Question Posted Wednesday October 12 2005, 11:11 pm
Why is love so confusing, hard to understand? I don't know if i like my friend or not... He was in one of my classes last year and I only really got to know him this year. My date for homecoming is a guy who I became friends with just this year, he's in three of my classes. While talking to him today, I casually asked him if he was doing anything after school today because I wanted to go over to his house to see his new dog. But then he told me, "listen, i want to go to homecoming with you, but i don't want to go out." Ouch. If i had wanted to go out with him, I would have been hurt. But I told him i had no intentions of going out with him. But now that i think about it, the day before, he seemed mad at me and was avoiding me for some reason, and i felt really depressed about it. It was only till i talked to him and he told he wasnt mad at me that I felt better... does that mean i like him? Because when he finally talked to me, my heart started beating really hard... does that mean i like him? Any advice will be appreciated :)
sHakeitOff answered Thursday October 13 2005, 11:41 am: i think you like him, but friends are rly hard to like bcus if u go out and then break up and promise to stay friends...not amtter what you wont...well ususally if your lucky you will still be friends
i have lost 6 friends and kept 2 when that happened to me....
he said he doesnt want to go out with you so whats the poiint in liking himand your probably saying i know but i cant help it but you have to stay strong
sbloemeke answered Thursday October 13 2005, 10:40 am: No, it does not mean that you like him. It means that you are friendly with him, and wanted to remain as such. You thought that you lost a friend at that moment, because you had slipped out something that sparked a fire. It happens, and you always miss a friend that you lost just as you would miss a love. You felt better because you realised that he was still going to be your friend, and he was not mad. It was like your best friend getting mad at you, and then you realise that she isn't at all.
Your heart was beating hard because you weere nervous at that point. Normally, when you execute something like that, your heart always beats harder, due to nervousness. Has happened to me even in non-person situations. Often during football games. It's just being nervous.
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letstalk answered Thursday October 13 2005, 3:16 am: Boy's and their ego's. Rejection, whether it be by someone their interested in or not can stir up negative emotions, It hurts their self concepts, their self esteem. Based on the information you provided and your responses to certain situations, I believe you have a crush. Ask him to a movie, see what he say's. If he say's yes Perhaps a relationship will grow. If he say's no, then maybe friendship is all it was meant to be. Let me know what happens. Good luck... [ letstalk's advice column | Ask letstalk A Question ]
iTS_ONLiA_MATTEROFTiME answered Thursday October 13 2005, 12:30 am: It's quite possible.
There's a slight chance that you could be so happy that he isn't mad, and you didn't lose a friend, that you are just.. overwhelmed?
Well, that's what I thought at first. But, you did say that your heart was beating really hard, surely that means something.
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