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Getting to be friends with guy
I think this guy is really hot. He's in 11th grade and very preppy, I'm in 9th and well... average. We've never spoken or acknowledged each other, but I figured that it would be cool to become friends with him or make an attempt. Should I try to approach him to be FRIENDS ONLY (I don't want to date him. I mean he's really hot but it's no way possible.) but I'm not sure if he may be creeped out. If I should try to approach him, how should I do it? All of my friends say go and talk to him and become friends, so does my little sister, but I'm really shy and I'm scared that someone as hot as him might not want to be friends with someone as average as me. So I'll be "rejected" in a sense. Advice? Realise we've never talked, we have made eye contact before in the band-room so I can't say he doesn't know I exist haha. But yeah.
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I def. think you guys should talk. Find a common interest you both share and just walk up to him in the band-room and just talk to him. I think its better to try to talk to him than not trying at all. If you do get rejected than he's a big jerk and you can do better than him. Just have confidence when you talk to him and be yourself, and you guys should become friends.
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Start random convorsations w/ him. FLirt. If you don't approch him in any way, you will regret it.
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OK well think about it the other way round- how would you feel if a guy in the 7th grade randomly came up to you and asked if you'd be his friend? You'd be freaked out right? I know that sounds harsh but sometimes its good to get a bit of perspective! Therefore to save embarrassing yourself maybe just start smiling at him every so often and see what happens. Im not sure its such a great idea to walk right up to him but hey just smiling and stuff might lead him to come and talk to you! good luck
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My advice to you is to go up and try to meet him. I know that no one likes to be rejected but it is a part of life and will happen to you in the future. However you don't know what will happen unless you try. He maybe very friendly and receptive to you and who knows what will happen. You have to get up the courage and try. I know I am just one guy and it’s just my opinion. But I personally like girls who are confident and if one came up to meet me to try to be friends I would defiantly give her a chance. You can do it! Just give it a chance. Good luck! Keep me posted about how it goes, you can AIM me anytime (even if it’s just to chat.)
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Dont be shy!! Go up to him with one of your friends and just start talking to him. If he is with his buddies then thats probablly a good time because you would feel better. You never know if you might have a chance with him until you start talking to him. Ask him to hang out and stuff. x0
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