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gf interested in other guy
I recently read a few pages of my gf's journal (I know, I know, I shouldn't have) and she mentioned another guy that she is interested in. She writes about how happy she is when she sees this guy. Should I confront her about it or just see what happens?
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i would see what she does then if nothing happens forget about it and if something does happen ask her about it but if you just confront her right away it will make things harder because then shell be mad at you for readin her journal. p.s. i just ask me gf and she lets me read it so maybe it would work for you to.
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That wasn't a good idea but she shouldn't of left it out.Yes you should confront her about it.At first she will prob. be mad because you read it but you have to talk to her.Tell her is she sure she is with the right person because it doesn't seem like it.So yeah just talk about it and yet her know you care so much for her and now that you know this it hurt you alot. Good Luck ♥
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She shouldn't have left her journal where you could find it. If she doesn't want you to find out she shouldn't write it down or tell anyone. Things like this happen. Yes you need to do something about this. I know a guy whose girlfriend cheated on him through e-mails to another guy. She told him to go into her e-mail account to get something for her and while he was in there he found out. His friend convinced him to keep checking her e-mail. This isn't wrong. It's called curiosity and knowing the truth. Don't tell her that you read her diary, but confront her about what you learned in a indirect way. Say things like "how do you feel our relationship is going?" or "you've been acting different lately, are you having doubts?". Things like that. If she doesn't tell you anything, let it go and try to get a peek at her diary again after awhile to see if it was just a phase or not. If it's not a phase ask her directly. "Do you like so and so?". If at any time she asks you if you read her diary, don't lie, but try to avoid the question.
Trust needs to go both ways. She's talking about another guy so you have every right to check up on her even if it may have been wrong in the beginning. I hope I helped you and I hope everything gets worked out between you and your girlfriend. Good luck!
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wow not a good idea to read her journal. but if u talk to her about it you will have to tell her about you reading her journal. so i say that you should just wait and see what happends.. thats what it would be like if you have never read it in the first place.
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hey umm yeah that was bad move. also if you confront her about it then shes gonna know that you wre snopping in her journal. duh. so dont confront her just see what happens. you could try talking to one of her friends about it. cait ♥
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No, you should not confront her about this. You made the mistake by reading her journal. You really have no right to know that so you don't have a right to be angry at her about that. If you tell her she'll be very mad. You invaded her privacy so if you tell her it's defininetly going to be over. She may still like you more than this guy so don't blow it.
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You're right, you should never have done that but I suppose what's done is done. Clearly if you read her journal then your relationship has some trust issues - and to me it looks like your suspicions are confirmed. I suppose it all depends on how you are mentioned in context - ie if she says that she's happy when she sees him but she still loves you, or if you're not mentioned at all. I would bring it up with her if you are still suspicious, mainly because otherwise you'll drive yourself mad imagining things that may not be true, and that's not fair to either of you. But I hope the two of you work things out - good luck!
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