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friend ignoring friend
ok so my friend Brendan has been ignoring me lately. We don't see much..and we were really good friends, but all of a sudden he just stopped talking to me. We only talk over the internet and phone.so I don't know what's happening and I don't know what to do.
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talk to him about it online and explain how your feeling..maybe hes just busy?
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Maybe he just realized he likes you as more then a friend ? Your best bet would be to just talk to him. Find him at school, pull him aside, and just ask him whats up. If he won't talk ; Ask some of his other friends if he's mentioned anything about you lately. Hope It works out :)
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Yeah that sucks. I'd say go for a face-to-face talk and really try to get to the bottom of what's going on. There could be any number of reasons from personal problems to him feeling youve drifted apart to him liking you more than he should, anything.
Chances are though if he's been this determined not to talk about it, you won't be able to drag it out of him so you may have to back off for a while. Tell him that's what you'll do if he wants and let him know you're always there for him if he ever does need you again. That's the best you can really do I'm afraid. You can't force your friendship on someone however much you want it.
Hope you sort it out
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you've oviously grown apart
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Y'know, I'm in this same situation.
My friend and I don't even talk on the phone anymore. We used to be really tight, and then.. all of a sudden, it was no more!
It's hard to understand. I would say.. try and get to the bottom of it. I know that I never have with mine.
I don't want you to end up like that. Try and talk to him about it. Make sense of ya'lls situation.
-Hope it helps!
Hailie
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invite him to hang out one on one. just the two of you. it will give you a chance to catch up with him, and find out why he is acting this way. maybe he likes you more then a friend?
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