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I am a girl. (duh) um I like walking , riding my bike , reading (sometimes) ,and talking. I am not really into sports . I don't know if i give good advice but i try. If you have a question just ask me!!!!!
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i was just wondering where i can get a simple not expensive..nothing over 60 dollars, sewing machine. i know walmart and target have them but are there any other places that might have them really cheap. also i cant get one off the internet, so it has to be a store! thanks!

if you dont care if its used go to goodwill
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k im 14, 5'8 and 110 lbs...so yeah im really slim, but not in a gross way. anyway, i've been getting alot of exercise lately because i started training for jr olympic volleyball...on the other hand, i've had a huge appetite and been eating a ton. also for background info, i have a very high metabolism. anyway, i've noticed im starting to get a bit of a tummy and it makes me feel sad! its probably diverting attention from my boobs too...whats the easiest way for me to get my flat stomach back (and don't suggest anything dietary...i love food)...specific exercises? thanks

Crunches Thats what i suggest. But if the tummy makes you look healthier don't do them. Ask a friend how you look.hope ive helped.
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this may be a dumb question but how do you bleach your hair??
plez help ill rate

you can buy a special bleach hair coloring package at drug stores. never use real house hold bleach

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my mom said i cant have a sweet 16 party with my friends bc my sisters didnt get one..do u think this is fair or no?

its not really fair because your sisters maybe more untrust worthy than you are. try to explain that you wont do any thing bad.
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ok so i'm in 8th grade which means it's my last year in junior high. as we all know, it's an awesome part of your life and for the end of the year (school year) i wanted to throw a party of some sort but i'm not sure whether to have a normal little party with friends, a pool party, go all out and invite practicially everyone in my grade, or what. when and where should it be? any suggestions?

It should be like the weekend before school lets out. And a suggestion you should rent out a place if theres that many ppl coming.

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i don't know if i'm bi or not. i like guys but lately i've been attracted to girls too. i found out this girl was bi and now i'm really attracted to her and i like alot of other girls. but not just any girl, i only like really pretty girls. i don't want to be bi and i defnately can't tell anyone, that's not even an option so don't bring that up. so am i bi? tell me more about this.

Its ok if you bi . Maybe its just a stage your going through.
hope i helped
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is masterbation a sin? if so then how do i stop?

O no, sex is a sin before your married. Thats it.
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ok so im homeschooled... and next year i'll be going into 9th grade. I'm still deciding if i should keep homeschooling or go back to public. All my fiends want me to go back. I want to too but then i have two places i wanna be at.. I love being homeschooled and all but i feel like im missing the socializing... so im not sure which i should go to...
what do you think?
plz help i needa know!
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Well since I've never got homeschooled I don't no the experience. If you have been home schooled for to long you should go back to your regular school. Another thing is which way of learning is easier. If you learn better at home then stay there if not then go back to regular school.
hope i helped
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ok.. ive liked this guy for a while now and now he knows and i can tell he likes me too but i think that were both afraid to talk to eachother :(.. i really really like him and i wanna be able to talk to him but im really really shy. and plus ive never had to go and talk to someone, theyve always came to me. but anyways.. its been a few weeks and i jus wanna get it over with and talk to him...but the thing is.. i dont kno wut to say, and when or w/e so can u pleasssee help me?? im starting to get frustrated with myself cause i cant do it. I dont have any classes with him so i cant send a note or anything,plus hes not that kinda kid.. and i really wanna do something tomorrow so i can talk to him.
I rate high!

