i don't know if i'm bi or not. i like guys but lately i've been attracted to girls too. i found out this girl was bi and now i'm really attracted to her and i like alot of other girls. but not just any girl, i only like really pretty girls. i don't want to be bi and i defnately can't tell anyone, that's not even an option so don't bring that up. so am i bi? tell me more about this.
ThugGirl041790 answered Friday April 29 2005, 4:24 pm: Yes it sounds to me hun that you are bisexual.. sooner or later you will become comfortable with your sexuailty and be able to tell people and be comfortable with them knowing.. sounds like you might be young so you might grow out of this too.. and looking at girls and being attracted to girls is okay.. alot my friends look at girls and say things like she has a nice butt or something but they wouldnt do anything with a female they jus think something is nice on them.. but i think if you'd do more then just look at a girl then you are bisexual.. much love dez x0x0 [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
kevin1986 answered Friday April 29 2005, 4:09 pm: Why not be bi? Gets me and a lot of other guys hard. You definitely are bi if you want to have sex with these girls. If you just think they're pretty, it's ok youre not bi. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Friday April 29 2005, 11:03 am: Hi, lots of girls at adolecence have different feelings for other people and sometimes the same sex. Usually it goes away after a year or a few mouths. So dont worry about it
MeLi<3 answered Friday April 29 2005, 7:13 am: well i think this is naturally cause at one point or another girls will see that other girls may be pretty or hot. And that is their buisness and I don't think ur a bi-sexual your just maybe attracted to her cause you think she is pretty or something? so don't worry if it gets like SERIOUS well then there could be a chance of you being bi-sexual. But by reading this I realized you cant be a bi-sexual unless you are really hooked onto this girl.. [ MeLi<3's advice column | Ask MeLi<3 A Question ]
Daisy answered Friday April 29 2005, 5:12 am: At some stage in everyone's life you do get slightly confuse and question your feelings. what your are feeling is totally normal and you have nothing to worry about. I f you really feel you think you have feelings for this girl then could you talk to her? If she wasn't bi would you still have the same feelings? Sometimes it takes something like a kiss for you to realise how you really feel. Don't worry [ Daisy's advice column | Ask Daisy A Question ]
MapleAdvice11 answered Thursday April 28 2005, 10:43 pm: You are young, people your age are curious, you may be bi, but you may not be also. It may just be a phase, but if you truly think you're bi there's nothing wrong with that. [ MapleAdvice11's advice column | Ask MapleAdvice11 A Question ]
cUrLyHaiReDcUtiE16 answered Thursday April 28 2005, 9:54 pm: heyy .. im not sure if you are bi but its totally normal to find girls attractive because you think there pretty its okay and if you are bi then thats okay also
EJ47 answered Thursday April 28 2005, 9:48 pm: Any girl or guy goes through the 'Bi Stage'. I find myself thinking how handsome that one guy is, but I dont want to have sex with him or something. Just thinking to myself how easy it'd be for him to get someone attraced to him like me (not as great as it sounds X.X ). As with women, you could simply be thinking how good they look and how easy it'd be for them to get a guy. :P
If you think of them sexually though, theres nothing wrong with it. Being bisexual isn't freakish, unless you want to marry the same sex. Wasn't meant to be like that. Avoiding that topic, dont try and run from bisexuality if you are such. Just think, heterosexuals only have one side of the homosapien race to choose from. Bi's have both sides :3
gakkuhideto answered Thursday April 28 2005, 9:47 pm: The thing is, you can't really be sure. Most people go through different phases where they are attracted to people of the same sex, or the opposite sex. You're at an age where you're discovering who you are, who you're going to be as an adult. You may be gay, or you may be straight, but right now you are neither. You should experiment with different things (but keep it safe!). You are who you are, and physical attraction to someone isn't anything to worry about. You don't have to tell anyone about it since it is your business, but you should accept yourself for who you are. Humans have different levels. Nothing is black and white, or gay and straight as the case may be. The way I see it, we are all just people, and our physical sex doesn't matter at all. Neither does our orientation. You are only bisexual if that is how you choose to identify yourself, though some people would call you bi-curious and some people would call you...less than pleasant things. Liking other girls is nothing to be ashamed of no matter what people say. In fact, it's a sign that your body (and mind) are working normally. The fact that you have a sex drive is a good, healthy thing. Be who you are and be happy with yourself, and good luck. We've all been there! [ gakkuhideto's advice column | Ask gakkuhideto A Question ]
pretty_n_punk09 answered Thursday April 28 2005, 9:37 pm: Ok. There is totally nothing wrong with being bisexual. Don't run from it. You may not be sexually attracted to these girls, but only find them beautiful. Also, every girl goes through a stage where they think they are a lesbian or bisexual. But realize that there is nothing wrong with being bi. You have more selection, lol. But you can't stop yourself from being bisexual. It's just the way you are, I suppose. I mean, you may just be a phase so don't freak out.
CaughtUp answered Thursday April 28 2005, 9:36 pm: its natural for a girl to be interested in other females it doesnt mean you bi or gay it just means your interested and if ANY female says she has never in her life thought not for a secound what it would be like to be with the same sex then shes a lie. trust me even all my bi and lezzy friends have told me. im not elesbian or bi but i just have those friends besides so what if you are? everyone TRUE 2 you will be by your side no matter what! everyone that ditches out is fake [ CaughtUp's advice column | Ask CaughtUp A Question ]
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