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How do you know when a guy is trying to get inside your pants? Like what are the signs that lead to this conclusion?
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Well, the truth is, every guy *wants* to get in your pants. And most guys will try. Some will try more aggressively than others, while some guys will back off if they meet with resistance... either because they don't think they have a chance, or because they really like and respect you. But either way, all guys are thinking that they'd like to get in your pants, and will do it if given the chance.
So the question you should really be asking is, How do you know when a guy ONLY wants to get in your pants? Well, it's not too hard to figure out. He'll pressure you to do more than what you want to do; he'll imply that he will dump you if you won't do it; whenever you're together, all he'll want to do is mess around, and if you don't want to, he'll get upset or stop giving you any attention.
A guy who really likes and cares about you for YOU will respect your limits. He'll stick with you no matter what. And yes, he may try from time to time to take things a little further (that's only natural), but if you say no, he'll accept that and won't pressure you.
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it depends on how the guy acts around you. like if he is really sexual and wants to make out alot, but you have to remember that not all guys are like that some guys like to make out because they know that the girl is not ready for sex. Also depends on how the was bought up because some praents thing that it's ok for there kids to see them having sex.
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it just depends on the guy.. but i have found that they usually do all the cute things girls want and try to make it more serious quicker..
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You know, it depends so much on the guy. Some guys are artists when it comes to seduction, some are quite clumsy, but don't kid yourself, pretty much all guys want to get into your pants. The key here is to find the ones that it is not their number one priority and are not looking for just a conquest.
I am going to clue you in on the best of them, the others are easy to spot in comparison.
The best way, believe it or not, to tell the true artist is if he focuses on you to the point of ignoring everyone else around him. The true artist knows that the way to get sex is to give the girls he's after all his attention. In general, you girls are pretty vulnerable to attention, it is at the core of all the great fairy tales. Prince Charming being entranced by Snow White.
Also, remember what I said, "the girls he's after". The artist rarely works only on one girl, the more he works on, the more likely one will pay off and it is the rare occasion that he fails with any one target.
So if a guy is making you feel like you're the only one in the room at a big party and you have only just met him, be careful around this one.
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Well...
- if he just starts talking to you at complete randomness.
- he calls you "hot" or "sexy, not "pretty" or "gorgeous"
- all he does is try to get in your pants, he asks you how far you've been, with who, and then hell try to go further [if possible]
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He always talks about sex.
He is always looking at you in a sexual manner, as in at your breasts and such.
He doesn't care about your feelings whatsoever.
He doesn't seem like someone who likes commitment.
But, here are some ways you can tell if he likes you and not just to get in your pants:
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From there:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
If you like this guy- and he does all or most of those things- my best bet is that he does like you. That means one and only one thing: Ask him to make sure, and then try the relationship out. Who knows- it could be great!
--Jack
(16/m)
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they ask you how far you've gone
they ask you how far you would go
they want just a 'hook up' but have no intention of a relationship.. this one is tricky. sometimes a guy may like you but just wants to hook up with you and doesn't want to go out with you. usually if the guy actually likes you he will want to hook up with you more than once. so basically, a sign would be if the guy just wants a one-time hook up.
they flirt with you a lot in sexual ways just after they meet you
they tell you you're hot, sexy, fine, etc. all the time but never compliment anything else or say you're beautiful, pretty, etc.
JOBROLOVER<33
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Well I know i've had my share of guyslike that, i'm a sophmore in highschool and many guys are just trying to get into my pants. One sign is that they want to hookup or so stuff before your officially boyfriend and girlfriend. Another sign is that they ask you how far you've gone. If they just want to hangout and do stuff all the time they probably dont care about you enough to just spend time with you.
I hope I helped a little i'm new at this.
I'd love to hear your reply.
-Amnes
P.S I hope this guy isn't!!
Do you have AIM or facebook you wanna talk more in detail about this guy.. i just recenctly broke up with a guy that sounds the same!And id love to help!
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Him telling you exactly what you want to hear.
Bringing up sex on a regular basis.
Frequently asking your beliefs on sex and/or talking to you about his friend's sex lives.
Physically trying to put his hands in your shirt and/or pants.
Telling you he loves you, you're his first true love, he wants to spend his life with you very soon in the relationship.
Him talking to your friends or anyone in general about your sex life.
Good luck
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