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shyness is ruining my life!!
ok.. ive liked this guy for a while now and now he knows and i can tell he likes me too but i think that were both afraid to talk to eachother :(.. i really really like him and i wanna be able to talk to him but im really really shy. and plus ive never had to go and talk to someone, theyve always came to me. but anyways.. its been a few weeks and i jus wanna get it over with and talk to him...but the thing is.. i dont kno wut to say, and when or w/e so can u pleasssee help me?? im starting to get frustrated with myself cause i cant do it. I dont have any classes with him so i cant send a note or anything,plus hes not that kinda kid.. and i really wanna do something tomorrow so i can talk to him.
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*depressed and sad
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Ok well, I'm really shy too. But sometimes after I finally do annoy myself, or my friends annoy me enough I go and talk to the person. I start off with 'hi', he usually continues the conversation. I don't know if your person is like the people I've talked to but after 'hi' nd him going 'hi' nd me going 'what's up?' the conversation usually carries on from there.
I would say try that, hopefully it will work for you.
Hope I helped!!
Good luck!!
-erin
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You gotta tell one of your friends you like this kid and you wanna go out. ur friend will probably tell his freind or him himself and then he'll respond back to you. trust me it works. thats how me and my boy got together.
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You can talk about the weather. Or some recent thing that happened at school. Maybe he's wearing a T shirt with a band on it you could comment on. :)
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Go online and IM him. Or call him for a stuped reason (like is tomorrow pajama day or something) and strike up a conversation.
Hope I helped!
Ke
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Just suck it all up and tell him! Or, have a friend tell him for you. You can always tell him online (if you have AIM, obviously). Just pretend he is just another boy, no one special. That should work, you won't be as nervous! Good luck.
-Brianna
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Hey!
If you REALLY like this guy, you'll be able to do this. If you see him, then give a wave or juts smile at him. If you do this often enough, then he'll prebably start talking to you whenever he has the chance! Try it, it works!
-Holly Marie Combs
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Well in the hall give him a small wave or a good ol' HEY. Pretend that if you say 5 words or more to him a day that you get to kiss him....who knows it might really happen. :)
Hope i helped
xOxO
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talk about anything, the weather, the weekend, a funny story and if your shy, walk up with a friend
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What I think you need to do is just take a deep breath and go up to him and start a conversation. It doesn't need to be about how you like him at all, it can be about anything; your favorite teachers, math class, his fav band, etc. Once you two are more comfortable with speaking with each other, it will be a lot easier just to come out and say that you like him a lot.
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first write some things down you want to ask him i have sort of this same problem too . i think of what to say then say it like if your on the phone get the list and read them off. but not to fast u dont want to confuse him and when you talk about them have a conversation with each number on list
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