*depressed and sad

first write some things down you want to ask him i have sort of this same problem too . i think of what to say then say it like if your on the phone get the list and read them off. but not to fast u dont want to confuse him and when you talk about them have a conversation with each number on list
here to help
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i have a mole on my cheek... should i get it removed or keep it? and if i do wanna gte it removed how can i approach my mom with the idea... about 2 years ago i told her i wanted it removed and she said we'll think about it... but im really afraid to ask... any ideas?!?!!? please help!

ask her again she probley forgot about it. dont worry she probley wont get mad.hope i helped
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ok so i have this friend and she went to this one school untill the end of 6th grade and then she moved to my school and she is my friend now (im in 8th grade now) and so we went to the track meet and i met some of her friends from her old school and so i talked to them and then when i got home i taked to them on the internet and asked them who they thought was hotter and they said that i was and so when i went to school the next day she wanted to know what they said about who was hotter and i told her that they said that i was hotter then she was and so was like no seriously what did they say and i told her that they said that i was hotter and she goes stop lying and i was like im not lying b/c that is what they said and she was like no tell me and i said it again and she was like oh well then they must have just said that to make you feel better about yourself and i was like no b/c i talked to them on the phone too and she was like im sure that they were just making me feel better and they thought that i was hotter and my friend (lets call her Lee) well lee isnt that pretty she weighs more then me and her hair is all frizy and i am 5-2 1/2 and weigh 105 and my hair isnt frizzy oh and she has acne too and i dont ppl keep telling me that i am prettier then her and her boyfriend told me that too so i dono y she would say that they were lying to me and i am a teen runway model can someone tell me whats wrong with her? i rate 5's for good and not stupid answer

Wow

you should drop the subject totally let her think what she wants to think and she is probley osnt want to admit she is not as pretty here to help
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ok i recently just read a conversation my friend and crush had a while ago. When i read through it he acted like he didn't know me... but he does.
So... should i just forget about him (which will be impossible) or forgive him for trying to look kool infront of friends. I mean i know you shouldn't go for guys that act different around friends and then act like they don't know you and all but i just can't help it. But i also think he's alittle to insecrue about himself.
but serioucly what should i do? i really need to know.
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If this guy was probley flirting with your friend.If this guy dosn't know you like him then it is normal for him to flirt with other girls. I think he acted this way because he maybe likes you friend and dosn't want you to interfear. If I were you i would try to forget about him. I hoped i helped.
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okay i have a b/f now well call him "K" okay well we've been goin out for a lil while but i wanna call him but im afraid his mom or something is gonna answer what do i do/?

if he has a cell phone you could call that if you no his number or you could always call his home and ask for him . don't worry she isnt going to come out of the phone and hurt you . when i first called my boyfriend his dad picked up and i said is zach there and he handed the phone to him. don't worry . hoped i helped.
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Again this boy Roshon has been bothering me. With all the touching me and walking me to class things. I mean he is cool and everything but in the hall I see him doing it to other girls to just not as much as he does it to me. And he still talks about me. This morning when he tried to walk me to class. The only way he will get his hand off me if I pull away and say I will talk to you later. And the bad thing is he is only. I don't know how to say it but he goes up to my chest. What I mean by that his height. Do you know how weird that looks? Anyway help please!

this guy likes you you just need to tell him in a firm voice to leave you alone if you dont like him

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I am a thirteen year old female and I have a close male friend who is also thirteen. We are very good friends but we don't have any type of sexual relationship at all. Today we were having a discussion about soul mates and I decided that I think that he might be my soul mate, as in a friend not a lover. My question is, do you think it is possible to find your soul mate at thirteen? We are really good friends, I tell him everything and we are always together.

well you should wait till a few years later and if you still like him like you do no then maybe

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Ok, I have the opportunity to go to this really good highschool, where you can have 2 years of college finished when you graduate and it looks better on your college application and everything.The problem is,I know some people that go there and they said that htey were straight A students, and when they got there they started making C's and D's, and that it was ALOT of stress and they never get to do anything anymore.Everybody keeps telling me to go, that I can handle it, but I don't really want to, and I'm scared to. At my school now, everything is going good, and there's a guy that I really like, and I would never get to see him again if I went to that other school. I just have no idea what to do. I don't want to give up a great opportunity, but I don't want to go either. I have alrady prayed about it, but I'm still confused. Please help! And please, no rude answers, I'm stressed enough as it is. Thanks! I'll rate!

P.S. Sorry so long!!

i hope you don't take this the wrong way but if you think about it which i better having a boyfriend or good grades and if you dont think you can go to the new school then go with your friends but try really hard to ge good grades there to get a good college resume

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