Question Posted Wednesday February 8 2006, 4:10 pm
ok well every guy i have ever dated or any guy that has ever liked me tells me that i "hold up a wall" or that im "too hard to read". i dont get it! i dont think i am at all, so im not sure why guys say this. what can i do to make them see that im not like that?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? Dumbblond1chick answered Wednesday February 8 2006, 4:47 pm: If every guy youve been with has said you have a wall, so the fact is you probably do you just dont see it. I used to be the same, To show them your not you tare down that wall and be open with your boy friend. A boyfriend should be one of your bestfriends and conversations should include everything, You hsouldnt have limits! If they like you it should be they like all of you, They have to like the flaws so dont ever be afraid of saying whats on your mind. Thats how you tare down the wall and tahts hwo you show them, You say whats on your mind and dont limit anything when it coems to your boyfriends! [ Dumbblond1chick's advice column | Ask Dumbblond1chick A Question ]
TheLoveDoctor answered Wednesday February 8 2006, 4:47 pm: be more open with guys. for instance, tell them how you feel. don't care about what they might think just say what you think. of corse, watch what you say but don't be so judgemental about what you want to say to others and dont hold it all in. the real you is your thoughts and if they dont know what your thinking then they dont really know you at all. [ TheLoveDoctor's advice column | Ask TheLoveDoctor A Question ]
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