hey, my name is annie.
I am told to be very easy person to talk to. i also love to give adice to people and love to help others out. If you need any advice about school,boys,girls,family i will mostly likly know how you are feeling or have gone through it once before. If you can't get to my by e-mail don't be scared to im me at sweetXnXsexy25 i am always here to help.
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Location: pittsburgh,pa
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Age: 15
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How do you know when a guy is trying to get inside your pants? Like what are the signs that lead to this conclusion? (link)
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it just depends on the guy.. but i have found that they usually do all the cute things girls want and try to make it more serious quicker..
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i am a fifteen year old female. the boy i have been making out with recently wants to step up our relationship. he wants to finger me which i am totally ready for and excited for. the only concern is that i have a lot of pubic hair, so i wonder if he will be grossed out. should i shave it for him? Thanks. (link)
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i wouldn't shave it unless you really want it off cause it is painful to get back and the hair never comes back the way it use to... so just ask yourself if you want to be shaving your pubic hair everyday...
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i'm a 14 year old girl. in october, i went out with this boy for 2 weeks & then he broke up with me. we didn't talk for a while, but then we became sort of friends again. well; lately he has been calling me & we've been talking A LOT.
he keeps asking me if i'll have sex with him (not right now, but in the future), i just keep telling me "maybe". well now it seems that all he wants to talk about is sexual things. like, eating me out or me giving him a blow job.
i don't know what to do! i haven't really done anything with him..just made out & he's felt me up. that's all!
p.s. he's always telling me that he loves me, and that i'm beautiful. sometimes, he's so sincere & sweet, but sometimes i think he's bullshitting me.
help! (link)
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well it sounds like all he wants to do is get in your pants and thinks you will be an easy target because you two once dated. he mite think you still have feelings for him and he is using those feelings to get what he wants... if you don't want to do anything with him tell him how you feel about all the talks you two have and that your not into him engough to fuck..
hope i helped
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hey..i have this boyfriend and he's really cute but i don't really have feelings for him anymore. i mean he's very sweet but like he's moving too fast and it's making me like turned off. and now he's making me feel like he should be my brother. idk what to do anymore! please someone help me!
i'll give 5 for trying..thanx! (link)
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you will have to tell him that your not interested in him anymore. also you should tell him your not ready to move that quick. I think that his moving to quick is your biggest turn off and that is always a really hard thing for guys to see beacause that is almost always going throught there mind. so tell him he's moving to fast for you and i think friends are better.
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I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 months now. I know, its not a long time at all but he and I are already in love with eachother. We had this connection right off the bat and we just clicked and have been pretty much inseperable ever since then.
The only issue is he is 6 years older than I am. I'm still 16. So that makes him 22 (if you were too lazy to do the math). I'm sure by now you are all thinking that he's in it just for the sex, but really he's not after that. And I'm sure you are all going to say "Well you don't know that" but I do.
And I'm going to say he's not like your typical 22 year old at all, he is totally different. But I'm sure you will say "All girls say that", but trust me, I'm not them. I've "been" with older guys before and I can tell if they are fake or not. I've been around ones that wanted sex and told me that they weren't interested in it. So, I know that he's not in it just for the sex. If he wanted that, he could get it anywhere else, I'm not saying this just because he's my boyfriend - But he's freakin' hot. Trust me, he's got plenty of girls that would be willing to be lined up to get a chance with him.
I have sort of told my parents about him. But not the whole story. My mom knows that he is 22, but not that I am dating him nor that I am in love with him. And my dad knows that I am in love with him, but doesn't know that he is 22 or that I am dating him. I believe he suspects that I am, but doesn't know for a fact. **My parents have never met him***
I was talking to my dad and he said that he would be willing to meet him. He had shared a story with me about when he met my grandmother (my mom's mom) and she didn't like my dad because he's Puerto Rican and he only wanted to get in my mom's pants, take her money then divorce her. But my dad told her otherwise. My dad told me that if he can stick up for what he believes in, then he would have respect for him. And that's true, that is how my dad is but I'm still scared as to how he would react when he finds out he is 22. I know that he (my boyfriend) would tell my dad that he loves me and that his intensions are good, but my dad can be a hypocrite sometimes.
So I guess my question is, how do I tell my parents that he and I are dating?
Should I even tell them that we are or should I make my boyfriend ask my parents their permission to date me?
