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afraid of rejection
theres this guy...I really like him...but im afraid to tell him. I want him to know so bad but I cant say it...Im afraid of being rejected...I need help! what should I do? Im very shy around guys though...justincase that helps...♥Danielle
btw im 13
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you're a sister from another mother! it's natural 2 feel the future when you're predicting what it's going to be like. i went through the same cycle but it didn't end up the way i wanted it to end up. the point is that even though things don't end up the way you want it 2 end up just know you have friends and family members 2 support you :) well if you want to tell him that you like him and you're wondering if he likes you, then ask a friend you trust if she could go tell him that you like him. that's a very easy and less embarrassing way to send the message. I HOPE EVERYTHING TURNS OUT GGGRRREEEAATTT 4 you:)
*** HERSHEY WISHES HUGS AND KISSES ***
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I know this is slightly different, but my friend was exactly the same about me. He took the risk though and now he's my boyfriend! Taking the risk does work and believe me its worth going through the fear of whether they'll say yes because if they do...I'm sure you know the feeling. You can never experience that happiness unless you just go for it! We all get rejected at some point in our lives, which is hard to deal with at the time but you will get over it I promise.
Otherwise, try to find out first if he likes you by getting one of your friends or his friends to find out for you.
Good luck hunni, really hope he says yes
Sapphire_Lily xxx
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Rejection is a very hard thing to deal with but you have to know that sometimes you will get rejected. But i think the only way you will ever find out if he likes you is by taking the risk. Also try to think of talkin to him as you would with any of your other friends. The more uncomfortable it is for you it probly will be for him.
hope i helped
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The most important part of being in realationships is learning how accept rejection, and that does just go for love relationships but everything in life. If he doesnt like you then dont worry sweetie other guys out there and if he does thats great! Never hold back how you feel, most guys see confidence as a very attractive quality. Im 15 and ive had many boyfriends...I wouldnt have if i hadnt had confidence. One thing you dont do is ask him out! tell him how you feel...When hes ready he will tell you how he feels..I hope i helped
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