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shaving and getting fingered
i am a fifteen year old female. the boy i have been making out with recently wants to step up our relationship. he wants to finger me which i am totally ready for and excited for. the only concern is that i have a lot of pubic hair, so i wonder if he will be grossed out. should i shave it for him? Thanks.
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i personally think yu should shave it like idkk its gonna be better even for yu like when your on yur periods just telling you but its your choice to keep it if yu want to girl
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ok if i were you i'd casually bring it up to me.. like say "my one friend started shaving yesterday.. isn't that weird?" this way you can find out what he likes without sounding dumb.. like for instance, if he says its dumb that she shaves, then you can cover it up by agreeing.. ORRRR if he says no i like it better shaved or whatever, you can say yeah so do i but isn't it weird that she just started yesterday? haha but only do that if you just want to know what he prefers then decide what to do. it is ultimately up to YOU and no one else. it might sound weird, but electric razors work best if you decide to.. and it doesn't hurt.. it only hurts if you don't do it right. if you want you should get this purple conair electric razor thing.. it works the besttttt. if you don't shave and he makes a big stink about it, he's not worth it anyway ♥ but just so you know, most girls shave already and most guys prefer it.. i asked two, telling them it was for my advice column and heres what they said:
1. its gross when girls dont shave...you should defantely shave it...most of my frends and practically every1 that i know thinks the same
2. shave that shit
there ya go, hope i helped!
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No, I would definitely not do that. Especially, not only for him. Being as your the one who will have to deal with the bumps, rashes and pain if you cut yourself down there, by accident. In my opinion, I think it's unnecessary and I do not recommend it. But you should do whatever makes you feel comfortable, not just what makes him feel comfortable or what he wants.
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DO NOT USE NAIR.
Trim it. AGAIN
DO NOT USE NAIR.
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i wouldnt use a razor because razors cause pumps, but you should use maybe nair or something that will get it off, other than shaving, since it will create stubble and bumps.
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i would sugest shaving most of it but leave a strip of trimmed hair around the actual area. do whatever YOU like. <3
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Since all guys are different they're going to like different things, especially when it comes to this. Some like it shaved, while the others like it trimmed and then you have the few who like it natural. I suggest just talking to your partner about this and asking him what he would like best.
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it really depends on the guy. some like it shaved, some like it trimmed, and some even like it bushy. but most of them like shaved so i suggest you shave it, he can always tell you what he likes if you ask. :D
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Shaving is your own choice. If it is just for him, I would recomend not doing it unless you and this guy are really serious and want to make the realtionship work and make the relationship a long lasting one. because once you shave it doesnt grow back to the way it was before and it hurts as it is growing back cause it goes all prikly. If he is really into you he will except that you have pubic hair as all girls have it.
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you could if you wanted, alot of guys are into it bein shaved but then again others don't it wouldnt be a bad i dea to shave it but don't stress it i doubt he'll care much, and btw make sure he cuts his nails cause that can hurt like a bitch form what my girlfriend told me
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i wouldn't shave it unless you really want it off cause it is painful to get back and the hair never comes back the way it use to... so just ask yourself if you want to be shaving your pubic hair everyday...
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not babie smooth but not a bush
i dont like it neither will men
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hey, well dont shave your hair if its just going to be for him. because trust me, once you shave it you can never get it back to normal. it will always be prickely. make sure its something that you really want to do before you do it. also some guys are grossed out by pubic hair. actually most guys are. but just be sure the shaving is for you and not him.
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