I don't want to end our relationship. Trust me, we have an amazing relationship. When I think about us, our age difference is the last thing on my mind. Love doesn't see age. (link)
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i have a friend who is in the same sitution your lucky cause her parents involved the FBI so i think you have to tell your parents because it would be worse if they found out when they met and that would just be a bad start. You will have to tell you Boyfriend to be honest as possible because all parents like honesty. And it sound like your boyfriend is really nice and dosn't do anything yo harm you so i really think you have nothing to worry about because if you like him i think your parents should see that and have to trust ther daughter even at first it may be scary for them so just say he is more than willing to meet you and do anything to prove that he is good man for me. and they will see he is good. i don't think it will be that bad but if it is blown out of poportion then i will help you throught the next step.
Good luck!!
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Haha, I need someone to analyze my behaviour a bit, cause I have no clue why I do the stupid things I do.
1) Whenever I like someone, I offer to hook one of my girlfriends up with him! Wtf? O_O
2)There's this guy I like, and we've been e-mailing this whole year (since he lives on the other side of the planet haha) so for some reason I told him my computer was being taken away, by my dad, and that I couldn't keep in touch anymore, WHAT? I LIKE THIS GUY! Why in the world would make up an excuse to NOT talk to him anymore?
Let's start with that and I'll ask you the deeper stuff if I thought your advice ont his was good =) hehe, thaank you people! AND good luck with yor future "shrink" careers ;)
♥♥♥ (link)
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i think you hook your friends up because maybe your scard of a commetment or you just want to know if they are going to be good to you so you don't end up hurt.
your second question i think you are trying not to get to attached to this guy because you think there is no way in hell there is a possibility that you guys can hook up so you are avoiding falling for him so you don't get hurt.
hope i helped
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How do you know if you are in love? Are there any signs? I know that it sounds like a stupid question, but i want to be sure before I do anything stupid. (link)
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when you are in love you don't have a question in your mind about liking or loving this pesron. you just know that you love them so there isn't really a sign besides the fact that you know u don't like them but you "love" them. and that is not a stupid question because it is hard to tell if your in love and it is kind of scary.
hope i helped.
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well annie,
I've been in love with this guy for about a year now since the first time i layed eyes on him. He has a gf and I told him how much I liked him. He said he liked me too but I am too young. I can't seem to get over him and it rly hurts when i see him. But yet, I still want to and I still enjoy spending time with him. However, I need to get over him, should I get over him? Do you think there is any hope in the world for me to become his gf? Please help!
Thanks in Advance,
Drowning in love (link)
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Wow that is alot to handle. umm.. i think that you could still have a chance but not right now cause he has a girlfriend. I know it would be a really hard thing to get over and nobody will every forget there first love so i say you should stil love him but maybe you could go out and have fun with other guys cause you mite not be the one for him.
i hope i helped.
annie
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okay i know this might sound retarted but i dont know how to grind dance nothing im going to a big party and my crush is going to be there and i know hes gonna try to dance with me but i cant i have no rythm nothing like i suck at everything i dont have an ass to shake so i dont know what to do please help should i just not go? (link)
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yea .. umm grinding is a thing that comes naturally. if you just relax you will be fine cause there is no right or wrong way of dancing.
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hey thanks for respronding & answering my question. but the hard things is, we DON'T talk. ever since that all happpened, at the end of october, i haven't talked to him. but you think if i give it time, somehow, along the way, things will happen?
thank you (link)
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yea you should give it time because if it is really ment to happen it will come together. also try to go out and meet other guys and kinda get over him cause first loves are always hard to get over.
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Okay this might be kind of confusing but bear with me please. So at the end of summer last year, I met this guy, Joe, through my best friend, Liz. Joe dated one of Liz's good friends, Grace. They dated for about 2 & 1/2 years and then at the beginning of summer, they broke up. So now its September, and Joe with his friend come by Liz's house, and I'm there with her. So I meet Joe, I knew who he was and about him & Grace and I thought he was pretty cute. He thought I was really cute too. He liked me and all. I wasn't even THINKING about me and him together, the thought of US never came to mind. I felt like I had no chance. Grace (his ex) was unbelievably gorgeous and so much different from me.Well anyways, so we started hanging out. He'd come by more often and we were both very shy. Later I found out that one of the reasons he fell for me was because I was so quiet. But anyways, so we would hang out; play tennis and just hang out with friends. I also got drunk for the very first time with him -- and that's a very goodmemory. I remember how he was so worried about me geeting home and everything that day. Ahh memories. We went downtown by the lake and shopped and everything. Then one day, we were walking, just the two of us, and we kiss. Later on the walk home, he told me about