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brawn over brains?
well i just started dating this kid, let's call him john, and we are always hanging all over eachother. we just blend well physically, and are always caught kissing and hugging. i love being around him because i feel loved, but when we talk on the phone or it is just me and him we have hardly any conversation going. alot of the time we are just quiet when we are alone. how bad is this? is it a big deal or just something that will fade? should i reconsider our relationship?
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Ok i think in the begging of most relationships you have thoose awkward phone calls and you and him outings if you think he is just gong out with you cuz you make out with him i'd say that you shouuld go for someone who likes you body and mind
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personally, if your going to have a realtionship, it should be with someone you can hold a conversation with, end iiiiiit
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well its good you feel GOOd around him...thats a start.
a lot of guys are rly shy on the phone and shy around girls when they are alone
im shy around a guy by myslef... not on the phone but still
you may want to reconsider if you feel it wont be the same when he is shy
talk to him about it ask him why he is shy
sometimes and not at other times....
it may fade and it may not if he gets to know you better it will most-likely fade
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I've been in this situation, and I know it's a sucky one.
. . How bad is it? Well, that depends. Do you want a relationship with this guy? If you do, you may want to reconsider. Getting all cuddly is nice and all, but at the end of the day, communication is what makes relationships last.
Maybe you just don't know what to say to each other because you're nervous or you don't know where to start. I think you should go to a bookstore and pick up one of those "book of questions". These are books that are just questions to ask your friends and to start converstations. Buy one and see if you can't start a conversation with it. You can usually find them with the trivia books.
You could also both fill out one of those annoying internet survey things that ask a bunch of questions about yourself, and then talk about it.
Hope this helps.
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it just seems like your not as comfortable with just the 2 of you than if its with other people. i think that it will fade eventually as you get to know him better and you'll feel more comfortable. just talk how you do in a group like how you do now. maybe you'll learn something new and when its just the 2 of you can talk about it which might keep the convo flowing!
hope i helped...good luck hun
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Physical attraction is one component of a relationship, but it shouldn't be the only one. It appears you two enjoy the physical aspect of the relationship but have little in common in terms of communication and interests. I'm assuming your unhappy about this, otherwise you wouldn't have written this. Take a different approach to your relationship, try to communicate with him. If you find yourself in the same boat, then it's possible the relationship is based only on the physical aspect. Trust your intuition. Good luck, let me know what happens.
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If you feel happy around him and you're always kissing, i call that a pretty good relationship! But maybe besides intimate relationship you feel you guys don't have personality connections and such. Ask him if he feels the same way as you do. Then work it out. If it doesn't work out, there's many other fish in the sea.
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well let me start by out saying, youre opening line doesnt sound like hes youre bf. KID? it sounds more like all you 2 have in common is the physical attraction going. communication is very important in a relationship, without that you really dont have much. Those type of relationships DONT last. Its obvious you dont have alot in common or you would be sharing it with 1 another! If you want to feel loved, by yourself a puppy, because i dont think this relationship is going to go very far, except maybe in the bedroom!!
Good Luck!!
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Just as long as you are both happy with the relationship I don't see any problem with this. There's a song, it's a country song but it's called "When You Say Nothing At All" and it describes your situation as a good thing. I don't know if you've heard it before but here are the lyrics.
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Talking isn't always necessary. It sounds like you care for each other a lot.
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Well, you should never second-guess a relationship you feel confident in.
Make any sense?
It will probably fade away, it's hard to talk to someone.
-I hope it helps. It's not much.
--Good Luck, and God bless.
-Hailie
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