-do's!

Good luck!
-God bless.
Hailie

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ok, so there are these 3 girls in my class,lets call them Briana, Frances and Diana. Now, briana and frances hate me and my friend rania A LOT. They pressured Diana into making a s/n, pretending to be rania to try to get the pw for my xanga so thyey could hack it. Now, diana broke down and told me and my friend it was her. Now, me and rania want to get Briana and Frances in a lot of trouble, we have all the evidence and proof that we need, but we can also get in trouble because of a s/n we created impersonating our friend. But we didnt try to hack anyone, it was just a harmless prank. So basically, my question is, is it worth it to get them in trouble and put ourselves at risk?
p.s. I rate

Well,

I wouldn't think so. Revenge isn't something you can be.. "proud" of. I don't know what you can do. I mean, if what they did was illegal, yes.. you need to take the risk, even if ya'll get in trouble.

-Hope it helps.
--Good Luck, and God Bless
-Hailie

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So, next year I want to try out for my school's Show Choir. My voice seems ok, but I want to know how to get it better, be able to sing higher notes etc. So, any tips anyone has would be helpful. 5's for good advice.

Well,
When I was in Choir.. I sang a lot to myself infront of my mirror.
Also, make sure that you sit up straight, take brakes often, sing from your stomach, be confident, and do warm-ups before you start singing.

It's crucial that you don't 'over-drive' your voice. If it starts to hurt from practicing, try drinking something warm.. to relax your muscles.

-Hopefully that helps you. If you need anymore advice, feel free to ask me anything. I'd be more than glad to help.

-Good Luck, and God Bless.
(Oh, and just remember, all woman.. can sing the highest note!)
Hailie

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okay well i found the site where you make layouts but i have nooo clue how to get started!

any help PLEASE!!! with ANY info you know on layout sites

kthnxbi

i willllll rate 5s

I actually have my own Layout site.
It hasn't been updated in a while.. but here it is:
www.xanga.com/XoOLayoutsOoX

What would you like to know about them?

-Hailie

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I really want to go to boarding school and i have researched schools and found one i really like. i dont know how to ask my parents though because i know how my mom will react and i strongly beleive that she is going to say no. i need advice on how to approach the subject. thank you.

Just sit both of your parents down..

And explain to them what you want. Tell them the upsides of going to a boarding school, as apposed to public school.

-Hope it helps.
--Good Luck and God Bless.
Hailie

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