how he wanted to kiss me sooner but that didn't work out cause it was never good timing with his friends and all. So yes, then the following week we would hang out and kiss :) and talked online. He asked me do I see him as a boyfriend and all that and talked about us dating. The next time we hung out, he asked me out. It was perfect. I never met a guy like him. Never dated ANYONE like that. Too perfect for words. It was awesome, the best time of my life. Everything was going great, I couldn't have been happier. He was a bad boy, ditching school, band with his friends, typical guy stuff. But I was always able to count on him. He always chose me over his friends, and even stopped drinking. We went to different schools, and then I started working with my dad, so things got harder. He had his friends drop him off whenever just so he can see me -- it was like a dream come true. My prince charming had come. But meanwhile, Grace (the ex) found out and went crazy. She hated me and my friend/her friend for letting it even happen. She had people watching me and threating me all the time on the interenet that they're going to kick my ass for dating Joe. But I didn't care. My friendshad my back. I remember when Joe was over and I wasn't supposed to have anyone over, and he was over and my dad came home, haha... he ran out the back door and jumped the gate and everything barefoot. Lol poor him left his shoes. He had written me a song and everything, we even wrote each other notes in school. Now back to the psycho ex-gf, well me and her were sort of friends, we just knew each other because of my best friend Liz. She would always follow me & Joe, (she had a car so was EVERYWHERE) and yeah. Then one day, me and joe sort of got into an argument. Me and my friend Liz and some of his friends were all walking around the nieghborhood onour way to chill at this one park. His ex would drive by and stop and talk to Joe's friends. We were with a bunch of friends all walking when these little 12=14 year old were with us and they were talking shit to joe about me and just because bitches and giving me and my friend attitude so I wasn't gonna deal with it and me and my friend Liz turned around and left. He didn't even bother to go after me or call. I regret doing that, I know he must have gotten mad, I remember when I hung up on him, that upset him also. but anyways, so the same day I call him. And I call again. And I call again. No answer. Same thing the following day, Saturday. Then Sunday I call all day. Finallly I try one last time on SUnday night and Grace picks up. And she said he's with her now and all those times he wasn't with me, he was with her. I dropped the phone. It was crazy, my friends wanted to go right over there and beat her up. But I thought about and decided just to forget it. Lateron, I signed online and he was on -- so I instant messaged him. And I yelled at him and everything and then signed off and cried. And cried. I thought I got over him, I was into another guy -- well then he chose another girl over me, and yeah. Then he came back and I rejected him and all that because I'm not gonna deal with someone liek that. SO I really don't even know what I'm asking. Him and Grace have been together ever since. I ran into both of them the other day at a store which was really awkward, he was with his friends in the store and I was with mine. Then they left the store and his girlfriend -- Grace -- and his sister come in. Then they leave and are waiting outside in the car for us. We goto our car and trhey pull up and then she says something and flicks us off and drives off. But anways, I just can't seem to get over him. Its crazy cause this all happened quite a while ago. Maybe its just because he was my first SERIOUS boyfriend? I have no idea what to do... and I really want to believe that one day WE WILLE get back together. I just hope and pray something along the way will happen and we will be together.Like today for example, I felt like breaking down and crying. I went with my friends downtown, on the train. And they were with their bf's and it reminded me how we used to be like that. Last time I took the train was with him. We went to musuems on Columbus Day. Memories :( It was just so heartbreaking. Do you think that we will get back together? People say "THINGS HAPPEN WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT!" and I wanna follow that, because well thats how I met him. I wasn't even looking for a boyfriend. ANd now every guy I look at or my friends want me to meet/date, I just can't. And it kills me because I want to be with him and no one elsre. DO you thinkin it's possible for us to get back together? Maybe later on in life? It was my mistake because I was always so shy and not really OUT with my feelings, and I regret not telling him how I feel, he always thought I didn't like him or anything. Although we dated for only about 2 months, the memrories and the times we had together even before we began officially "dating" ... they mean soo much. I just wish I had another chance. Do you think it's possible for us to ever get back together? Do you think he ever thinks about me the way I think about him? Is there ANY chance of us getting back together in the future? (link)
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wow long story. but i know wat you mean. i have had friends go throught the same thing. and i think maybe if you give it time it will work its self out. if you guys are still friends then talk to him. Also having to see him with Gracie is going to be hard but talkin to both of them is the one thing that will make you feel better and then u will find out how he feels.
i hope i helped and if you need any more help don't be afraid to ask.
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I recently read a few pages of my gf's journal (I know, I know, I shouldn't have) and she mentioned another guy that she is interested in. She writes about how happy she is when she sees this guy. Should I confront her about it or just see what happens? (link)
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wow not a good idea to read her journal. but if u talk to her about it you will have to tell her about you reading her journal. so i say that you should just wait and see what happends.. thats what it would be like if you have never read it in the first place.
