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ok so heres my problem- i went out with this guy a couple of months ago and we only went out for like 2 months but i'm still not over him! im so in love with him! but i also think i'm in love with my best friend(hes a guy). we are soo close but i really think i love him. but my other best friend(whos a girl) also likes him a TON! but he deosn't like her.she doesn't know i like him but i'm just so confused with what to do. cause a lot of people say he likes me but i dont wanna be mean and go out with him. so i really have no idea what to do! help me PLEASE!
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You aren't being mean. If you two like each other and want to go out then go. The girlfriend may be upset at first but, just because she likes him doesn't mean you can't too. She evidently is not going to get him no matter how she feels so, you are doing nothing wrong. If she were dating him, that would be a diffrent story. She isn't he is free to date whoever he likes. Good luck. :)
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before you worry about the situation w/your best friends, get your feelings straight about this guys youve dated before. if you find out you relly do love him, he should be the one youre concentrating on. if you find out hes not all you thought he was, then u can think about the other situation. tell your best friend(the girl)that you like your other best frined (they guy)see if itd be ok w/her if you went out wit him. if she says she doesnt mind then make a move. if she says she DOES mind then thats when you hafta find out wuts more important, having a real relationship wit this guy or staying friends wit your other best friend(the girl)
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well heres the problem you have to chose which one likes you best ... or which ones hotter if you cant pick lol just kidding ....one thing you have to do is tell you best friend ( the girl)that you like this guy too she mite be madd at first * put yourself in her shoes * but it will blow over then you have to tell your best friend (the guy ) how you feel odds are he totally likes you ! thats a plus hehe then you have to talk to your ex and find out if he still likes you .. wow your schedual if full hahah...and by that time you mite know who you like good luck lol
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i think you should try your best friend because you will have a better chance then trying to re-light an old flame. your friend(girl) should understand that you really like him if shes your friend. if not, you might want to confront her about it or reconsider your friendship. plus, going out with this guy will help you get over your ex, and possibly even make him jealous!
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well, if the first guy you went out with you dumped you, dont bother with him, hes old news...if he wants you back hes gonna have to earn you back...what to do about your best friend (thats a guy) you should let him kno you like him...just sit him down and tell him that you have feelings for him, that you think is more than just friendship, and see if he feels the same way. if your friend likes him alot, talk to her first to see what her reaction is. if shes a good friend she will let you do what you have to do, if shes apprihensive or gets real mad at you tell her and explain to her if a guy ever liked her and you liked themtoo you would let her go out with them and that you had hoped that shed do the same for you...i hope i helped...
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heyy .. ask him if its true that he likes you and if he does go out with him your not being mean to your friend by starting a relationship with a guy and its not your fault he doesnt like her and she cant make you suffer because she likes him and he doesnt like her
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ok first of all...don't go doing something to break ya'lls friendship up UNTIL AFTER you know he likes you...! That would suck! ok and second of all... if this girl is your best friend...i think she would want what is BEST for YOU...if you two like eachother...she should respect that...i know i would! It's happened to me before... i mean...yeah she likes him and you like him too but that won't change who HE likes! Just make sure you tell your girl best friend before you try hooking up with this guy! She'll probably understand & if she doesn't than don't freak out...i mean you would probably be upset too if it happened just tell her that if he liked her...YOU would want THEM going out...so they could BOTH be happy!
*!*I HoPe I HeLpEd*!*
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ok girl... lets breath... in and out... ok... i know what ur going through... i went out with this kid for like 4 months and i was soo into him and when we broke up i didnt get over him for awhile... try to get over him... someone new hels and you have found someone... but its not only you and him your friends in this too... you should st down and talk to her... i guys you should find out who likes him the most... sounds dumb but its a good idea... and you should also talk to the guy... find out how he feels about you... be like "so who do you like", put this in a convo with him... i think if you are with this guy riend than it will be easier to get over this guy... hoe i heled girl
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Okay, you are in a sticky situation. You like two guys, and you like the guy that your best friend likes. Go for who you like more. YOu will just have to explain to your friend that you can't help who you like and you aren't suppose to. I am sure she will get over the fact that you like the other guy.
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