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any good future "shrinks" out there?
Haha, I need someone to analyze my behaviour a bit, cause I have no clue why I do the stupid things I do.
1) Whenever I like someone, I offer to hook one of my girlfriends up with him! Wtf? O_O
2)There's this guy I like, and we've been e-mailing this whole year (since he lives on the other side of the planet haha) so for some reason I told him my computer was being taken away, by my dad, and that I couldn't keep in touch anymore, WHAT? I LIKE THIS GUY! Why in the world would make up an excuse to NOT talk to him anymore?
Let's start with that and I'll ask you the deeper stuff if I thought your advice ont his was good =) hehe, thaank you people! AND good luck with yor future "shrink" careers ;)
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Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
i think you hook your friends up because maybe your scard of a commetment or you just want to know if they are going to be good to you so you don't end up hurt.
your second question i think you are trying not to get to attached to this guy because you think there is no way in hell there is a possibility that you guys can hook up so you are avoiding falling for him so you don't get hurt.
hope i helped
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1.) Maybe your scared of an actual relationship with them and want to see how they do with someone else.
2.) Maybe you told him that because you know theres a good chance that you'll never actually meet. So you don't want to keep talking to him and knowing it may never be. but never say never. u should keep taking to him. always good to have a pen pal.
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okay i think i might have an idea! for the first one..it could be that you just want him to think that you're cool. which is most likely what he'll think if you can somehow get him with another girl. like think about it. if you can almost garauntee him a hookup, he'll be like YES! this girl is so sweet! so without really trying to, thats what you end up doing because you get so caught up in liking him
and for the second one. first of all, lemme just say that i've been there. and its all for attention. i dont say that as a bad thing, although maybe it is? i dono BUT! if you tell him you wont be able to talk anymore, you're obviously hoping for a huge reaction from this guy. something along the lines of "WHAT! AH! NO! BEG YOUR DAD NOT TO TAKE IT! i'll miss you i wanna talk to you!" etc etc.
thats just what i'm thinking. i could be totallyyyy off and i'm sorry if i am but thats just what comes to me. hope i helped? &hearts
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hm.maybe yur a lezbian?just a thought.
♥ melia
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I think that you don't believe you are "deserving". Perhaps it is an issue due to self esteem or self confidence. From now on, stand up for what you want and "go for it".
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Well, it seems like you don't WANT to have anything. Maybe you like suffering, except to you it's not suffering because you like it.. O.o'
Haha, very confusing. Do you do this all the time? I do very stupid things too, but not a lot.
What else? o.o
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