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Popular guy, semi-nerdy girl. A year left in high school. Could we make this work or are we just fooling ourselves? (link)
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I don't see why it wouldn't work. you both are people. it dosn't matter what others think it just how you to feel about each other and it should work out great
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theres this guy...I really like him...but im afraid to tell him. I want him to know so bad but I cant say it...Im afraid of being rejected...I need help! what should I do? Im very shy around guys though...justincase that helps...♥Danielle
btw im 13 (link)
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Rejection is a very hard thing to deal with but you have to know that sometimes you will get rejected. But i think the only way you will ever find out if he likes you is by taking the risk. Also try to think of talkin to him as you would with any of your other friends. The more uncomfortable it is for you it probly will be for him.
hope i helped
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I am 14 and my mom won't let me wear thongs. My sister is 16 and still is not allowed to wear them. Alot of my firends wear them and some don't. Sure part of the reason I want them is because alot of people wear them but that not the whole reason. I don't want panty lines when I wear sweats of whatever. My mom has always been overprotected, she didn't let me or my sister wear a bikni until last summer. Last weekend I tried on a really cute bathing suit and all she did was say how it was to low and I need to wear something more modest or I will be sending the wronge message. She thinks if I wear a low bikni someone will come and rape me, to make a long story short she is inpossible to shop with. Anyway If I could get a thong it would make me feel that I beat my mom and won. Don't get me wrong I love my mom we don't have a bad relaship at all. It just she very religous and hard to talk to. Oh and even if I did buy a thong behind her back. I've never done my own laundry in my life so she defintly know something was up. Sorry that it was so long, guess I got carried away. (link)
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One thing to tell you is wearing a thong is not all that. I don't think you should worry about it at all. but if you rly want to buy ome then wash it under soapy water and just be careful.
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This might be a dumb question, but whenever my boyfriend gets mad about something, or when he is in a bad mood, he always takes it out on me, and he's just in a bad mood so it makes me in a bad mood, and i was just wondering what I should do about it, like is there something that i can do about it to not get so upset about it, or like tell him or anything? I just don't know what to do. The help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. ♥ (link)
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I think you should try talkin to him about how him taking his anger out on you hurts you and try to find another way to have him vent his anger. Also if he is no just yelling i don't know if i would stay with him.
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I'm 13 and in seventh grade. one of my best friend has a boyfriend. her boyfriend told me that his friend liked me. i didnt even no who he was but then i got to no him and he is so cute and nice and always is making me laugh. i really like him a lot. just last friday we had a dance. and before i got there 2 of my friends went up to him and was like "do you like lor?"(me) And hes said "yeah but.." and then just walked away. when i got there they go up to him again (when im not with them) and was like "are you going to ask her to slow dance or something?" and he goes "i can't i have a girlfriend.." there just like "what? i thought you liked her" and hes like "i do i just have a girlfriend" so my friends tell me what happened and i got pretty upset but of course i didn't show it. i am so confused. but instead of dancing i was just with him the whole night. i like him so much and one of my friends was with me and there like "omg he is so going to brake up with his girlfriend for you he keeps flirting with you" and i wanted it to be true but i dont no what to believe. i saw his girlfriend.. but the only commmunacation they did all night was say hi.. they didnt even slow dance together. im so confused and i dont no what to do =[ please help. (link)
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i think the one thing you should do is tell him that you like him. and if he really likes you he will dump her for you!
good luck!
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Okay well I like this girl and she's a junior (yes I'm a girl too and I'm in 8th grade) but she has a boyfriend. I need help because I want to know if there's anyway I can forget about her because I know she'll never like me like that. But I really need help because I'm friends with this girl and I see her a lot so I need to stop thinking about her like that. Okay any advice would be cool and if you're only gonna say how girls liking girls is gross wrong etc don't cause ive heard it before and you can't change my mind. (link)
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I think the only think that will help you get over her is tell her how you feel. It always helped me to tell them that i like them.
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my friend is having a problem she is in 7th grade and so am i she got asked out by a 8th grader and she likes him a lot but she doesn't know if she should go out wit him or not some people say he is really weird and everything so can u please help my freind out (link)
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sounds like she really likes him. Also you shouldn't listen to otheres on who to go out with because you know wat kind of guy you would like to be around. so give him a chance and see wat happends. you will never know how good it could be.
hope i helped
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I have a terrible friend who thinks shes cool and hates me and my friends. She always hangs out with us and then talks about us behind our backs to US! I got into a fight with her(because Im the only one who will stand up for myself) and I hate having people hate me so i appologized and she just forgave me like that! (She said "I forgive you, HUG!") It bothers me and now were back to her using me and my friends and she thinks shes popular. What should I do? (link)
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i know just wat you mean. i think that you should rly talk to her about how you feel because you and your real friends don't deserve this shit from her. i say dump her and try to forget about it.
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