i am 14 and need a boyfriend, a friend, what's wrong with me
Question Posted Thursday July 31 2008, 7:15 am
IM 14, Female.
I am going on a cruise next year in Rome. I am so excited...the thing is i want to meet a guy or at least have a guy friend. Ive never kissed or had a boyfriend, i used to have guys that were my friends, but after sixth grade they stopped. I dont know what to do! Maybe im dorky. My friends are friends with popular kids but im not. Am i fat? Or ugly?
Description:
113 lbs
5'2"
Long Brown wavey hair, not gross hair i take care of it
green eyes
small nose
A size boobs
my friends say im gorgeous, but ive never seen a guy glance at me.
And how do I know if i act dorky, or dress weird?
As for getting guys, start small conversation. Joke around with them call them names, touch them in class (like a nudge or two), smile at them, get their phone numbers, ask to hang out, make plans, #1 be outgoing!
as for knowing if you are dorky or dress weird just look what people are wearing now-a-days. If you are wearing similar styles (doesn't have to be the same brand) you're probably fine. REMEBER THOUGH: everyone has their own style. You're probably not dorky, talk to guys and see how they react. Flirt a little and be outgoing
AnonymousAdvisor answered Thursday July 31 2008, 1:42 pm: Your DEFINATELY not fat...and judging by your description, your not ugly either.
After about the 6th grade, guys hit puberty, and it hits them hard. Mixed emotions, everything goes ballistic. I wouldnt worry too much about this.
If your around your friends, dont try to be something your not, just be yourself, if they're true friends, they wont care how you act.
As for the guy problems, I wouldn't worry about that either, guys dont tend to come out with their feelings.. especially around their friends.
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